Hi guys

I'm from zurich, switzerland. 2 days ago I had to go from zurich to bern, like 1 hour by train, and sat down vis-à-vis a hot girl. As I was checking her out, saw she had some exercises in front of her (maths) that indicated she came from university (just like me) and I also thought she might be croatian or serbian, because I have croatian roots and recognize girls from former yugoslavia. But I wasn't 100% sure. So I called my father by mobile and asked him some BS to get her attention and that she would hear me speaking serbo-croatian. 10 seconds after I finished the call she asked me in serbo-croatian where I was exactly from bla bla bla... so it was on.

We talked like during the entire train ride. She was laughing all the time. Had a great conversation. Then at the mainstation in bern she asked for my number with the reason, she didn't know much people from zurich, where she also does her studies, and she suggested we should have lunch together (didn't say when). Then we split.

I wrote her the next day a text at about 9pm, sth like the following but partially in swiss german and serbo-croatian, so the translation might not be as precise as it should be:

Me:
Ciao ***! I hope you became serious today and did maths and didn't possibly again eavesdropped on someone in the train.

HB:
haha, you wouldn't believe it, I met again some people from (former) yugoslavia. But I didn't get involved in real conversation, pretended like doing maths. only from time to time they interrupted me.
How was your visit in bern? (she knew I was going to visit my sis in hospital, nothing serious)
So that you know I really was thinking about signing to get a place in that "students house" in zurich. (the day we met I told her, that I was living in such a student's house and that it was pretty cool, better than at home with parents and so on)

Me:
(visit) was good. she's already back home and fine. well well, so I really made you like the idea (of living in that students house) well listen, bern sure is OK, but it's for retired people. Zurich the party town!

(everybody in switzerland knows zurich is the coolest city here, awesome night life, great for young people, bern is like square... the remark "zurich the party town!" was just a quote, because a famous DJ in switzerland uses this line)



I tried to be cocky/funny. She didn't write back, so my initiate text was at 9pm, her reply at 9.30pm, my reply at 9.50pm.

Today, 2nd day after meeting her in train, no text by her.

How should I proceed?

Maybe I should have texted her sth more like, she wants to stalk me... becausing also moving to the students' house in zurich... or more sth like we only know each other for 2 days, isn't it a bit too early for her to move into my house...

I don't know guys. Did I already screw it up?

What about that lunch? Should I wait until she brings it up again? Or should I ask her to have lunch? Like suggest a day I can and if she can't suggesting to go to drink sth after university?


thx in advance for your help.

peace

Look you are doing fine. Just work on better C&F because yours still needs improvement (well at least judging by the translation). She initiated the talk, she asked for your number. Girls are socially programmed to be submissive. She's not gona ask you for lunch I guarentee you that. Why? Because MEN are supposed to lead the woman. Think of it as a favor that the girl did so many initiate things FOR YOU. Now it is your turn to esclate and do the initiate tasks (ie. asking for lunch, kissing, f-close). It's not to say that a girl will never do those FIRST, but a girl will usually never do them for the very first time. If you fuk her, shes gona want to initiate more 'sex sessions' in the future herself. She obviously likes you enough from what I see, and now it is your turn to show to her that you are the man. Take the lead dude or you won't get anywhere. She is probably waiting for you to ask her to lunch or dinner and does not want to come off as "desparate" by asking you first, AGAIN. Talk to her like you two have known each other for a long time, and do it soon.

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thank you sir, really appriciate your advice.

I will read some stuff about proper cocky/funny.

Two days, after our last text exchange i wrote her again and tried to write sth funny and then after her reply to fix a date for lunch at university or meeting in the city, because I like to do street photography, I thought I could tell her that we could on day X see us in the city while I take some pics and have a cup of coffee later on.

I sent her a text, friday 14.30pm (when she was supposed to attend one of her lectures)

Me:
Hi ***. Does one of your profs look like a james bond villain, too?

She didn't reply.


hmmmm... not looking good... not looking good at all. First time she only answered my initiate text, but not my reply to her reply... and now no reply at all.

In poker language: should I wait for the showdown or fold my hand right now? because, I get the feeling my nice looking starting hand didn't improve at all and ran into some dirty trap.

Any suggestions?

Yesterday about 3pm, 24 hours after my james bond villain text, she wrote back like it was perfectly normal to write back so late.... not saying why so late or anything.

HB: I don't think so, all of them look pretty much harmless. On second thought: one looks like the wich from harry potter


I didn't write her back until today around 7pm.

Me:
Hi *** [some funny how are you doing, that I cannot translate, wouldn't make any sense]. Did you had a cool weekend, too?

Now it's 8.25pm... she still didn't write back.

It's really tedious having contact like that.... waiting waiting waiting... hard to make any further connection under these circumstances. I can't work like that!!!

Any suggastions?

Please guys, over 100 VIEWS and only one MAN stood up and helped me so far.

greetz