I went to a party last night, and tried this trick: I went around talking to all the girls and told them: "I'm terrible with names, but I want to get some practice, so I have a game. And there's a drink in it for you--But wait, there's a catch. You tell me your name, if I forget your name I'll buy you a drink, and if you forget my name you buy me a drink."

The idea is that you get all the girls to remember your name, and also as you walk by, you get girls excitedly shouting out your name, which is great! And a major DHV.

So far, so good. Then I came across a dumb girl. Next time I saw her, she says "I remembered your name, so you have to buy me a drink now!" I said, no, that wasn't the deal, I said I would buy you a drink if I forgot your name. So we started debating this, and in the end she screamed out "You know what, you're just a cheapskate and I'm not going to talk to you!"

(Oh wait, you're not supposed to talk logic to a girl... )

So anyway, how do you fix something like this? I just said "fine" and walked away, but is there a better way to deal with this? She pretty much ruined my image at the entire party.

Maybe say something like "Yes, don't talk, listen, work on your listening skills", but then I don't want to stick around and argue, and yet I don't want to just accept that she called me a cheapskate.

Any thoughts?

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I would personally yell back something like "We're over! I can't fucking believe you cheated on me with my best friend. You're a stupid whore"....... Completely turning the tables and ruining her image even if it's something absolutely ridiculous like that

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I agree with JesseRIder to shout back, but I wouldnt make it as serious, you dont want to be the guy that causes a scene shouting accross a room that your now ex is a whore...

I'd shout something that could make the whole thing look like a joke.. eg. 'well I can't believe you cut my sandwiches into squares...you know I like triangles...that's it we're over, and you can keep my miley cyrus cd, i bought another one anyway' but say it dead over the top like it's the end of your world//



If you wanted to be really bitchy you could go for 'I can't believe you would ask me for money to sleep with you'...but again..probably best to not go down that route.

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-_- what ever you do don't revert to shouting back at her. obviously its a shit test. she wanted that drink regardless of it all. in that situation. what i would have done is go:

me-"ok, lets go get you a drink"

i'd walk her towards the bar/drink area and as i'm doing that, i will scan the room for another guy, when i found one right before we walk by him, i would say to her

me"Hey, that guy looks like a guy that would buy you a drink."
then walk up to the guy and say

me" hey, this lady here would like for you to buy her a drink, she not the best listener but everyone has there flaws"

doing this all with a smile and just walk away. doing this shows you that:
1) you don't take shit from her
2) its still just fun and games to you
3) You are not there arguing with a girl at a party like an AFC or revert to shouting back at her


she'll definitely respect you more after doing this

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Yeah I think NonStopReaper's solution makes more sense here. If I shout it just means that I've gotten angry because a girl isn't talking to me, which doesn't say much about me.

There was a cockblocking AFC there kissing the girl's ass saying he heard it her way, I should have just told him he should buy her the drink.

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"I'd tell her to go shove her face in the pig pen, and go out and find another one who'll kiss you without askin for the earth. You're bound to find one. You can hardly throw half a brick back in the lands you come from without hittin one."
Stardust

You're turned a game into an argument, trying to solve something that cannot be solved.

She was majorly shit testing you, trying to get a drink even if she knew those weren't the rules. And trust me, she wasn't so retarded to the point that she didn't understand the rules. She did understand them.

What I would do in the middle of her "argument" is just smile while she keeps arguing. Just smile and look at her. Then maybe add a little "That's so cute".

Change the subject, talk about something else, try telling her you'll give her a hug because she tried so hard etc etc.

Important thing is, don't try arguing about stupid shit like that. Smiling and calling her cute always works. She'll be like WTF, but still blush a little. Not to mention that your smile will infect her and she'll do the same.

Not always the case, but it works.

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Yeah, good point, like I said, I forgot that you can't argue logic with a girl.. but I didn't know what else to do. Good tip for avoiding the argument in the first place.

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"I'd tell her to go shove her face in the pig pen, and go out and find another one who'll kiss you without askin for the earth. You're bound to find one. You can hardly throw half a brick back in the lands you come from without hittin one."
Stardust