That's the last time I'm telling my friends anything regarding me and some female. One of my friends is a fag and whenever there are girls in the room he'll bring up me and my ex. "Did you know he broke up with his ex. He hit it and quit it hahaha" Automatically, there's at least 1 female who turns on her bitch shield towards me. I don't even say nothing back when my dumbass friend says that. Just give him the "w/e man" look, and the subject changes. Anyways, so when the bitch shield is on, I get shit tested like no other from that particular female.

"You're not good looking/hot." Is the one I get, especially when I'm making sexual tension. I'm no Brad Pitt, I think I'm a decent looking guy. I'm trying to sound humble so please don't think I'm some conceited fag... But I've been told nice things about my looks. (And not just from my mom! lol) But damn, it's starting to get to my head. Why shit test me so damn harshly! I've been around enough to know that I should ignore that type of stuff, so I do.

Anyways, these bitch shields are starting to mess with me. Is there something I can do so these females won't turn on there bitch shields?

Tease/neg her.

Don't matter how perfect you think she is, she has flaws too.

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'Does she grab your hand?' F*ck you! I want to grab her mind. If I can
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Either tell your 'friend' to knock that shit off or quit hanging out with him.

Ummmm . . . maybe you're trying to overcome the wrong obstacle??

It's not the girls and their shit tests you should be worrying about - it's that stupid ass 'friend' of yours.

He's the obstacle. Overcome it.

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hmm, why hang out with a queer who insults you in front of hot women?

your 'friend' knows you have game and is purposely destroying you so that he can have a shot.

I agree with the other posters, get rid of your "friend" at least while you are sarging or trying to get laid.

Alright, I guess I can go back to negging when they say some shit like this. Mmm will I break rapport though?

Funny thing is I'm not even trying to sarge/laid, I'm just on campus talking to some people and he blurts it out. (Well, I guess I wouldn't mind getting laid by a few of them some of them) But yea, I'ma cut it off with him for a bit, see how things go. Thanks for the posts gentlemen.

you can look at it in 2 ways:

1) Stop hanging out with "friend"-PU will get much easier for you.
2) Keep hanging out with him. PU will get more difficult, but you'll learn much faster.

When you have your personal AMOG with you, you get constant practice. Great way to improve your game FAST... and then (when you feel you're THE MAN) stop hanging out with him.

Agreed, I have a friend like this. He tells every girl I like that I "sleep around" whatever that means because, i figured out, he is trying to play the "nice guy, be the girls friend" card. He even says shit like "she is my friend too, not just u" when I call him up on it.

But guess what, I still get all the girls and he gets nothing, regardless what he says. It just makes it slightly harder, but not all that much. The fact that you can sleep around means your attractive and he will never be anymore then "the friend" who told her.

Excatly bro. They try to be that "nice guy". Little does he know he's shooting himself in the friend zone. He has yet to do anything with any of these girls.

i have a gay friend like that too... just dont game around him

Breaking rapport is good, it creates tension, as for negging, I'm not reall sure what that would achieve. I mean a neg isn't a fix-all tool for "shit went wrong", if you are going to use it, then it should be used in the context it was meant for.

LOL . . . I forget at which age this type of stupid goes out of style. I'd say that once these guys lose their virginity, they'd probably lose this high level of discomfort around women. What this guy is saying has little to do with you and more with the fact that he has NOTHING to say to women. So he transfers 'responsibility' of actually CONVERSING about 'love, sex, relationships, etc . . ." to you and blurts out what he can. It's "Ohhh no, it's not me! It's him! He's the freako! . . . Oh, Mikey thinks your hot! . . . Oh, mikey wants to ask you out. . . .Oh, Mikey is a playa! . . . Oh Mikey hit it and quit it."

Now the way women respond to you after has less to do with what the "12 year" old just said and more to do with the way you responded. How should you respond? . . . Just as you would with a 12 year old. "

"Nice . . . can't bring you anywhere. Once you get to 'dating age', you'll figure some things out. . ." - "Now where were we?"

And when you get a chance, sit him down and ask him, "What is your goal? What is the end result that you're looking for when you tell the ladies, ______, _______? I have news for you. Keep that shit up and you won't lose your virginity until your 40.

Thanks for the post gentlemen.

K-Sab, +rep!