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Is there really any way to take things further,when you cannot isolate ?
I hate this situations because either I end up building (only)comfort,or I am being put in the role of trying to "compete" for the girl.
What is the best thing to do in this situation ?
It's not so much that you can't isolate but rather you haven't even tried. You're just being chicken shit that's all. Most guys tend to sit back and play chicken all night long afraid to make a move because this is their comfort zone. They sit back, joke, and try to get everybody to laugh at them as if they were hanging out at a junior high cafeteria. If you want the rewards that come with isolation, you'll just have to take a shot at it.
Just do anything like:
"Hey, I'm going to check out the bar. _______, let's go grab you something fruity." (And you just hold your hand right out) THEY WILL TAKE IT. (Or of course sometimes not!) and that's the point. You can always tell her something like, "Huh? You're going to sit here all night and keep that seat warm? Boooooring . . ." - Then you walk off to the bar and open the first girl you see. Dopey clown guys might try to make fun of you. Some girls might play along . . . but believe me. THEY ARE ALL WATCHING the guy who's grabbing his life by the balls. Guys will immediately get jealous of your BALLS. Girls will immediately scan to see what you're up to. Afterwards, you just go for another attempt as if was the most natural thing in the World.
You could do this over, over, and over again in one night with a group of chicks and end up making out with several of them . . . Sometimes, a girl will kiss and tell. Most times, they just shut up and look forward to what might be in store for them.