I'm new to the game, I heard about it on Oprah and figured I'd give it a shot since nothing else has been working. I'm AZN, 24 turning 25 in a few months and I've never been laid. The only dates I've ever had are ones my Mother has set me up on.

I'm hoping you guys can point me in the right direction and send me on my way to being a PUA.

Thanks

sup homes!

dude u gotta get into some warm as pussy asap. this forum should academy ur ass up. u got here everything u need.

Tell us tho, Do you go out at all? like bars pubs clubs? U got a group of friends that go out, or are you stuck with people that don't go out much at all??

good luck and welcome.

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It's a deja vu...

No, not really. I used to spend a lot of time playing online games, I actually was "dating" a girl for over a year I met on WoW but, in hindsight, I think she was using me for gold and equipment. What is my first step?

ah okay. get ya. I got a mate just like that. He is actually a bit older (same year level as me 27y.o,) also virgin, gamer, and in a society of friends that dont go out unless its for a LAN get together gaming.

So without asking you too many personal questions, ill just assume that you are him, so i'll give you the advise I would give him.

First - If you look like my mate and dress like him - you need a make over. Meaning drop the baggy pants, loose shirts etc. You need to create a character. Dont go for something totally different then what you are. but you need to create a character for yourself, sort of like a tribe (Style talks about this in his A-method).
To identify a tribe you may belong to is easy. If you remember back in highschool, there is typicall the 'Sports tribe' usually the football players, soccer, etc...
you go the "Cool tribe" where all those tuff guys hang together, you got the "geek" guys where you see nerds, and sometimes you got the "shit kicker tribe" where the people are loosers and get bagged by all the other tribes for being losers.

decide which one suit you best... are you a gentleman, a smart person, a geek, a sporty person,.. etc. etc...

My mate would fit the category Geek/Nerd - so i would Try and aim for a "Gentleman tribe"

To become a gentleman, you should dress accordingly, perhaps suits, or semi suits, maybe nice looking jeans (try black jeans to look more classy) Get ur self some nice shoes (no runners or any other Air MAx shoes), just plain black shoes.

you can go for a geek look, with a west, and shirt, and if you wear glasses perfect.
You can even ask girls in the shops to help you TRANSFORM. they willl help, it will make their day interesting.


Once you fix your IMAGE you gotta move on the SOCIAL CIRCLE.

Since your mate are 'dragging' you down, as they are just into games as well etc.. you need to find urself new mates or people to hang out with.

To do this; think about all the people that you know - maybe people that u work with, go gym with, or know anyone.. that you could get in touch with, and suggest "lets go for a few drinks"..
You can also post a THREAD here on this forum, asking if there is anyone that lives closeby that would like to come out with you. (people are happy to help - just like im giving you advise here).

So once you Got the TRIBE/UR IMAGE and SOCIAL CIRCLE fixed up.
then you move onto your game. But lets just work on these first two.

Also, what kind of person are you:
Do you drink alchol?
Do you live at home?
Are you shy?
Do you work? / What is ur proffession?
What are ur interests?

Hope this will give you some kind of start.

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Also, what kind of person are you: I don't understand this question
Do you drink alchol? Not really
Do you live at home? Yes
Are you shy? No
Do you work? / What is ur proffession? I work at a play that manufacturers calendars
What are ur interests? I like Dragonball Z, videogames, and comicbooks

with the question 'what kinda person are you' - i meant can you describe urself, what category do you fit.

But i think i can already picture you - very very very similar to my mate.

Look no offence yeh, but generally speaking girls dont have hotts for the type of guys that are too much into games, comics, and stuff like that..
Especially at ur age... i understand you like this stuff, it forms who you are.. but it dont pull the chics.

So my advise is if you just wanting to get laid a bit you can maybe spin shit to the girls, basically make up a character and be that man while you with them, whilst still being the person who you are.
Warning - this can only work for so long and then they'll find out and maybe dump ur ass.

So you need to maybe decide, the person that you are now... ill refer to it as "gamer" - Do you want to stay like that? or would you consider developing your character.

When you truly answer that question to yourself, in all honesty, then you can look at way of how to go about this.

I personally, would recommend to perhaps start introducing changes to your character, perhaps try getting involved into other stuff... maybe Gym, or whatever tickles your fancy. u know what i mean? this will start forming ur character and also give you an opportunity to meet other people. You need to get out of your house, and socialize.

Maybe create a facebook - if u dnt have one already - and chat to people.
But personally i think, unless you find a chic thats into all that comic and games kinda stuff, ull notice that most chics dont fancy guys that are still into kiddy stuff.. So you i think u need to man up a bit.

Do you understand what i mean???

Im happy to guide or answer you any question you may have.
PM is fine as well.

Best start is to start thinking about who you are, and if you wanting to maybe start forming that character with other means and interests.

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It's a deja vu...

While I agree with almost everything Deja said there is a world out there dedicated to that kind of stuff. I too encourage you to explore other experiences and forms of entertainment; however, if your not comfortable doing everything Deja suggested yet, I would start with getting out to comic book conventions, or gamer conventions, or comic book and video game stores whenever you can. I personally went on vacation last year and went to a comic book store and there was a woman who was a good 6 but easily could have been formed into a 7.5. There is a growing population of female gamers and you may also try asians because that is very large part of their culture. The more you get out the more comfortable with change you will be, alow and celebrate the growth its only natural. good luck

yeh i can only agree with that Ash.
I think one of the most important things in everything is to find out who are really are, and decide whether you want to continue being that person.

You can either stay the way you are and look for someone compatible, or you can change/improve the person you are and pursue in that style.

Good luck either way.

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