Hi,

Even though I have developed confidence and good conversational skills, I am haunted by poor posture and body language which is keeping me away from success. I am a 5' 6" skinny guy. I have a very poor posture and very bad body language( not dominant at all). I just cant seem to walk upright and always have a hunch back. I am taking dance lessons. But it not proving very helpful. Also my trying to be in alpha body language is making me very self conscious these days. How can I change this? I know going to gym is one of the ways but its gonna take some time. Is there any other way to improve my posture? where should i start? pls help.

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i practiced most of my BL by sitting upright in chairs and straightening my back. Eventually i just got comfortable with walking with my chest up

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^^^ I agree with that. Another thing you can do is tilt your head slightly up when you walk and look around.

One thing my kung fu instructor told me is to take a deep breath, and take note of how your body is at the peak of your breath. When you exhale, you want to maintain that posture. That is the best advice that was given to me about body posture. Always remember to walk slowly and keep fidgety movements to a bare minimum.

I used to have bad posture with the slouched back and what not myself. Bad habits are hard to break but with a little bit of practice you'll change yourself in no time.