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PostPosted: Sat Aug 07, 2010 9:24 pm 
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Hey Guys,

Back again! So whether im seeking out advice or just running through my game plan. . . not quite sure. . .but please do reply if you have any points to include or change.

Background:
I have know this girl for approximately 8 years. . .we used to be really close about 5-6 years ago. When she was dating my friend. . . and lets just say, even though i liked her I put myself in the friend zone because of that. Mind you we were back in highschool and i used to sit on the phone with hours on end and listen to her problems. . . .we never really hung out unless it was a group thing with the "friend" and her and some other people. The last time I ran in to her about 5 years ago we all got together and she was with my friend and i hooked up with hers. About 2 years ago i saw her at a bar and was like wow whats up and told her i still liked her because i let her know right away and she told me she liked me too, I asked her since when she said like the second day we met. . . I was like fuck yea. Well I told her i wanted to kiss her to see if there was anything there and told her that it would have to wait because we were having a genuine time. Well about 6 months to a year later I called her up to hang out and she was having a kick back at her house and invited me over. . . we were polaying kings cup and I got pretty drunk, so i asked if i could stay the night . . . .and she was like yea you can sleep here in the living room and I will sleep in my room. Officially was a big "slap" I was a little confused, and told her get your ass over here and give me a hug goodnight. I told her so about that kiss lets see and she backed away. . . i realize i should have just went for it rather than mention it but oh well. Well not to mention making the situation bad. . .i did the creepiest thing ever, in the morning while she was still in bed i jumped into bed with her and tried to cuddle with her. . . she began to squirm around to get me off her without actually confronting me, I was . . . just thinking to myself wow wtf why did i do that . . . so i went and made breakfast. . . but she wouldnt wake up so i just left. It took awhile before we started talking again. She rarley calls me it will usually be me once in awhile to call her and i did probably a good 6 months or later i did. . . .i brought up the cuddling and apologized and she accepted. and then we lost contact again until recently. . . well i seen her at the bar and well i talked a little bit and asked to have dinner via text she agreed after she gets off work tonight at 8.

*So that was the background. . . kind of elaborate. Hope you enjoy.

Game Plan:
I dont have a car so I will be using my brothers, I live with him and my mom. So I asked them both to leave the house. Well I am going to take my brothers car and meet her at the restaurant, mid meal my brother will text me that he is picking up the car, i will let her know and ask if she could give me a ride home. Before I recieve the text or call that he will be coming to get the car I will try to plant some seed of interest, something she will want to see or watch or look at. Something to get her in my house after she drops me off.(ANY HINTS ON WHAT THAT SHOULD BE?) I plan to have some alchol here, jack daniels/coke and some beer! Not sure what her favorite drink is but pretty sure she will drink anything. Throughout the dinner I plan to play some negs, I plan to sit next to her right away and do some kino escalation. I plan to build some jealousy with the waitress which is hopefully a girl. Run some game talking about things that have been going on and look for some connection points.

My bigggest thing is building attraction and setting up the scene where she comes over and it doesnt seem out of the ordinary. So she feels comfortable the whole time. Do some swimming, hopefully naked, watch a movie. . . and fuck!

Yep thats it any (POINTERS?) Let me know

Love you guys!


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PostPosted: Sun Aug 08, 2010 2:55 pm 
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If i was you I would take a step back from the whole planning the date. Plan some basic logistics but dont go any further than that or you will get too stuck in your head. Your better off just chilling and relaxing. Act confident and tease a little but dont think too much about particular lines.

Dont do any NEGS whatever you do. You already have built attraction and you will be pretending to be someone your not. Really this is where game can harm your chances... you got to be yourself...

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Daayuum thiis looks soo inyeeresting! :)
What happenned after?!


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PostPosted: Fri Oct 22, 2010 10:56 pm 
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Ok so here is the follow up! I gave up! haha not exactly ill get you through the story.

So the date: Well we went applebeas, I got dropped off told my brother to call me to get the car and he did. Which worked really well.

So I am there got us a table, I am waiting for her to get off work, I was waiting for awhile maybe 20 min. Got really nervous, more anxious actually, started thinking maybe she stood me up. So I get up to go to the bathroom and when I come out she is sitting at another table talking with some guys, I was so jealous and thought WTF. Anyway she jumped up and ran to me and jumped on me and gave me a big ole hug. Then we walked back to our table and I had her sit in the corner so I could better sit next to her so it didnt look try hard. Well she said she didnt like the corner she didnt want to be closed in. Well were there and I ask if shes hungry, she says no. I said I am so im getting something. . . .i didnt eat all day. So i say hell will split an appetizer. She orders a beer to drink and I get the same, I was a little timid and didnt really demonstrate good male qualities here, because the waiter asked me what i wanted and i was like i dont know what do you want she ordered a beer and said the same (followed her lead) SO were chit chatting about all sorts of stuff I neg her, I know i shouldnt have it was more of a tease, i was making comments that could be taken sexually, in hopes that it may stir some of those triggers. Maybe it did not sure I do think I may have gone overboard, but didnt really sense anything. Oh yea, I tried to sit close to her so our legs could touch and she scooted over so i told her you move over anymore youre gonna fall off she just laughed. Anyway so some guys comes in a creeper of her [past or something and she grabs my thigh and leans in to my chest like shes scared, she say OMG and tells me the story. If my dick was one more inch longer she would grabbed it. LOL So we continue on and my brother calls me on time, actually she went outside for a smoke, I didnt join her, I text my brother and told him to call me because i took her going out for a smoke as a sign that the mood was dampening, so he calls me when she gets back in I tell her "hey my brother just came and picked up the car, I guess he needed it. Would you mind giving me a ride home. We talk she shows me this cd of instrumental music and her favorite beat, well I am a rapper and she says you should totally make me a song. I am like ok, so we get to my place and im like hey let me make a copy of it, so she comes inside, I was prepared for this night I had beer and Jack and coke. I made a mistake, because the first place I went was to the kitchen to poor myself a deink and asked if she wanted one, she said no. I said you sure, she said yes. We went to my room, i put the cd in and showed her some of my other songs, i guess she never knew that I rapped, so i do that then i put on a song start talking about dancing and moving her hips we start dancing together and i tell her to kiss me on the cheek, then the other cheek i point with my finger and then to my lips she kinda said no. ( I made another mistake because when she did that I went for it) and she stepped back we sat on the bed together and were talking I had my hand on her leg she didnt mind. Oh oops I forgot I did that while we were at the restaraunt and also when we were leaving the restaraunt we held hands as we walked to her truck. So around this point actually throughout the night she was texting and she told me her friend had gotten arrested and she had to go. Well I was like come on stay and tried to show her around the house because the last time she was there was about 8 years ago. She was like i gotta go so i was like fine alright walked her to the car and that was that. I see her occasionally at the bar everyonce in awhile she is usually always with guys(its intimidating) Ill go up to her and chit chat for awhile but thats about it, I dont text her or call her, because she doesnt ever call me back or when i do text she rarely replies. She never contacts me at all i always have to initiate it and its really annoying.. . . . ...!!!!!!!!!! Way too much work!

Sorry if its not the ending you were hoping for me either!


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