Watch a lot of stand up comedy. That's what I did.

My sense of humor is very racist and sexist, which some people might find offending. Yet, I still love it. This is why I personally love stand up comedian Dane Cook, because he shares my sense of humor.

Find a comedian that fits your sense of humor and watch his standup.

You can watch free stand up, movies and tvshows from this website:http://www.icefilms.info/index

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why not get better at women instead?

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Because pickup should be about social self improvement rather than a way to use chicks. Not to mention humour being enjoyable and attractive. Oooh just read that back and it sounds harsh... sorry x

Panda: same with the humour mate =D
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no, its a valid and fair point but pick-up, personally is about getting laid. Its what the Community knows best.

Supmag as posted at least 3 posts about being on the verge of suicide because he could not open 2+sets of girls and only lone wolfs and the fact he is a virgin at 16.

If this is your problem then you want to get better at picking up women, if you speak to women with objective being sex and you know not to qualify yourself, be interesting, flirty, find a reason to hang out and not supplicate, then by enlarge you will find your own pathway to getting the skills to get laid. Im not saying "dont come on here and ask questions because you should get it.".

Supmag should go attempt the newbie challenge and just try to game girls around town on his free periods, weekends and days off, and tracking progress through what Little Panda said about setting goals each day and examining how it went at the end of the day (something i do).

If you want to know something about humour supmag, its all in your delivery and frame. If a girl likes you and there is sexual tension (as you both want to jump bones with each other) she will laugh at any joke you say as sexual tension causes you to laugh as a way of breaking the tension. Some girls are amused easily and you humour can be toned down. Some girls barely laugh or respond to your jokes but may still like you. Flirty jokes are the best jokes. sexist, racists/racial, sick, anything disgusting should be avoided whilst speaking to her directly but to friends/her friends its okay.

So now you know; if you expect her to laugh at your joke and wait, she will laugh, just like when you laugh when a girl you like says some lame ass joke you only find funny because she's hot or you fancy her.

Supmag, i know you wont respond to this but stop trying to procrastinate in game by finding out anyway you can to avoid actually gaming. You say you can speak to random women at busstops, did you get numbers? k-closes?

I might be sounding harsh but your 16, you're younger than me. The quicker you start, the quicker you get laid. You could learn how to make friends, be funnier THEN start game

but you'll be exactly where you are now. Picking up is a skill in itself. the only way to learn a skill, is to practicing it. A boxer can do weight lifting to increase his power (like being funny for pick up) but if an average joe learns weight lifting will he be able to box any better?

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As you say, he has posted about being near suicidal because he is having trouble. This is an INNER game problem, not an outer game problem.

I think he is putting too much pressure on himself to perform well in the field, and is therefore paralysing himself with fear of not doing well.

The best way I have found to overcomes shit like this is to talk to girls who you are TOTALLY unattracted to. I've been at a point in my life where I was so unpopular that people wouldnt even talk to me. I perservered and near enough forced myself onto people. Its fucking hard, especially when you get asked why you are even talking to them.

You give this guy the newbie routine, his confidence level is gonna take a big hit, because he's gonna get a lot of rejections and blowouts. It is more or less inevitable with the newbie challenge. Unless he has proprananol or some other beta blocker, I doubt he will even be able to get the nuts to appraoch. Its easier said than done, as I am sure you know.

It wont feel useful until after he finished it (IF he finished it, which, in his current state, I doubt)

SUPMAG!

I say go make some friends first. I mean, even just one or two- and by all means keep low standards. SPend a lot of time with them and make sure you get to a point where they look up to you. Thats when you can start being a bit naughty with strangers. You wont fear rejection as much, because you know your friends wont judge it- and you can even do it in a jokey way. Most of my openers are just off the wall stupid and tend to involve quite a it of non sexual kino, for example, going and hugging some randomer because they have cool boots or trousers etc. Get hyper first, it always helps. A shitload of redbull helps. xD.

Anyway, i tend to do that, then just kinda leave it without transitioning. THEY WILL REMEMBER IT.

When you get more confident, you can reopen those people if you ever run into them. Guess what? GAME ON MOTHER FUCKER!!

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He said he has opened women before, 9's before, so he's got guts and he just needs to direct this ability.

Telling him to make new friends doesnt mean he'll know how to make them look up to him. Becoming an 'alpha' takes years.

Yeah gaming women you don't find attractive is cool for practice is cool although you won't 'feel' it but its good for getting used to being a frame and interaction where the outcome you want is sex. cool.

