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The next place to go is RSD(Real Social Dynamics)

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Flawless Natural
Transformations
The blueprint
Foundations

All good so far, not seen much of the blueprintbut liked other stuff I've seen from Tyler Durden and it has some great reviews, definatly got for Transformations aswell, so easy to learn from some great guys(Tim and Ozzy)

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Thank you SCB. I'm going to take a look.

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The next place to go is RSD(Real Social Dynamics)

Look for:

Flawless Natural
Transformations
The blueprint
Foundations

All good so far, not seen much of the blueprintbut liked other stuff I've seen from Tyler Durden and it has some great reviews, definatly got for Transformations aswell, so easy to learn from some great guys(Tim and Ozzy)

Good luck
Forgot to add one, give "Rules of the Game" a read aswell, by Neil Struass(Style) who wrote "The Game" it's a grear book and the Stylelife challenges are pretty good stuff to try

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Thank you SCB. I'm going to take a look.

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Yeah, but why are seatbelts bad for beginners? I don't know if I agree that MM is bad. It's just a method. It works for Mystery to get the chicks that he wants to get. It worked for me in the beginning because I had no clue where to start. No one taught me this shit growing up. I think that at some point you just grow in pick up. I don't really use MM any more, but that doesn't mean that some stuff doesn't slip in here and there. It's like, I grew up listening to a certain type of music because my parents listened to it. At some point, though, I found the music that I liked. Doesn't mean the old stuff wasn't good, or that I don't love it. I just grew and found my own stuff. For me, I feel the same is true when it comes to MM.
Im gonna let you in on a secret, Mystery doesn't use his own method.

Not really a secret, lots of people know this. If you ever see him infield personally, watch and see what he does...its defentially not MM.
i always imagined that he just knows he's the shit, so from the get go he knows he'll end up with her, and things like magic is just his job so of course he's gunna use it.

also he even says that he learnt to control groups of people through selling his magic shows, so he obviously just knows how to control a room whilst getting a chick.

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I'm going to now discuss another reason (other than Marketing) why Mystery Methods, and routines specially, are extremely prevalent in the seduction community.

"I don't know what to say"
"What do I say when I open?"
"After my opener what do i say?"
"Im not sure what to say"


All things every experienced on this forum as herd from guys trying to get good at this.

Lets talk a little about this...

Why doesn't the person know what to say? When broken down there is actually a pretty simple explanation.

The not knowing what to say stems from the socially conditioned belief that he must "impress" the girl.

A guy is out and sees this real cutie off to his left and wants to approach. All of a sudden his mind goes blank.

"I need to say something cool so she will like me."
"I need to say something witty to hook her"
"I need to say something to impress her"

This questions may all happen at a subconscious level, but they do happen.

Women can sense this whole "trying to impress her" vibe...not good.

"Nah, warped...im not trying to impress her. I just dont know what to say."

If you wasn't trying to impress her you wouldn't care what you say. Your mind wouldn't go blank on you,

Girl: "Hes trying to impress me, hes not cool enough to deserve me"

High value guys dont go around trying ti impress people. he just expresses himself. I'm going to repeat that:

Expression, not Impression.

So, why cant you think of what to say when your trying to impress? Your mind starts putting a word filter on everything you want to say.

Your mind: "will saying this make me seem lame?"

Then it over analyzes everything and hence, you now have a blank mind.

Routines came about because guys though "ah-ha! Now I dont have to worry about what to say. I'll just slap a one size fit all routine on every interaction!"

Problem is, routines (besides being lame) arnt one size fit all. In addition, its common place for the user of the routines to replace (cover up deeply!) his personality. Insted of having an actual personality, he now just has a few memorized routines. Hes no longer a person, just a social robot.

These routines are just a band-aid. They dont fix the problem, just covers it up with a "magic pill quick fix" and teh problem grows worse and worse until routines cant even help anymore.

Insted of being real men and fixing the root source of the problem, they opt for the band-aid approach. Its easier (in the short term) but extremely unhealthy in the long run.

The real way to handle the "mind going blank" problem is to develop yourself (and contrary to popular belief...this does not take a long time) so that you no longer feel the need to impress women. Inner Game.

