If a girl starts asking you when your first kiss was and where and such?

NO! i ask my friend that ALL THE TIME

(sarcasm; if you didnt catch it)

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Back then they didnt want me, now im hot they're all on me

I'd say that's an IOI my friend

She's trying to picture you kissing. She's probably envisioning something ridiculously romantic too.

Not only an IOI, she's probably telling you to pull the trigger, so KC already she's looking for it.

Out of curiosity, what did you say back?

I gave her some small details about it..Nothing really special.
And I'd like to pull the trigger on this girl if not for the fact that she already has a BF.
She's always asking me to come by and stuff, I rarely even speak to her myself, it's always her initiative.
Don't really know what to do with her, this probably sounds crazy but I still think I'm in the friend zone here since she always seem to get a bit more..Distant whenever I do actually step on the gas a bit.

because you're hesitating she is probably feeling it and backing off. If you dont sack up your gonna lose this forever.

Oh and about the bf, forget about him, if he was doing his job his lady wouldnt be imagining your first kiss

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I keep getting mixed signals from her, I flirt with her and she flirts with me ALOT and asks me to come over and such, but whenever I actually do ask her when she's got the time, she starts talking about her bad situation at home or that she has to work that day or whatever, so it never actually happens, which is when I tend to back off a bit.
She always does this, she's really flirty and fun the one moment (And she always wants to turn the webcam on, and trust me that she's smiling ear-to-ear whenever she's talking to me, I had a female friend of mine sit next to me yesterday who was watching along and whenever I said something nice her face would lighten up like a match and my female friend would just grab my leg and say something like "HOW ON EARTH ARE YOU EVEN DOUBTING THIS?!?")
And then sometimes she just kinda turns it over and she starts this odd cycle of self loathing and telling me that she can't figure out how I'm even able to stand her, let alone speak to her.

I've forgotten about the bf, but she doesn't seem to have, yesterday she said we might be able to meet up this weekend unless things start going "a bit better" with her bf in which case she'd spend the weekend at his place, as usual, she was at home this weekend and said she wouldn't have been if not for the fact she was having a bit of an argument with her current guy. So I told her that if she'd rather spend time with her bf, then that's fine with me, but she'd have to stop asking me to come over whenever she sees fit, and that she's gonna have to free some time up if she wants to see me, cos I'm sure as hell not gonna break my schedule and such just to see her, if she's not willing to make the same kind of sacrifice.

Pull out your penis and thrust it in her face. If she reciprocates, thats an IOI.

Right..

Mate ... I so FUCKING feel ya ... I think your friendzoned at least I know I am and from what I have read thats the same shit as mine.

God thats funny, I am realizing womens have like 3 different patterns and they all act/behave on those three different patterns. They just tend to change the pattern a little. Huh

Might wanna enlighten me on those?
And does anyone else have any tips on this? She's been kinda quiet after I told her what I was and wasn't gonna do, though she did try to get another convo going the day after..But even though I responded normally, like I always do. She said "You don't have to get angry all of a sudden.." which really confused me o_O. I wasn't being angry at all..

shes waitin for u to make a move dumbass
next time u see her put ur hand up her skirt TRUST ME

I DID MAKE MOVES.
I can't just go there and put my hand up her skirt, she lives 2~3 hours from me.