| The neg, if used correctly, makes her at least start second-guessing herself and possibly qualifying herself, e.g.
PUA: "oh that's a cute bracelet...it's like something my niece would wear"
Her: "thanks...it's actually Gucci"
PUA: "oh cool, so anyway did u see that guy...etc"
Early on in the conversation here, you've made her justify her fashion sense to you, and you haven't given her the satisfaction of properly complimenting the fact that it was expensive or by a famous designer like she wants you to.
Moving along, you can insert relatively easy qualification hoops into your conversation that she's guaranteed to answer a certain way, and will help you frame your interaction, for example,
PUA: So lemme ask you a question, actually wait - you're not one of those judgemental types are you?
Her: Noo I'm totally open minded about stuff! Like this one time....etc.
PUA: Oh cool, yeah I thought so! So my question was, if you're going out with someone for like a month or less, would it ever be ok to break up via text message? etc.
other simple qualification questions that build compliance and frame correctly are a classic yes ladder like "do you like to have fun / do you consider yourself spontaneous / let's go do this spontaneous fun thing!"
An opener AFC Adam has used, after building social proof already and talking to a few sets is "oh my god I've talked to like 20 people here already and they're all so BORING. Tell me something fun and interesting about yourself!"
Moving further onwards, you can embed values you like in a girl into your DHV stories. For example, telling a story about a female friend you have who you really like and get on with, because she's very adventurous and you find people like that really cool. This will often elicit a story from her in which she attempts to prove her adventurousness to you. You should reward her with kino and say that you find that really cool, before modifying it with a little IOD like a small neg, or by getting distracted by something else and breaking kino, so that the compliment doesn't hang in the air awkwardly.
Finally, when you get into proper qualification and comfort building, you can either tell more stories about yourself which again have those values embedded, or be stronger and simply ask if she's a certain kind of person, or stronger still and say that you can ONLY be with a girl if she's a certain way. If she qualifies herself to you in either one of these cases you want to give a proper compliment "you know when we were first talking at the bar I wasn't sure what to think of you, but now I see you're actually a really unique, deep person" with kino escalation, and then again a little IOD so it doesn't get awkward. _________________ SEX Technique Material http://bit.ly/iFdky0
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