To add another note on using routines...women arnt dumb! They can sense that your not being fully real with them. They may not be able to place their finger on it but they know your being fake....not attractive.
Jesus fucking christ, are you for real?

That shit you just said there looks DIRECTLY COPIED from the RSDnation site, wtf dude you dont use your own opinion and your own eyes, you just soak up everything tyler and alex says to you and take it like the fucking truth.

You mr is a super RSD fanboy and should most likely keep your mouth shut.

If you even had some kind of IQ you would soon realize that "I dont know what to say" thingy isnt really about the verbals, but a STATE OF MIND, this state of mind WILL BE trained as you get more comfortable with girls, even if you use routines, it has a psychological scientific explanation behind it so dont give me your damn RSD brainwashed bullshit.

And about that shit "women can feel when you are not authentic" NO, not true, you think girls do have some kind of psychotic ability? They dont, that mindset will only get you fucking paranoid. I tell you this, girls are often very VERY easy to fool, when u are congruent with your routine shit they wont "detect you bullshitting and not become attracted" - You tell me how the fuck I was able to fuck 70+ girls going PURE MM ? And these girls were hot, believe me, I live in Sweden.

You are so full of shit it aint even funny.


MM do have alot of limiting shit in it, and it is surely "out of date", but that bullshit you're spitting is just NOT TRUE - ofcourse you wont be able to see that due to your fucking "RSD conditioning".
I've never seen what i wrote on RSDnation but I dont doubt something similar to it might be on there. It is possible for 2+ people to come to the same conclusion with anyone having to rip each off. Just means the conclusion is more likely to be true.

Also, women can feel when your fake. In general, they feel what you feel. Thats because your the man and your reality is (or at least supposed to be) stronger than hers. I'll explain one theory posed by scientist as to why this is:

Do you have a baby? Im willing to bet not. I don't either. But, I used to take care of my baby nephew all the time. When he would cry I would first think to ask myself "whens the last time he was fed, perhaps he is hungry." If he wasnt hungry Id check his diaper. If it wasn't his diaper id simply try something else.

The same thing happens with a lot of dads. They go down a "list" and do everything until they finally fix whatever is making the baby cry.

Have you ever noticed this is different with women, and specially moms? A baby starts to cry and the women (almost all the time) pretty much immediate knows why the baby is crying. This isn't magic, or even that astounding really...iits simply a by-product of evolution. Women have, historically, be the ones to take care of the children while the men was out bringing home the "meat."

Over time, Women has evolved this "sense." They are more finely intune with emotions and feelings. Lets use another example:

Ever had a friend, specially a female, come up to you and start laying out a big problem of hers. Lest say her car died.

Susans cat died so she runs over to Bobbies house. She lays there crying and telling him about the cat. Bobby defentially feels bad for her but hes not feeling the emotions she feels.

Now, Susan runs over to her female friends, Ashley, house. She is crying and telling about her cat. Ashley is crying too and is feeling a MUCH deeper level of emotion than Bobby did. Thats because Ashley can feel (not as much but can feel it) what Susan is feeling.

Women can feel what you feel. Thats teh whole basis of sexual sate projection.

You feel sexual and horny, she will feel sexual and horny.
You feel happy, she will feel happy.
You feel ok and not awkward with the silences, she will be comfortable with them too.

Something else I have noticed and would like to point out:

As I have said many, many times over... It is bad to be reactive. Its much better to be nonreactive. I have also said thats one big reason MM is bad, it teaches you to b reactive where as working on yourself and inner game will teach you to be nonreactive.

MM making the user reactive can simply be proved why looking no further than this fourm. Take my two recent threads on MM and combine it with this one. Now, go thru every reply and chalk the reply up as:

"positive and nonreactive."
"netural"
or
"negative and reactive."

Replying with a different opinion that man does not count as being reactive as long as their reply is mature. Ezo is a great example. Ezo disagress with me on MM being bad but he disagress in a mature way. My opinion doesn't effect his emotional state. It doesn't make him angry and furtrated and therefore causing him to lash out. Hes very emotionally stable and mature is his replies.

Now, once you do all that, notice that almost everyone that you put in the "negative and reactive" category is a very strong supporter of MM. Notice the pattern?

