Ever wonder why most girls don't seem to reply back to you after that vibrant night you had with her? Why does she lose interest over you and does not reply back to your texts, messages or calls? Well there are several ways to prevent matters like these. For myself, I use the technique of building curiosity. Girls are very curious people. When they don't know something, they NEED to find out. We all know that about girls don't we? That's why they love gossip.

This works with anything that involves texting or messaging, whether it's by phone or FaceBook. Remember, the key to getting her to almost ALWAYS call back or reply is to get her curiosity up.

If you say something like "Hey you remember me at the bar? We were drinking at xyz and so and such and blah blah blah"

^That comes off too boring and unoriginal. You're now just like the other 3 guys the girl gave her # to that night.

Rather than that, say something like "Oh my god you wouldn't believe what happened after you left... I was on my way to xyz and he-".... STOP right there. Just cut off the message, DONE. I guarentee this will get that girl curious as fuck. As humans we are programed to solve our curiosity. We want to know why that one girl is not interested in you. Or why that HB10 girl is so upset in the corner. Curiosity will FORCE HERSELF to message you back.

I did this after a first date to this girl and she sent 6 text msgs and 8 missed calls the next day wanting to know what happened. She'll be thinking about what you were going to say, hence you will be in her mind thinking about you.

Just make sure to at LEAST give it a day before actually messaging her back. Let her think about what you said and she'll be begging to know. You don't have to use exactly what I said but along the same lines. These work best if you just met a girl and got her # or her FB. To prevent the chance of rejection on day 2, this is very effective.

Here are some other sh!t you can use.

"Ok the funniest sh!t happened today. After you left that guy with the beard (assuming you and her know who that bearded person is...) fucking s-"... STOP right there. Even you are probably thinking to yourself, what did he do? Fucking sh!t his pants? Fucking slapped a b1tch? Fucking smashed his head through a window? Fucking sucked a big juicy c0ck?

^ See what I mean here? There's nothing wrong with sending a msg that very night or even the next day.. it's just HOW you send the message which makes it a good or bad decision. Let her curiosity build more and more.

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Some things to do on day 1 that will also get her to think about you. When you have already gotten her # and you know its time to close, say some of these things.

"Do you know there are two habits I hate in women? Number one is most women don’t say what they mean and don’t mean what they say."

And then go silent.

She would say…So what’s number two?

"Well…I don’t think you are ready to hear it…I’ll tell you when you will be ready. And change the subject."

Or you can say...

"I noticed something interesting yet strange about you. You know what?"

Her- What?

"Well I’ll tell you later…This isn’t the right time yet"

And there's also...

"Oh I totally forgot…I had to tell you a very important thing…Hold on! I have to make an important phone call…I’ll tell you later. "

REMEMBER, Women want instant gratification and the fact that you are making them wait for it will not only build up excitement but also massive curiosity and anticipation to know the thing you had to tell them. Use this to your advantage.

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With HB10's or 9's, play hard to get. These girls gets so much attention from guys you won't probably be able to even understand how her brain is hardwired to function when a guy approaches her. TO make you seem to these kinds of girls that you are a busy and wanted man, do this simple trick.

Text her this.

“It was so much fun…So we are going out again tonight right?”

At this, The girl will most probably send you a text message asking what are you talking about?

Text her back saying the following-

"Oh! Sorry...That was meant for someone else, but your name is right below that person's name in my phone contact list. I sent it to you by mistake."


And BAM! She would want you more than ever now.

Why you ask?

Well now she knows she has competition…Now you are more of a challenge and she knows she will have to work hard to ensure you don’t run away to another girl. Attraction is at it’s peak when the girl knows that she is about to lose the guy to another girl.

At the same time you are softly rejecting her by showing that you have other options to choose from and she’s not on top of your priority list. This would further burn her and she would try twice as hard to keep you.

Remember, it works much better on HB10's than it does with 6's or 5's. With 6's or 5's, if you were to send something like this, they would lose all hope.

Just some things that will help on early stages of PU. Hope this helped.

Great thread, why didn't I think of that. Put it to work with success, although I'm a bit at a loss now at to how I should translate that curiosity on FB into a real life meeting. Thoughts appreciated (I don't normally game online).

After spiking curiosity, what now? Wait for her to text back or schedule a day2 later? And how do I know if her curiosity spiked?

awesome post man, this staff is cool. since i'm experiencing some flakes i'll give a try with this. thank you!!

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BLESS THE PRESENT
TRUST YOURSELF
EXPECT THE BEST

the best way to avoid failure is to see it as a feedback

hey i send a message to a HB9 that i number closed the last week and i wrote
incredible you cannot believe what happened to
she sent me 2 message in 5 minutes asking what happened!
nice

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BLESS THE PRESENT
TRUST YOURSELF
EXPECT THE BEST

the best way to avoid failure is to see it as a feedback

This is quality advice, my text game was already decent but with the whole curiosity aspect you just explained it will become great. Thanks a lot man, I also like the last text where you pretend you accidentally sent the message to her, but it was destined for another girl. Awesome.

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These are really great tips dude, I will definitely be using them! I always struggle with the first text, I end up re-reading it several times making sure it's slightly funny, slightly rude (in a non-offensive way) and has something to do with our meet.

NOW I know pretty much exactly what to say and I can tell without having already used one of the "We went on to the next club and that girl we knew went and sl..." will work.

Thanks!

Well it is in her natural to know what she does not know. She will reply to you. You will have to gauge as to when you should reply back.

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I'm glad it's helping you all. This puts so little pressure on having to worry about if the text message itself is good enough, and the possibilty of a flake.

Just have fun with this. I'm sure if she doesn't reply to you by using the method I've posted, then she wouldn't reply to you any other way. Use curiosity as a magnet. GIVE her a reason to reply back to you.