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I'm a senior and she's a freshman...
There is this girl I met and she seen my artwork. She says to me, "Draw me a portrait!" I say, "At a rate of 1 kiss per hour, why not?" Then it was some more bs blah blah and I convinced her to draw me too and she said not many guys ask her that and that she's cool with it. Anyways, I show her only her eye drawn since I already got started on drawing her. She tells me she got started on drawing me as well.
A few days later, she tells me she lost it. Now I have a plan for that. We're in high school so I think I can get away with some more sweet things because that's just how teen girls are...inexperienced emotionally.
I am thinking of telling her once I finish her drawing, "You look way more beautiful on paper" (a back handed compliment meaning she doesn't look very beautiful in person). So this will get her excited and all and when the next day comes...I'll be like, "Oh...I lost the portrait, I'll draw you again next time if you actually pay me."
And then the next day after that, coming into her classroom the teacher is teaching and saying, "Sorry for disrupting your class, may I give something to one of your wonderful students.
And then walking over to her table...and laying my hands on the edge of it and spreading them out trying to take as much space as possible...I hand the drawing and as she reaches for it, I yank it back and point at my cheek for her to give me a kiss. Then saying, "That's better...I don't work for free."
I was also thinking of writing something on the back of the drawing like..."It's too bad you look promiscuous, we won't get along." My reason for that line is actually 3 reasons: 1.) to point out she's slutty in a nicer way 2.) to show that she has to work to get me and to redeem herself and 3.) handing her that portrait with that written on the back is a huge mixed signal making her wonder.
I want this girl as a girlfriend so like I can't really be a another one of those total dicks that make her crazy. I want to make her crazy in a way that pierces her sensitive side because it's a damn good portrait of her and a teen girl would go nuts over something like that...keeping it in her room reminding her of me.
I don't ever really post on this forum after reading it for a few years, but I had to login to comment on this.
OP is not a stable person. There's alot to comment on, so I don't know where to start.
1) "I want this girl as a girlfriend" ... "
2) "Even if she is easy to get, I want to get HER to feel a certain obligation towards me compared to all the other guys that hit on her. Because IF I were to even get with her, I would have such a tight hold on her from this that she will really reject other guys coming at her. " - What the f
uck did I just read. It sounds like you are masking your own insecurities. A tight hold on her? Let your girl run wild, you are the alpha male, if she does something that crosses the line, you break it off and find a hotter girl.
3) In the above quote, and the rest of your posts, you sound like you want attention. You want attention from a freshman girl (when you are already a senior) yet forgetting she is underdeveloped and premature (and illegal). Shutting down other guys because she has you? Focus on your social skills and interacting with others in your grade if you just want to be popular...
4) "In the long run, she will never have me." - This is a PUA forum - what is your goal here?
5) "I am lacking a phone, a car, and a job at the moment so that's what's restricting me from having a girlfriend. These girls want to be taken out, texted, etc. " - 3 words for you - self limiting beliefs
6) "because she's slutty." - Why don't you have some respect for this girl?
7) "but I can't back out now." - Yes you can. Please do.