So, why does my opinion cause many of these MM supporters to lash out, call me names, and be very negative? Insecurity. On some level, my opinion has resonated with them and it makes sense. Their ego then takes over and says "wow, it kinda makes sense but NO..I cant be wrong! I wont let myself be wrong!"

They then lash out. Why are they insecure? A big part of it is because they have been using routines to try and attract women. And how can they be secure with themselves when they arnt being themselves around women? How cna they be secure when the method they use encourages them to be ashamed of being a man? Im of course talking about opinion openers here. A real man isnt afraid to go up and show his true masculine intent. No need to cover up his intentions why asking some opinion. He is a man and not ashamed of it. And really, you dont even need an opener. A opener is siimply an excuse to go up and start a conversation. Humans are social creatures, you dont need an excuse to go up and start being social. Needing an excuse (opener) is again, another limiting belief.

But all that said, its okay if your insecure. Its okay if you have an ego. I once did, a lot of people once did. Instead of trying to cover it up with routines, develop yourself so that you can rid yourself on insecurity and the ego.

Wish you the best.

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But all that said, its okay if your insecure. Its okay if you have an ego. I once did, a lot of people once did. Instead of trying to cover it up with routines, develop yourself so that you can rid yourself on insecurity and the ego.

Wish you the best.

HAH! That's worthy of being a sig.

Why are you posting in a thread that was created specifically to avoid your attitude?

Are you really not seeing it?


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I finally decided to officially admit it...

I no longer believe the MM is good...

There are just too much powerful arguments against it... People made a lot of valid points. And I have to be an idiot to ignore them...

Chief and Warped Mindless are obviously right and since I'm less experienced than them I'd be a fool to continue to argue with people that know what they are talking about...

I'm not gonna bash the MM, but I will just let go of it...



What if Mystery releases "Mystery Method Motherfucking 2 !!!!!!!"

and it turns out to be more powerful than anything we know?

Maybe that's what he's been up to since we last saw him. Gurus tend to do that.

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OK, so if by "practical" you mean that a linear step-by-step pickup model actually exists, then how is the M3 model superior in practicality over any other model such as AFC Adam's (C-R)+Q+SE=A model?
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The opener, as I said can just be simple a "hi", "hello", or "you from around here" ect. Introduce yourself at some point with your FULL name, first and last. People used to do this and it had a touch of class, dignity, pride and authority. Now its like, "I'm Dan, I don't have a last name I'm just Dan, I'm simple Dan ". Also being on first and last name basis is good, as she won't feel like a "slut" for having sex with some guy who she can't delude herself to think she knows. Get used to introducing yourself this way all the time and within 6 months it'll be natural so you don't have to think about it.
And this disagrees with Mystery method how? And by the way, don't most guys have trouble generating situational conversations when they first start off? How practical is it for them to start with Hi? Didn't know conversations magically appear from saying Hi.
GWM provides a simple verbal method: http://www.gunwitch.com/seduction/verbalmethod.html

But you'll find it's not very complicated and it doesn't focus on what you would call stimulating conversation. It just gives you some shit to say... kinda ;)

Like I've said before, MM makes people think their verbal game is more important than it actually is. Newbies will ask for ways to start and continue really awesome conversations with women because they think that actually has a heavy impact on seducing her. The more experienced guys know that seduction has a lot more to do with other things. Looks like you're under the impression that newbies should be given a fish when they ask for a fish instead of teaching them how to fish.
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I'll explain one theory posed by scientist as to why this is:
I agree with what you're saying but you should really start speaking for yourself.
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I finally decided to officially admit it...

I no longer believe the MM is good...

There are just too much powerful arguments against it... People made a lot of valid points. And I have to be an idiot to ignore them...

Chief and Warped Mindless are obviously right and since I'm less experienced than them I'd be a fool to continue to argue with people that know what they are talking about...

I'm not gonna bash the MM, but I will just let go of it...



What if Mystery releases "Mystery Method Motherfucking 2 !!!!!!!"

and it turns out to be more powerful than anything we know?

Maybe that's what he's been up to since we last saw him. Gurus tend to do that.
The entire point of this thread is to get you to stop being dogmatic about MM and try other methods. Don't believe anything until you've tried it for yourself.


