Okay so here's what happened... Made plans to meet up with a girl. I had tried before to meet up she blew me off so I stopped getting hold of her. She got hold of me the very next week and said lets meet up. I said sure, but I got other plans so I'll get there later. We met at a bar.

She texted to hurry up and come join her, I didn't reply. Finally told her I was on my way. Get there. Massive greetings, literally jumped in my arms. Then it gets weird...

She said I was like her "brother" when introducing me to her friend. Literally got up and walked away. I didn't react to it, just simply smiled at the friend got up and went over to some other chick I knew and chatted to her for a while. Figure it was shit test, or an instant closed door. Either way, ignore that shit right? Later on, I see her sitting on another dudes lap. I know this dude, he's a pushover. I know he's not pulling any moves to have got her there. And I notice she's looking at me. It's some sort of shit test, trying to get me to react. Figure I'm going to freeze her out, she has to come to me now. I made the effort of being at the bar. She didn't come over...

Carried on with our night, then her mate comes up re-introduces herself and says they're going on to another bar, and I should really come along. I just say no, I was having a good time where we were. Said cheers to their little group and off they went.

I will admit, I was actually pretty pissed off with all this. I'm thinking fuck this chick, I'm wasting my time. Then, after an hour or so, they're back! I'm standing at the bar, and I look over and her two mates are standing there. I'm like what are you doing back here? They say she (my target) wanted to come back. So I'm thinking hold on, that's a definite IOI. She comes up we sit chatting and carrying on at the bar, next thing she's off again ignoring me. I did fail to escalate and kino while talking to her, cause I was frankly a little drunk by then and any rules or tips just weren't in my head. Night starts to end her and her mates keep saying I should go home with them. Mind this isn't out of her mouth it's from her two girlfriends, telling me shit. I'm not in high shool! What the fuck is this!? I was drunk and couldn't drive anywhere and had already organised a lift with another mate to crash at her digs. She texted me before I even woke apologizing for being so drunk. I think I was so drunk I didn't even notice...

So what the fuck do I do now? This chick is playing way too many fucking games. She digs me, it's obvious I think. I'm not sure on how to get her to drop all these shit tests or whatever they are. Any tips on what I should have done, and should do now, would be good.

fuck her and forget her

she is immature.

how old is she?

she's got no game. no girl-game. all she knows is how to tease, but no followthrough.

I think you should be more persistent . . . To me it seems that whenever you spot a 'test', you simply walk away - wanting her to chase you all the time.

She didn't do it the first time, so what makes you think she'll do it again? Instead, she throws additional 'tests' at you. And you do what? The same thing!





Try being persistent next time. Yes, ignore her shit tests in whichever way pleases you - but actually keep making moves on her.

The only reason you're supposed to brush off shit tests and ignore them like that - is to show that they have no effect on you. You're unreactive and your confidence is too strong to be pierced through, that's the message.

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if my friend above is right and she is immature, forget about her, she's just wasting ur precious time.

but if she is not and u really like to fuck that bitch....
next time she gives u an IOI or come near to you to talk or something, escalate and kino her, engage her..........

if she does not allow you to escalate, punish her and give IOD's - a lot of them.

the most effective way to shit test her and if she is really into you and you want to make her uncomfrtable, hook up with another girl and that too in front of your target.

this should definitely turn on her evolutionary jealous switch....if she does not respond to this, just leave her, u still got the girl u made out with !!

its all win win..