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PostPosted: Sun Jan 16, 2011 5:40 pm 
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Hi!

This is the case!
Ive been talking to this girl about 2-3 months now. We've been texting and talking on the phone alot. About two weeks ago i went out with her, cuz she was in town and i asked her out. When we were out, my head just went blank! I didnt know what to say. I think it was because we've been talking with each other so much.
As you maybe figured out Im not the talking type, i have no problem with talking but I dont talk so much. I dont mind letting her talk, but now we really dont have anything to say anymore.
So my question is
Any ideas what I can talk about?

im gonna see her in two weeks again and i dont want that cold chat again.
"Crazy weather we've gotten this winter" blahblah blah

All Answers qould be appreciated!

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PostPosted: Mon Jan 17, 2011 8:27 am 
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Someone in the forum already mentioned a trick when face this situation.
When run out of stuffs to say (which shouldnt happen because you need to talk less and make her qualifies herself), look into her eyes and say "I know you want to suck my cock"
It was fieldtested. Use it at your own expend.
One more note, no matter how she REACTS, NEVER back down from your words and say "I was just kidding" ( that is an AFC move)


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PostPosted: Mon Jan 17, 2011 1:09 pm 
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It's not that you don't have anything to talk about it's just that your not comfortable with her or with yourself. I have this problem myself sometimes, I'm by no means a PUA but I know how to talk to women get em somewhat interested. You just gotta not give a fuck what you say, talk about sex talk about interesting adventures, talk about future plans etc.
Yeah your right ive thought about it, and every time i talk to her, its like im talking to her to impress her. But I dont need to impress her anymore. So i should just talk with her in the same way i do with my other friends. Thx for the advice! =D


And Yeah ive read that "I know you want to suck my cock"
I really dont think this would work here =/
It maybe would work the 3-4 first times you talk to her. but when you get to know someone. Then i dont think its so wise to say "i know you want to suck my cock"

But yeah, it would be fun to try it out some day =D


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PostPosted: Mon Jan 17, 2011 2:03 pm 
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How about taking things to the next level instead?

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PostPosted: Mon Jan 17, 2011 3:36 pm 
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ItAnd Yeah ive read that "I know you want to suck my cock"
I really dont think this would work here =/
It maybe would work the 3-4 first times you talk to her. but when you get to know someone. Then i dont think its so wise to say "i know you want to suck my cock"
Tell me, do you want to make her a friend or what? When where you planning to get this sexual? Where is the kino, the banter, the flirting?

You are right, it would not work for you. Why? Because you are deep in the friend zone. You've seen her 3-4 time over 2-3 months and talked enough to run out of topics.

A bit more on topic, you might want to plan a date which has natural things to talk about. For exemple if you take her to a museum, it's easy to talk about the art or whatnot.

But seriously, men up and escalate

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PostPosted: Mon Jan 17, 2011 3:49 pm 
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Why the fuck were you talking with her for months before actually doing anything?

If you can't think of shit to say, ask her interesting questions and get her to talk about HERSELF. Everyone loves talking about themselves.

You don't need to talk too much if you PHYSICALLY ESCALATE. You can be saying the most banal shit but if you've got your arm around her and are stroking her leg whilst you're saying it slowly and with a deep tone, the weather can sound a hell of a lot sexier!

DON'T be afraid to bring up sexual topics, ever. If you're cool with it and comfortable, she will be. For example, be talking about relationships, then what she likes in a guy. Then what she likes a guy to DO to her. Then favourite sex positions, craziest place she's ever had sex, sexual fantasies of hers. Boom. Now she's telling you exactly what she likes in the bedroom AND is visualising sex (probably with YOU since she's looking right at you!)

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PostPosted: Mon Jan 17, 2011 3:54 pm 
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DON'T be afraid to bring up sexual topics, ever. If you're cool with it and comfortable, she will be. For example, be talking about relationships, then what she likes in a guy. Then what she likes a guy to DO to her. Then favourite sex positions, craziest place she's ever had sex, sexual fantasies of hers. Boom. Now she's telling you exactly what she likes in the bedroom AND is visualising sex (probably with YOU since she's looking right at you!)
got so much time for this , great advice

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PostPosted: Mon Jan 17, 2011 5:32 pm 
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Yee you are all right!
i really should
"But seriously, men up and escalate"

Im just being a wimp!!!! Im not gonna fool around anymore.
Time to men up and escalate!

Lets see if it done as easily as said!

Thx guys! Really appreciate the replys! =D


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