What does it mean when a chick says "I like you but I'm trying to lose attachment", then she gives more mixed signals like "I miss you" but gives excuses for not hanging out.

What chick logic am I missing here? Are girls just nuts?

Ha, It's similar with the girl I'm trying to close at the moment.

I don't suppose she's had a recent break up or problems with a boyfriend recently. It's fucked up seriously.

lol

Yeah, sometimes I have the urge to just be like "Yeah. To hell with your BS. Bye bye. Hasta la vista. Sayonara."

"Yeah. To hell with your BS. Bye bye. Hasta la vista. Sayonara."

There is your answer sir.

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Keep people off-balance and in the dark by never revealing the purpose behind your actions. - Robert Greene

Thats oversimplifying it. May be useful though.

I think that she really means what she says. She likes you but dont wanna promise anything. It has to be on her terms. Plus she likes you more some days, I mean, she wants you more some days and some days less.

Thats girls for you, like it or live with it.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

Ezo hits the key point here.

You will never find a girl that likes you equally much every day. Even though some of them might say so - it's not true.

I believe Francis Adams referred to this behavior in girls as "simmering". One day the girl seems to be REALLY into you, and the next day she barely speaks to you. Your reaction would naturally be like: Wtf? Did I do something?

Truth is, you never did anything. That's just the way people work.

The key to fight the so called simmering is simply to act the usual way around the girl, despite the fact that she's less into you that day. So even though she "likes you less", you won't pay any specific attention to that.

Also, never react to that sort of behavior because it will never change. Don't ask her why or try to change her behavior. It will only backfire, trust me.

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