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I find in the club, its easier to undermind the alpha male structure that nighclubs are infested with. If you look around in any good nightclub worth sarging, what are you gonna see? A bunch of motherfuckers walking around with their chests blown out and their alpha male attitude glaring to the maximum. Yes, I know that not everyone in the club is going to be like this, but a large percentage of them will. All the rest of the men will be the awkward "im gonna come and dance with this random girl from behind and really creap them the fuck out" guys. I have found time and time again almost without failure that when I aproach any good looking girl in the club with good eye contact and a cool and confident mannerism, it leads to a dance without a word being spoken. Here, all you need to do is show her some dancing skills for 15-20 minutes. By doing so, you have eliminated the opening of the pickup, and already broken major ground with kino. Offer her a drink/bottle of water from the bar. Sit at a quiet table to rest, run with the pickup from this phase. (showing an intelligent/intruiging/confident alpha male who is dominant mentally and is physically confident will pay off more than an alpha male who follows the normal behaviors of physical dominance.) It's almost too easy. Just requires dance skills.
As far as the success of the alpha male who knows the bouncers and tips the fuck out of everyone for attention, these types usually end up with the kind of girl that loves to fuck every one of these alpha males that she meets. Which means your dick might be burning in the morning and you just lost a lot of money in tips. These girls tend to be the 10's of the club, but I have also found that most of these girls don't look as good in the monring as they did with lbs. of makeup on the evening before. But you still can and will find better, cleaner, less used girls by following the mysteriously laid back intelectual clubber method. Again, this is all from my expierences through the years as a club promoter, small time E dealer, and someone who enjoys the nightlife and clubbing scene.
--Methuselah
--Methuselah
You hit it on the club!When you talk about guys just going up to girls and grinding on them w/o permission.It creeps them out,If you ask them or if they ask you to dance then that's even easier to open up.If your a good dancer remember other women are watching you as well and take notice so if you can cut the rug you chances are better in hooking up.I need to take some more Salsa/Merengue classes.. Some of those woman are HOT!!
But like most guys in clubs say "YOU COME HERE A LOT"?? I know,I know...
I have even used it,I'm trying so bad to stay away from it because I am sure woman have heard that line 80% of the time they meet someone in the club.
I don't go clubin' as much as I use to,but the club scene never changes just the music and people going.
Another way to meet woman is sent them a drink and ignore them just for a second,don't go up to them right away.Chill and wait then approach'em, if she puts up a toast or if you don't feel like going just wave hi or smile at them.
Woman love mysterious guys and sometimes they'll walk towards you and thank you for the drink.