So, since I'd like more people to write journals, I'll do so myself aswell.

How is this journal different than my field reports?
Very simple, I'm cutting out all the noise and focus on the pick up themselves.

Last night:

Architecture party. We arrived late.
Opened 2 sets. First set (4 set) was solely to wing this dude that started talking to one of the girls. The girl I was talking to was friendly, bantered around a bit.

Second set was while we were leaving:

lone wolf
me: "hey, give me your phone number"
she: "just like that?"
me: "yep"
she: "how old are you?"
me: "guess"
she: "20"
me: "bingo ~hands over phone~"

She banters around a bit then gives me the phone back when my mates talk to me.

I didn't show intent as response to 'just like that?'. I'll try it again with "I like your appearance, are you always like this?"

Notes:

Be sure to give a 'why'. WHY would I ask her number like that.



Feedback is more than welcome

I was hoping I could type something today. But I totally blacked out on what happened last night.

Good party though

I'm going to promise myself a few things.

1. write up stuff on saturday and sunday later

Seconds,

I need to motivate myself more, so I'm going to be setting a few goals.

1. put more structure to my game. as in open, escalate physically, escalate vibe (both at the same time durrrr), go for the kill. Throw in some rapport stuff for solidness. Only build comfort when needed.

2. Be less of an ass, more sincere. I feel like I've been going overboard with the 'being an ass' thing. Although I feel it's good to have explored that part, I want to try out something else.

This is interesting. She didn't reject you after you said 'give me your number'. Instead, she asked how old you were. She made an attempt to start a conversation first and get to know you a little bit before giving her number away like that perhaps?

Meaning that this may have worked if you had talked to her for just a little bit longer.
I'm facing the very same challenge. I'm naturally a ballbuster and may have a tendency to cross the line sometimes . . .

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Yeah, I was too fixated on getting the number as I had to leave the venue. Next time I do something like that again, I'll consider it a Sign of Interest and escalate from there.

Anyway.

Strawman method.

Last night I got talking with a girl, that when I opened her told me she had a bf.

opener: "hey, what's up?"

after some touching she tells me she has a boyfriend, I told her that's cool. Cooled the interaction down to fluff talk. We got talking about learning new stuff, what we'd like to learn and etcetera.
She tells me: I always have new ideas, but when I try it it's not what I imagined it to be like, and the effort you've got to put into it doesn't make me continue"
I go: "but I'm sure you're boyfriend is really supportive whenever you find a new hobby"
she: "no......not really"
me: "oh well, I'm sure he's a great guy for you"
she: "yeah......"
I decided I had enough of the the talking, so I did my little dancefloor routine on her (grab her hand, spin her around, pick her up and spin around with her in your arms). She loved it, things sped up after that. She got closer, I got closer. I went for the make out, she went for the make out. SCORE