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Ok, so it seems that we're currently asking for a relatively linear method of seduction that allows for natural game and development without becoming dogmatic.

I think this could be useful, but, honestly, a more useful model might be an "inner game model". Pickup is more of a function of who you are, rather than what you do, so why don't we get to the source of the issue?

Perhaps if we all work together on this, we could create a fairly accurate model to help newbies develop some game. Here's my own idea of what such a model would entail:

1. Realization and decision.
-Reach a point where you refuse to accept your current circumstances
-Commit to changing your current situation
-Decide what you really want
-Figure out what you need to do/who you need to be to accomplish this
-Realize that you are no longer the person you were before this decision
2. Initial action
-Plan a specific instance where you act congruently with your ideal self
-Continuously keep the ideas of your true self in mind
-Always look out for unplanned opportunities to act in your ideal manner
3. Reevaluation
-After planned initial action, two possibilities:
i. It went well, in which you give yourself positive reinforcement
ii. It went badly, in which case you figure out why it went badly
4. Continuously repeat steps 2 and 3


Anyway, that's kinda wordy and definitely could use some refining and some more input. Anyone wanna help out?

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I find these arguments of better or worse pretty useless to be honest.

I hate people who stick to specific methods and dont allow themselves to open up.
Granted, MM has flaws, but all in all it is a pretty great method of seduction. Can you yourself be Mystery by repeating his lines? No, you cant.

Seduction methods are guidelines. Take bits and pieces of everything and use what is congruent to your personality. Once you have that, you have your OWN seduction method. My friend and I used to argue this stuff all the time. He was a David X man me an MM man, until we realized that we are in fact our own men. I use MM in clubs because I find it works better there, and I go direct during daygame because it works better there.

Besides the fact that most successful dating coaches have been MM students in the past (including RSD guys, who have literally just copied the entire program), heres something no one bothers to think about: WOMEN ARE DIFFERENT.

Use different styles, depending on different types of girls, and more importantly HAVE FUN!

Who cares whats better or worse, take what works for you!

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I find these arguments of better or worse pretty useless to be honest.

I hate people who stick to specific methods and dont allow themselves to open up.
Granted, MM has flaws, but all in all it is a pretty great method of seduction. Can you yourself be Mystery by repeating his lines? No, you cant.

Seduction methods are guidelines. Take bits and pieces of everything and use what is congruent to your personality. Once you have that, you have your OWN seduction method. My friend and I used to argue this stuff all the time. He was a David X man me an MM man, until we realized that we are in fact our own men. I use MM in clubs because I find it works better there, and I go direct during daygame because it works better there.

Besides the fact that most successful dating coaches have been MM students in the past (including RSD guys, who have literally just copied the entire program), heres something no one bothers to think about: WOMEN ARE DIFFERENT.

Use different styles, depending on different types of girls, and more importantly HAVE FUN!

Who cares whats better or worse, take what works for you!

Belenos
1) Don't believe everything you have read in "The Game"
2) The current RSD (nuRSD) is nothing like MM.
3) David X is a really cool guy. :P

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I find these arguments of better or worse pretty useless to be honest.

I hate people who stick to specific methods and dont allow themselves to open up.
Granted, MM has flaws, but all in all it is a pretty great method of seduction. Can you yourself be Mystery by repeating his lines? No, you cant.

Seduction methods are guidelines. Take bits and pieces of everything and use what is congruent to your personality. Once you have that, you have your OWN seduction method. My friend and I used to argue this stuff all the time. He was a David X man me an MM man, until we realized that we are in fact our own men. I use MM in clubs because I find it works better there, and I go direct during daygame because it works better there.

Besides the fact that most successful dating coaches have been MM students in the past (including RSD guys, who have literally just copied the entire program), heres something no one bothers to think about: WOMEN ARE DIFFERENT.

Use different styles, depending on different types of girls, and more importantly HAVE FUN!

Who cares whats better or worse, take what works for you!

