okay, so here's the deal, a couple of years ago i met this HB9 and started chatting her up, it was before my game days, nevertheless i did quite good and we ended up together, and was dating for a while, we had both had just come out of a serious relationship, i was having a bad case of one-itis, and we couldn't really make it work.

so about a month ago she started contacting me again, she was single i had a new girlfriend, and wanted to hit me up, and go get a cup of coffee, and i was thinking "screw coffee, no wait, dont screw coffee! Screw me instead"!! So I invited her over we had a lot of fun and we started seeing each other pretty regularly.

what then happens is that my girlfriends breaks up with me, great now i can lay this girl, she comes over, i get her naked (very easily) and then when she's in her panties, she tells me "uhm I kinda came by to tell you i've got a boyfriend"
Goddamn it im thinking, what is it with this girl and timing, but nevertheless, I'm in game now, and i had been gaming her the entire time, so theres no way i'm backing down from this, so i run some push-pull and a boyfriend destroyer (which was easy because I read a text over her shoulder and he was seriously needy, never seen anything like it) well a little push-pull later, i tease her about owing her some orgasm's from some blowjobs she had given me once and when she responded positively i switched my nonverbal to sexual, then my verbal and now we're having sex.
she DLV'ed her boyfriend quite a lot while we were in the talking fase.

now she was supposed to come by helping my room mate with some theatrical work tonight, and this is what happens.

me text: hey babe, when are you comming over?
her text: Im in odder (a small town) so it's gonna be pretty late
me text: okay sweety

about two hours later

me text: hey sweety Matt is asking when you're comming by
her text: i've sent him a text
me text: he's lost his phone, so he wont be getting it :/
her text: okay sweety. tell him that im in odder and that i cant come tonight, im sorry for telling so late, didn't know his phone was broken I am at a spontaneous birthday party for my boyfriends mom (correct translation would be: mother in law)
me text: okay sweety i'll tell him

these text are basicly word for word, so you have the best possible background for helping me out here.
she is obviously a bit messed up, because she likes me better than the boyfriend and clearly value's me higher (and yes, i am absolutely positive it isn't a shit test, i know he exist) also she cheated on him with me.
yet she doesn't want to hurt him, and he is very insecure and needy, so is this her trying to patch up things with him, or am i over analyzing this.
if she comes by again, and she will, i know we will end in bed, its not going to be a problem for me.

so what im basicly going to do is this:
1: give her some space
2: be comfortably with her boyfriend, act like i don't care (which is easy because I really dont, i just dont want her to alienate me, thus making any future sex harder to achieve)
3: run push-pull, and validate the reasons i give for having her over
4: not initiate any contact

So that's the game plan, any positive/negative feedback and/or advice is appreciated thanks guys

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right now she's in a secure thing. she will probably fuck you no problem, but she won't think about jumping-relationships unless she feels confident that you're really into her and want to be in a relationship with her.

so it depends what you want.

if you want to be in a relationship with her (although why would you since she's just going to cheat on you once you become boring), then maybe initiate a little bit of contact, nothing much, maybe a txt or short phonecall every now and then.

if you just want to fuck her, then your plan is solid. she will come to you once she gets bored, horny, unsatisfied, or lonely.

@Philosoraptor-I agree with you.

D.O.S. should keep this a fling.

Not a good idea trying to become a bf to a cheating girl.

So dont use any bf destroyers,etc.unless you're trying to make her your gf(bad idea).

You should be encouraging her to stay with her current bf and not try to steal her away.

So why not be satisfied with the fling?

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Oh i am very satisfied initially used them to lower his value so i could get into bed with her, so knows that's all i want and she's fine with it, it just puzzled me that she suddenly tried to leave me hanging and tried to tell my flat mate without telling me since it doesn't work very well into the way she usually act's.

well anyway im going in field instead to do some sarging tonight, gonna post a field report tomorrow to let you guys know how it went

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So far you've been doing great. If you keep up the good work, she will want you more and more. Getting her to break up with that pretty lame boyfriend of hers won't be a problem.

I just hope you know where you're going with this.

She cheated on her boyfriend with you.

What makes you think she won't cheat on you with someone else?

Face it, you're not the greatest guy in the world, and someone with slightly better game than you can *just as easily* fuck her.

Keep that in mind, that's all.

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Thanks for the feedback guys, and don't worry, not looking for anything long term.

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