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PostPosted: Tue Feb 08, 2011 12:56 am 
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It's time to brag! You all know you like to!

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PostPosted: Tue Feb 08, 2011 4:04 am 
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I fools mated one in 3 seconds flat.

"Hey I lost my number... can I have yours?"

Keep in mind that it was probably my 785th attempt that actually got me a number.

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PostPosted: Tue Feb 08, 2011 8:25 pm 
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That's funny. Are you trying to conquer approach anxiety?

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That's funny. Are you trying to conquer approach anxiety?

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Not anymore. That project has already run it's course.

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Fastest number for me was around 10 secs. Without opening my mouth

I'm walking buy restaurant and as I look into the window I see a waitress stand right by it. I knock on the window, take out my phone; point to it, while making a call me gesture with my hand. She types her number in her phone then puts it to the window. Done..

Never actually textd or called tho.. :D

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PostPosted: Tue Feb 08, 2011 10:45 pm 
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Jits138,

How did you overcome your approach anxiety?

I'm still working on this.

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Fuze,

That's impressive!

Why didn't you ever contact her?

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I forgot bro.. Its just a girl


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PostPosted: Wed Feb 09, 2011 3:20 am 
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Jits138,

How did you overcome your approach anxiety?

I'm still working on this.

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I followed the 3 foot rule for a couple weeks. Anytime anyone is within 3 feet of you you have to start a conversation. Extra points for not making an ass of yourself lol! AA destroyed completely.

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Jits138,

Haha, i'll definitely have to give that rule a shot, because approach anxiety is the primary antagonist when it comes to my success with women.

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PostPosted: Fri Feb 11, 2011 3:44 am 
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Haha, i'll definitely have to give that rule a shot, because approach anxiety is the primary antagonist when it comes to my success with women.

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Ha yea was with me too. Funny thing is that it's the easiest thing to get good at.

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I can get a number in 10 secs with pretty good consistency.

1) Come up and say you're trying to find your phone, can they please help you out and ring it.

about half the time they will just take out their phone and call your phone if you look serious enough

Adam Lyons has a better way:

2) Tell them you need to meet your friend in the next 5 mins, they are supposed to call you and you don't seem to be getting a reception. Can they please call you?

The caveat with groups is that you don't know who in the group will call you :P
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PostPosted: Wed Feb 16, 2011 12:12 am 
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NaturalApproach,

That's clever! I like it.

Has this routine produced any positive results for you aside from simply securing a #?

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Has this routine produced any positive results for you aside from simply securing a #?
Exactly.

Use some excuse or trick to get a number is dishonest and unless you make a funny joke out of it later, and then build rapport with her, she'll obviously flake.

If you n-close too quickly, for the most part, again no rapport, flake time.

My fastest closes happen when I run into a shop where a hottie is working and go direct, and straight for the close, because she's fucking working and busy and she'll get in trouble. So I just go straight for it (whole interaction is a couple of minutes, max). Sometimes the sheer confidence is enough, and I've left with this kind of mystery, which keeps her interested enough to want to meet me. Like in this FR direct-high-impact-vt84665.html

However, in general, a close that isn't at least 5 minutes will probably flake on you because she simply doesn't know who you are enough, and you know nothing about her either.

Furthermore, numbers mean SHIT anyway. If you make the focus of your interaction finding out about her, and you actually set up the day 2 right there before getting the number, you'll reduce your flake rate MASSIVELY.

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Has this routine produced any positive results for you aside from simply securing a #?
Exactly.

Use some excuse or trick to get a number is dishonest and unless you make a funny joke out of it later, and then build rapport with her, she'll obviously flake.

If you n-close too quickly, for the most part, again no rapport, flake time.

My fastest closes happen when I run into a shop where a hottie is working and go direct, and straight for the close, because she's fucking working and busy and she'll get in trouble. So I just go straight for it (whole interaction is a couple of minutes, max). Sometimes the sheer confidence is enough, and I've left with this kind of mystery, which keeps her interested enough to want to meet me. Like in this FR direct-high-impact-vt84665.html

However, in general, a close that isn't at least 5 minutes will probably flake on you because she simply doesn't know who you are enough, and you know nothing about her either.

Furthermore, numbers mean SHIT anyway. If you make the focus of your interaction finding out about her, and you actually set up the day 2 right there before getting the number, you'll reduce your flake rate MASSIVELY.

BlondGuy I hate to be a pain, but your probalythe most knowledgable active poster on the forums I know of. Think you can take a look at my post and make a comment? Thanks bro

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