Belenos
1) Don't believe everything you have read in "The Game"
2) The current RSD (nuRSD) is nothing like MM.
3) David X is a really cool guy. :P
1) regardless
2)once again.. who cares?
3)never said he wasnt :)

All Im saying is learnt the most you can from wherever you can and just apply it, see what works and what doesnt, thats all there is to it! The rest just doesnt matter. :)


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^^ good post Belenos.

I also think the relevant posts regarding the strength and weaknesses of MM are pretty good content-wise, and I'd still love to see some posts like this for other methods, because I think that would be a relevant resource for many here.

RSD? (a more in-depth one)
David X?
Vin DC?
Sinn?
Love Systems?
Juggler?
GunW?
Ross Jeffries/SS?
PUA Training/Adam Lyons/Gambler?
Paragon Project?
Asian Playboy?

perhaps people with experience in these systems could post? When I have time I'll try to put something together for SS/MM/RSD which I have experience with. I'll also try to give you guys an overview of whats happening in NZD, and with Lookup Lifestyle (local NZ company), who I've done a bit of coaching for in the past.

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I'm going to now discuss another reason (other than Marketing) why Mystery Methods, and routines specially, are extremely prevalent in the seduction community.

"I don't know what to say"
"What do I say when I open?"
"After my opener what do i say?"
"Im not sure what to say"


All things every experienced on this forum as herd from guys trying to get good at this.

Lets talk a little about this...

Why doesn't the person know what to say? When broken down there is actually a pretty simple explanation.

The not knowing what to say stems from the socially conditioned belief that he must "impress" the girl.

A guy is out and sees this real cutie off to his left and wants to approach. All of a sudden his mind goes blank.

"I need to say something cool so she will like me."
"I need to say something witty to hook her"
"I need to say something to impress her"

This questions may all happen at a subconscious level, but they do happen.

Women can sense this whole "trying to impress her" vibe...not good.

"Nah, warped...im not trying to impress her. I just dont know what to say."

If you wasn't trying to impress her you wouldn't care what you say. Your mind wouldn't go blank on you,

Girl: "Hes trying to impress me, hes not cool enough to deserve me"

High value guys dont go around trying ti impress people. he just expresses himself. I'm going to repeat that:

Expression, not Impression.

So, why cant you think of what to say when your trying to impress? Your mind starts putting a word filter on everything you want to say.

Your mind: "will saying this make me seem lame?"

Then it over analyzes everything and hence, you now have a blank mind.

Routines came about because guys though "ah-ha! Now I dont have to worry about what to say. I'll just slap a one size fit all routine on every interaction!"

Problem is, routines (besides being lame) arnt one size fit all. In addition, its common place for the user of the routines to replace (cover up deeply!) his personality. Insted of having an actual personality, he now just has a few memorized routines. Hes no longer a person, just a social robot.

These routines are just a band-aid. They dont fix the problem, just covers it up with a "magic pill quick fix" and teh problem grows worse and worse until routines cant even help anymore.

Insted of being real men and fixing the root source of the problem, they opt for the band-aid approach. Its easier (in the short term) but extremely unhealthy in the long run.

The real way to handle the "mind going blank" problem is to develop yourself (and contrary to popular belief...this does not take a long time) so that you no longer feel the need to impress women. Inner Game.

To add another note on using routines...women arnt dumb! They can sense that your not being fully real with them. They may not be able to place their finger on it but they know your being fake....not attractive.
Jesus fucking christ, are you for real?

That shit you just said there looks DIRECTLY COPIED from the RSDnation site, wtf dude you dont use your own opinion and your own eyes, you just soak up everything tyler and alex says to you and take it like the fucking truth.

You mr is a super RSD fanboy and should most likely keep your mouth shut.

If you even had some kind of IQ you would soon realize that "I dont know what to say" thingy isnt really about the verbals, but a STATE OF MIND, this state of mind WILL BE trained as you get more comfortable with girls, even if you use routines, it has a psychological scientific explanation behind it so dont give me your damn RSD brainwashed bullshit.

And about that shit "women can feel when you are not authentic" NO, not true, you think girls do have some kind of psychotic ability? They dont, that mindset will only get you fucking paranoid. I tell you this, girls are often very VERY easy to fool, when u are congruent with your routine shit they wont "detect you bullshitting and not become attracted" - You tell me how the fuck I was able to fuck 70+ girls going PURE MM ? And these girls were hot, believe me, I live in Sweden.