I read your thread on how you shouldnt game with pick up tactics and be yourself. So ill take it your coming from the 'just be yourself and everything will turn out fine angle'. Ive had a lot of friends since i was around 15/16. It didnt do shit for my sexual life.

The newbie mission took me 2/3 days to be able to do. I find it easier just asking for directions somewhere to be honest. The newbie mission is a good start for anyone. If you say 'hi' to someone it doesn't matter if they say hi back or not, its the fact YOU said hi. Within less than a second theyre out of sight.

Anyway, Im just saying supmag is trying to find anyway of improving his game without actually gaming. its okay though, just accept you need to go and speak to women and attempt to chat them up.

When you get better, the girls in your class may take a shine to you or even their friends.

you only get better at something by practicing it. their is no other way.

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Well the girl's in my class habve already droped me in to their friend zones O_O, also I have quite a few freinds in college , and i'm trying to build up my soical circles where I am the center of atraction.

Like shansha said that I have opend girls before but, littel panda knows this aswell I am not able to go out on my free will so the only places I get free time is college, bustop (where I wait for my bus), mall if I go shopping. That is it, that is all the freedom I haave at this age this is why I was near a suicidal position, not that I was gonna do it I was just so fucking pissed of at my life, it wasn't only women but my life in genral.

I want to improove my sense of humour because it attracts people towards you, it creates harmons similar to the ones you get from drugs/sex.

In college I know someone who's suppose to be really funny I just made him laugh his jaw into pain

So I want to improove my social life and I know the girls will come automatically, but how to do it in my current sittuation is the problem.My current sittuation id, that my freedom starts at 10 in the morning and ends 2 hours after college!

I think it's quite fun having girls who are just freinds with you, they can be used as social proof .

Pick-up is really all about self improvement. Getting laid is what you get as a bonus for it.

Self improvement therefore includes a sense of humor. Therefore, you should be focusing on improving yourself IN ORDER to get laid.

So for all of you saying that people shouldn't focus on either humor or some other area of your life, and get laid instead - should read what I just wrote and reconsider.

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Please stay on topic, before this thread gets locked. This is purely about college game, so quit going off topic.

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Agreed

Just for clarification: my angle was actually 'work from the ground up.'

Shan: In college game social standing is pretty important: sure they wont help you get laid years later, but for now they are very important- for your overall social health aswel as your social-sexual health.

I did improv troupe in HS, that definitely helped me out at finding humor in unlikely places. I mean otherwise it's kinda on you man, its a personality thing and I'm not sure how to improve it. Try watching a lot of Stand-up or Improv and rather than copy them verbatim, think about how they notice or analyze the stuff they talk about.

In addition to the reply above me, do not under any circumstances TRY to be funny in a social situation. This kind of mindset will only leave the impression that you are trying too hard to impress people to get them to like you.

Even if you feel super natural when you do it, trust me, they will notice. So don't force yourself to be funny. Let it come instinctively and spontaneously when a funny line or comeback from stand-up pops into your head.

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woops seems like thats what I have been doing all this time panda O_O, now what ? cause all my social circles at the moment, I have done what you said in the above post i'm fucked!

Well I sort of suspected you did that. That's what most people do from the start.

You don't got much to worry about though. This is the way you've been up until this point. As long as you quit doing it, people will forget you even used to do that.

The most popular kid at my school used to be a total loser/nerd.

Now that he's on the very top, I can literally ask people: "Hey, remember when this guy used to be the nerd? The loser? The one everybody avoided coz he was awkward?"

You know what people tell me? "What are you talking about? He was never that way!"

I promise you, it's not a big deal. People forget. Unless everybody in your school are secretly PUA's and analyze the behavior of other people to compare with their own.

Hopefully not the case though.

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Ok i'm fucked :/, from the looks of it i'm about to lose all my social circles and go back to being just with my goth freind.

Every one in my social circles likes my goth freind, he's a but like mystry.One of the girls from my 2nd social circle really trusts him for some reason and told him what there social thinks of me O_O, and I went to town with him today and he told me everything.

They all think i'm strange,wierd and every fucking defination of wierd :/. They think I'm imature O_O, they expect me to be mature, maybe because they are all like 3 years older than me?

I don't want to change just to please people, but vise versa, what the fuck do I do?

btw everyone in this social circle is leaving college next year and i'm still in college next year :/.