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I met this girl and she is a bit different then most other girls ive been with so im a little bit unsure how to go about winning this girl over. Most of the girls I have been with have been a little shy and not so aggressive/foward about things.
Long story short maybe this girl has been reading the female version of the game cuz I have no idea what she is thinking. She told me she just wanted to be friends but let me spend the night twice cuddling half naked on her bed. She told me she dates alot of guys but gets bored of them easy. Talks about how her ex's all treated like a queen. Says she doesnt need men. Says if a guy sucks in bed its bye bye for them. I got a bit intimated by that and guess maybe thats why I didnt try to F-close. Ive only been with a few girls and most of the time I cum in like a minute after I got my dick inside.
Most of the time I take the role of opening up conversations and throwing DHV's but she just keeps yapping and taking the lead on things that I havent had the chance to.
Im feeling like a fish out of water here. I know I could prob F-close her but my goal is to actually win her over.
Think about this metaphor (if it is one lol).
She is doing to you what you should be doing to her.
Remember, pick up is all about "Being cooler than the girl you are talking to". THAT IS ALL IT IS YO.
Play her hoter and colder than she is doing to you. You can really FUK with these kinds of girls harder because in a way, she is helping you do that by being more aggressive. Say C&F stuff like "if you buy me a drink you might get lucky tonight". It seems like you are being qualified by her man. Change the frame around and act as if she is not good enough for you. That is the mindset you must bring with you. Take in charge man. It seems like she is the driver and you are a passenger in the BACK seat.
Eventually when you guys connect more, you can say in alittle more serious tone "Women may act tough, but it's an ACT. You can see it on their faces when they sleep. The vunerability and desire to be protected that comes naturally from being a woman. The innocent desire to one day find love and carry out the fantasies she had while growing up. That's what I love about women. Underneath it all, there's that endearing vunerability. You don't have me fooled for a minute dear". After you say this at the right time, be prepared for her to go into some sort of emotional breakdown.
If this girl is pretty + arrogant, say something like "You don't have me fooled for a minute, dear." (What are you talking about?) "Well, I know that most men fall for this 'I'm beautiful and aloof and I get my way' part of your personality... but I know something that none of them know... that there's really another side of you. A side that none of THEM get to see. I'll bet you a dollar right now that I know something about you that no one who's only known you for xxx minutes has EVER known... ... You may act tough, but you're actually EXTREMELY sensitive on the inside. If someone makes a negative comment to you, you might act like it doesn't bother you...but you'll think about it all the way home... I know that secretly you're as sensitive as a little girl... it's just that most people never get to meet that part of you..."
Again, be prepared for an emotional breakdown.
These are all methods to break her mask. All people wear those fake masks everyday. In reality, she is probably not an aggressive cocky person. Get inside her! No pun intended. GL
Oh and, the next time you cuddle half naked in bed, have some sort of plausible reason to leave man. You must show an effort in walking away from the girl. Or else, she has you EXACTLY where she wants you. Think of it as a game of tug-a-war. If you think she's winning, tug the rope harder. IT IS A GAME, nothing more.
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