how does one make a girl qualify herself to you? i have been in some situations, where i was asking a girl if she would hook me up with her friend, and she says what im not good enough? and im like ya but were friends, and shes like no f that lets bang! bad ass! lol, bang bang, good piece too. i know this is an unusual coincidence, but how do i get a girl to qualify herself to me in a subtle-sneaky way. scenarios are very helpful to me like

me:...
HB8...
thats the way im programmed to learn, so think of a good one that you had to be sneaky about and post it for me please. i get the approach. bitch shield bombing, shit test, kino, so skip all that b. s. but idk how i would go about making her qualify herself. thanks

The neg, if used correctly, makes her at least start second-guessing herself and possibly qualifying herself, e.g.

PUA: "oh that's a cute bracelet...it's like something my niece would wear"
Her: "thanks...it's actually Gucci"
PUA: "oh cool, so anyway did u see that guy...etc"

Early on in the conversation here, you've made her justify her fashion sense to you, and you haven't given her the satisfaction of properly complimenting the fact that it was expensive or by a famous designer like she wants you to.

Moving along, you can insert relatively easy qualification hoops into your conversation that she's guaranteed to answer a certain way, and will help you frame your interaction, for example,

PUA: So lemme ask you a question, actually wait - you're not one of those judgemental types are you?
Her: Noo I'm totally open minded about stuff! Like this one time....etc.
PUA: Oh cool, yeah I thought so! So my question was, if you're going out with someone for like a month or less, would it ever be ok to break up via text message? etc.

other simple qualification questions that build compliance and frame correctly are a classic yes ladder like "do you like to have fun / do you consider yourself spontaneous / let's go do this spontaneous fun thing!"

An opener AFC Adam has used, after building social proof already and talking to a few sets is "oh my god I've talked to like 20 people here already and they're all so BORING. Tell me something fun and interesting about yourself!"


Moving further onwards, you can embed values you like in a girl into your DHV stories. For example, telling a story about a female friend you have who you really like and get on with, because she's very adventurous and you find people like that really cool. This will often elicit a story from her in which she attempts to prove her adventurousness to you. You should reward her with kino and say that you find that really cool, before modifying it with a little IOD like a small neg, or by getting distracted by something else and breaking kino, so that the compliment doesn't hang in the air awkwardly.


Finally, when you get into proper qualification and comfort building, you can either tell more stories about yourself which again have those values embedded, or be stronger and simply ask if she's a certain kind of person, or stronger still and say that you can ONLY be with a girl if she's a certain way. If she qualifies herself to you in either one of these cases you want to give a proper compliment "you know when we were first talking at the bar I wasn't sure what to think of you, but now I see you're actually a really unique, deep person" with kino escalation, and then again a little IOD so it doesn't get awkward.

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I like blondguy's idea. This is definitely going to help me. And also I want to add something. I did this few days back, It went something like this

Me:You want to know what your first impression on me was when I saw you?
HB: Yes
Me:Correct me if I am wrong,but I thing you are..(pause)..Intelligent
HB:(here she starts to qualify herself bigtime)

So I guess instead of the word intelligent, any word can be used there on which you want her to qualify herself.

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hey man!! this is great stuff, i totally understand the concept now!!
are ya'll from the states?
i know theres a lot of ya'll on here from other places around the world. i once had the pleasure of engaging a hb10 from ireland, one of the shit tests she gave me was "do u really talk like that!! lol, i was dumbfounded cuz of her irish accent.. and did not know what to say to that one, anyways, i took her home, made it to her bed before finding out that i had a bad case of whiskey d*ck, wayyy too much crown royal.
but that was a whole lot of fun and all i know is if theres more girls like her in ireland.. im moving there!! no doubt!

anyways thanks for the ladder info, i love it! it will give me a great excuse to go mudding or back roading! i can say something like

ME:are you spontaneous and fun?
HB:sure
ME:so if a hot guy called you and wanted to take you mudding in a bad ass 4x4 right now, you would go?
HB:sure
ME:lets go mudding!!
HB:sure
hopefully anyways!