You are so full of shit it aint even funny.


MM do have alot of limiting shit in it, and it is surely "out of date", but that bullshit you're spitting is just NOT TRUE - ofcourse you wont be able to see that due to your fucking "RSD conditioning".
I've never seen what i wrote on RSDnation but I dont doubt something similar to it might be on there. It is possible for 2+ people to come to the same conclusion with anyone having to rip each off. Just means the conclusion is more likely to be true.

Also, women can feel when your fake. In general, they feel what you feel. Thats because your the man and your reality is (or at least supposed to be) stronger than hers. I'll explain one theory posed by scientist as to why this is:

Do you have a baby? Im willing to bet not. I don't either. But, I used to take care of my baby nephew all the time. When he would cry I would first think to ask myself "whens the last time he was fed, perhaps he is hungry." If he wasnt hungry Id check his diaper. If it wasn't his diaper id simply try something else.

The same thing happens with a lot of dads. They go down a "list" and do everything until they finally fix whatever is making the baby cry.

Have you ever noticed this is different with women, and specially moms? A baby starts to cry and the women (almost all the time) pretty much immediate knows why the baby is crying. This isn't magic, or even that astounding really...iits simply a by-product of evolution. Women have, historically, be the ones to take care of the children while the men was out bringing home the "meat."

Over time, Women has evolved this "sense." They are more finely intune with emotions and feelings. Lets use another example:

Ever had a friend, specially a female, come up to you and start laying out a big problem of hers. Lest say her car died.

Susans cat died so she runs over to Bobbies house. She lays there crying and telling him about the cat. Bobby defentially feels bad for her but hes not feeling the emotions she feels.

Now, Susan runs over to her female friends, Ashley, house. She is crying and telling about her cat. Ashley is crying too and is feeling a MUCH deeper level of emotion than Bobby did. Thats because Ashley can feel (not as much but can feel it) what Susan is feeling.

Women can feel what you feel. Thats teh whole basis of sexual sate projection.

You feel sexual and horny, she will feel sexual and horny.
You feel happy, she will feel happy.
You feel ok and not awkward with the silences, she will be comfortable with them too.

Something else I have noticed and would like to point out:

As I have said many, many times over... It is bad to be reactive. Its much better to be nonreactive. I have also said thats one big reason MM is bad, it teaches you to b reactive where as working on yourself and inner game will teach you to be nonreactive.

MM making the user reactive can simply be proved why looking no further than this fourm. Take my two recent threads on MM and combine it with this one. Now, go thru every reply and chalk the reply up as:

"positive and nonreactive."
"netural"
or
"negative and reactive."

Replying with a different opinion that man does not count as being reactive as long as their reply is mature. Ezo is a great example. Ezo disagress with me on MM being bad but he disagress in a mature way. My opinion doesn't effect his emotional state. It doesn't make him angry and furtrated and therefore causing him to lash out. Hes very emotionally stable and mature is his replies.

Now, once you do all that, notice that almost everyone that you put in the "negative and reactive" category is a very strong supporter of MM. Notice the pattern?

So, why does my opinion cause many of these MM supporters to lash out, call me names, and be very negative? Insecurity. On some level, my opinion has resonated with them and it makes sense. Their ego then takes over and says "wow, it kinda makes sense but NO..I cant be wrong! I wont let myself be wrong!"

They then lash out. Why are they insecure? A big part of it is because they have been using routines to try and attract women. And how can they be secure with themselves when they arnt being themselves around women? How cna they be secure when the method they use encourages them to be ashamed of being a man? Im of course talking about opinion openers here. A real man isnt afraid to go up and show his true masculine intent. No need to cover up his intentions why asking some opinion. He is a man and not ashamed of it. And really, you dont even need an opener. A opener is siimply an excuse to go up and start a conversation. Humans are social creatures, you dont need an excuse to go up and start being social. Needing an excuse (opener) is again, another limiting belief.

But all that said, its okay if your insecure. Its okay if you have an ego. I once did, a lot of people once did. Instead of trying to cover it up with routines, develop yourself so that you can rid yourself on insecurity and the ego.

