If on a date, what to say if she brings up stories about her ex, or other boys?

In order to avoid FRIEND ZONE...


Ignore it? Say something like, " ok cool, really interesting " (sarcastic)

What to do?

You should pick up similarities between her ex's if she can't help but talk about them....she was attracted to them for some reason(s)

That would be my advice if you are gaming her, just take her ex's best attributes/traits and disgard the things she defo hated

Hope that helps a little bit

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"Do I look like a gentleman to you in this shirt and these pants?"

"I know you from some place."

not better to changfe subjects?

Apocalyptica,

If she starts talking about typical "friend zone" subjects (such as ex boyfriends and whatnot) - just agree with what she's saying.

"Ah, that's too bad"
"Yeah, he seemed nice"

Whatever.

Make it short and simple. And if you can in any way RELATE to her situations, then DO so.

"Hm that reminds me of my ex when she _____"

Again: Short and simple.

And then quickly change subjects

Don't be afraid to just cut off the subject and move on to something else. Shows behaviors of dominance, even though it might seem rude (try not to make it seem that way . . . ).

So simply:

*Agree
*Relate
*CUT and change subjects

Make sure that your conversations are all FUN and interesting. Don't go into weird ass depressing subjects.

You want her to remember you as a fun guy. You want her to relate FUN with you. This way, she'll want to go another date and move things further.

Good luck

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Do you escalate kino-wise ?

My opinion is build yourself a strong frame, so that if it ever happens again, you just ignore what she says and talk about something you like (you do this in very dominant manner).

You could IOD her, and tell her that your not interested in talking about other guys when you're with her (get closer to her, slow down, smooth out, change the way you look at her and do some push pull ) .


I think the key here is being dominant and controling the frame, be the prize for fuck sake.