DAY 16: first night game session.
Number closing the most incredible girl of the party.
Wow... Yesterday I went to a birthday party. That's simple I knew nobody except Rusty, the friend who invited me. That was my first try in night game (if we can call that night game).
Still on day game.
Obviously, the party was at night, but I went out during the day to practice a little. I had several great interactions with store's employees and people in general. Somehow, I ended in a student campus and approached two sets to ask directions: a 4-set and a 2-set. That was the first time I opened a 4-set but it went really well. For the two approaches, I was not shy at all, I was confident and relaxed but only asked for direction. Good news is: I can easily open for direction... Bad news is: I still don't know how to go further. Whatever, I'll work on Day Game later (and probably use routines or go direct).
Enjoying night game.
8pm: time to meet Rusty and to go to the bar where the party is.
ABOUT THE PARTY.
It was a birthday party of a friend of Rusty's. Since I told him I wanted to practice night game, he got me invited (thanks buddy). It was an all-you-can eat buffet with music so that people can dance. When I got there,
I didn't know anybody but I was in a really good state of mind.
INTRODUCING ME.
Rusty introduced me to the girl celebrating her birthday. I KINOed her while kissing her hello. I did the same to the other guys Rusty introduced me to. Actually, he only knew a small part of the people invited to the party. Since I decided to be
THE DAMN GUY of the night, I quickly started to spontaneaously introduce myself to everyone, KINOing the girls, being cool with the guys. The recipe was simple:
KINO, small interactions with everyone & confidence.
BEING COOL.
There were a lot of guys so I decided to be cool with them. I spoke with a lot of them. I knew it was important to know as many people as I could before even thinking about gaming a girl. I wanted to be the
social guy who would never be by himself during the party. Guys were cool and friendly, they allowed me to DHV a lot.
LOW LEVEL.
I have to admit it, the level was very low... Yet, one of the girls was a sexy HB8 (= HB A) and another came later... a
wonderful HB9 (= HB M).
MEETING HB8 A.
She was really sexy but since it was her birthday too, I did not manage to really speak with her. I only introduced myself by kissing her hello while applying KINO (= KISSNO) and only had quick interactions with her. She was the only good target though, until HB 9 M came.
MEETING HB9 M.
She was incredibly beautiful... and alone. I did a small KISSNO since I tought she came with a guy at the beginning... but that was not the case. I quickly spoke with her at the beginning but that was not enough for me.
1st try: She spent a lot of time sit at a table with other girls around her. Since I spoke with the Russian girl who was at her right, I started a conversation with her about Russia and make her leave her sit. The idea was to isolate HB M and destroy the cockblockers. At the same time, I wanted her to see that she was the only one to not have fun with me. The conversation with the Russian girl was flaking so I ejected. I failed on approaching her.
2nd try: About 15 min later, I went back to Rusty. He was speaking to another girl and I can't remember how but we started to speak about a girl that was sit at HB M's left. Since I was not introduced to her, I asked him to do so. I spoke with her and ignored deliberately my target. It was hard to introduce myself to her after that so I ejected... but I think ignoring her was a good thing...
3nd try: The former girl left her sit, another girl was now at HB M's left. I also knew her since one of the guy I spoke with introduced me to her. I noticed she left her sit so I stole it from her. I was in the right spot to finally open HB M. Wow?
THE LAST COCK BLOCKER.
As I sat down and looked at her, the birthday girl came to speak to her... Sh*t! Well actually that was okay, I was cool and listened to them speaking. She left and I started to talk.
WOW.
She was so beautiful... It was not hard at all to maintain eye contact. I engaged conversation with her and we spoke a lot about her future trip to South America and the fact I was going to Brazil. The music was loud, so I took advantage and get closer to her; I KINOed her a lot: shoulder, legs... I listened to her but lost focus some time: I broke eye contact and looked away... I wanted her to know that she had to deserve my attention. Then I ejected. I said that I wanted to go back to Rusty and that we would spoke later. I left her and she was by hersefl, at that table...
- Good points:
- Leaving her.
- Losing focus to make her understand she has to deserve my attention.
- Approaching her finally!
Points to improve:
- My body language was saying that I was fully available to her... I should not have faced her.
- I did not set a right frame of sedution... The conversation was friendly and not about seduction.
HB M COMING TO ME
I went back to Rusty... About 20 min later, she got up. I noticed it and told her that she should meet Rusty... She replied she already has been introduced to him. Sh*t... that's not good on the compliance ladder. Whatever. A few minutes later, she came back and started to speak with the two of us. Once again my attention was not entirely focused on her.
RE-FRAMING HB M.
I realized something: I had not set up a seduction/sexual frame but a friendly one. That was bad I guessed so I decided to do something about it...
I wanted to know if she was reluctant to seduction frame. So I told her I like her earrings. She did not seem nervous at all... she touched her ears to remind herself which one she was wearing and told me thanks. I negged her on how strange it was that she had to touch her ears to remember them. (Don't blame me guys, I'm still an amateur).
HB M LEAVING: TIME TO NUMBER CLOSE.
30 minutes later, she was about to leave. I noticed it. She was looking for her jacket. "Oh, you're leaving?" "yes" "Oh ok" then I came back to Rusty and pretend to don't give a f**k. The magical part was that she came to me to tell kiss me good by. My KISSNO was scandalous. That was not a usual kiss to say good bye, but two kisses on her cheecks. Right after I told her we be contacts on Facebook so we could see our photos of South America... I asked her her name and so but make her undersand that would be hard to find each other. "Oh wait, I have an idea, give me you phone number, I'll send you the link to my profile". She agreed... BINGO
- Good points:
- Getting her to come to see good-bye.
- Getting the number.
- KISSNO!
Points to improve:
- Poor excuse to get her number... Truth is 1) she is not from Paris and (as far as I understood it) was about to leave to her hometown and 2) she'll leave France in three weeks to South America.
WHAT TO DO NOW?
Knowing that I actually have no chance to see her again since she might not even be in Paris anymore... what can I text her aside of the url of my profile? When should I text her?
SIDE NOTE: HOW I BECAME THE PUNISHER
After the number close, some people started to act weirdly... HB A seemed suspicious and her cousin (a HB6) tried to play me... I told her my name and she asked me to guess her name. That pissed me off but I tried some name and was wrong... "Do I look like my name is ***" That's a shit test I guess... Well I was not in the mood to play so I started to spoke to a guy who were next to us... "Are you with her?" "No." "Oh Okay, what's your name by the way"... She ended by herself and ejected.
I've been the punisher and it felt good.
What I've learned.
- Being the social guy is
gold.
- Social Game is way
easier than Day Game.
- I love
KINO.
- Attraction is about
giving attention and be indifferent the next second.
Questions to move on.
- What to do with her? What should I text her? When should I do it?
- How to set a seduction frame? (and not to fall in a friendly zone)? How to create a tension?
CHAT