Wish you the best.


You god damn retard, you dont even see your own bullshit.

1. Women have a better intuition than men yes, but they do NOT FEEL WHAT YOU FEEL, that is a falacy. Your shit is taken DIRECTLY from "the female brain" which have been STRONGLY criticized by psychologists, its just not TRUE, its false.

2. Women cant see when you are "fake", only if you do a VERY bad job, your fucking mindset will cause people to became fucking paranoid.

3. You ALWAYS have an "ego", you CAN NOT get rid of it, its fucking IMPOSSIBLE, unless your a fucking monk, EVERY psychologist will tell you this, you are fucking NUTS if you think you can be ego less, fucking idiot belives in everything you read on rsdnation.

4. The reason people get angry is NOT because you're bashing a certain method, but because you're a fucking fanboy who have NO experience what so ever to make such stupid fucking arguments you make, they just dont make sense, and ANYONE who is good will see that from far. Its like you would say "Water is bad", then people get fucking angry at you because you are fucked up in your head, and then you think "you get angry because I mess with your water ego!! so Im right!! you are reactive!!" - Fucking maniac.

STILL, question, hows your fucking lay count? How long have you been in this game? Ive been in this shit since 2004, I have over 140lays, I have huge experience with MM, GWM, RSD and all the fucking teachings you can imagine, I would suggest my skill in this shit is probably x3000 of yours, and no you idiot this aint no fucking "ego feeding", its clear, simply facts.

Again, if you really read what Im saying is that I do not say MM is some great fucking superior method, but what I am saying is that your arguments are flat out SUCKY and Its so fucking easy to just see on your writing style that you're just some RSD brainwashed kid whos laycount is probably under 20, therefor you should probably keep your mouth shut and let the more experienced people talk, thankyou.

Oh and btw, she do NOT feel horny only because you are doing it smartass, if you're a high value guy then YES, she MIGHT, but if you're a sucky chody ugly rsdfanboy its exactly like when that fat ugly girl sits besides you and feel horny, you will feel disgusted.


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Evilvalle, I appreciate your commentary and the counterpoints to Warped Mindless. However, try to choose certain phrases more carefully so they don't ignite flame wars.

Anything I deem below this post as flaming by any user will be subject to censorship by myself, in an effort to keep this thread happy.

Thanks :)
Haha yeah sure np, just fun to se how "unreactive" this dude is.

Im also fucking annoyed of his arguments, lal.


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1. Women have a better intuition than men yes, but they do NOT FEEL WHAT YOU FEEL, that is a falacy. that shit is taken DIRECTLY from "the female brain" which have been STRONGLY criticized by psychologists, its just not TRUE, its false.

2. Women cant see when you are "fake", only if you do a VERY bad job, your mindset will cause people to became fucking paranoid.

3. You ALWAYS have an "ego", you CAN NOT get rid of it, its IMPOSSIBLE, unless your a fucking monk, EVERY psychologist will tell you this, you are NUTS if you think you can be ego less, fucking idiot belives in everything you read on rsdnation.

4. The reason people get angry is NOT because you're bashing a certain method, but because you're a fanboy who has NO experience what so ever to make such stupid arguments you make, they just dont make sense, and ANYONE who is good will see that from far. Its like you would say "Water is bad", then people get fucking angry at you because you are fucked up in your head, and then you think "you get angry because I mess with your water ego!! so Im right!
thank you, i cleaned it up a bit tho but there is not much

Why is MM getting bashed on soo bad, its old and its not very advanced but its something that can help ppl who have been socially adjusted wrong. Of course theres better ways to learn other than MM but it reaches out to the ppl who have little social experience and are very analytical in their approach. They can build a step by step. No its not even close to perfect but its a guide the oblivious.
I personally dont like or dislike MM it is what is it is, most methods seems incomplete and need to be merged together to make a complete personalized method, this is obvously among them

MM is almost like the basics to indirect game and generally just the basics to game, its like the 101 class of college game 101, other classes being more advanced philosophies. things like 60 years challenge are new classes jsut developed etc.

MM and "The Game" have brought a lot of people into this community and for that I thank those things

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