By the way, Frogs into Princes is an awesome book on NLP.

It takes concentration when situations in which you can use those techniques appear. Very difficult to master, but very useful.

One cool thing you can do as well is to talk about NLP to girls. Lol, they love it.

Thanks, I'll get that book! Agree, NLP makes you seem a bit more educated IMO.

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Top post Chel.

Sounds liked this girl kinda knocked your game a bit?

We all get it, it’s called being human

but lets be honest.

You have FAR too tight a game to let it affect you.

My take on this thread?
EXACTLY.

THAT is the Chel we all know and love.

Who cares what she was doing, sorry crazyoney2k but fantasising that this girl is having a crap time is a bit afc. imo


Thinking about it she may have flaked a bit because she's insecure about her age, being too old.
Girls worry A LOT

She could be having inner conflict, self protection mechanism coming in

Thinking with the rational side of her mind
"Should I really meet up with this young guy? I ought to meet older guys and settle down”

Thinking with the emotional side of her mind
“This guy was really cute and we had loads of fun, we should hang out”

Thinking with the rational side of her mind
"But he’ll probably meet younger, hotter women and I’ll get hurt”

Thinking with the emotional side of her mind
“That younger guy was cute AND fun, a fling with him would be just what I need”

Hence you get an date request when her mind is in the emotional phase
And a flake when it’s in the rational phase

If I was in this situation I'd like to think that
IF I heard from her again I'd either disqualify and Neg

Example. "Jeez you older girls sure play games huh?"

OR

Try and get around her rational objections (so she tells herself it's not a "date")

Whatever day she mentions a possible meet up say in a matter of fact way that you are doing something with some friends

Something innocuous like a movie or something, move the conversation on....

And then say “hey, you know what? you should come along with us, it’ll be fun”

This takes the pressure off the “date” for her

AND

Doesn’t make you look afc.

Also if you hint that the group of friends are mixed (she won’t want to come along with just you and the guys) and it will bring out the competitive side of her nature.

You are the prize!



Just my opinion

Scamp

Firstly Scamp, thanks mate, always take your words well, and take not of them, always spoke well in all posts I have made or been involved in.

She did knock my game a bit, but fuck it, I've been knocked down worse before and got up and sarged harder and better.

The part I have put in bold of your reply is very true, a lot of girls I meet are older, because I'm usually interesting, dress well and take interest, but when they find out I'm 21 and they're like 27ish, that exact line in bold comes to their mind set.

If I do hear from her, I'm going to call her out straight, and ask her, "what's the deal with you? Seems your one of those girls that like to play games"

That should get her thinking, I'm not banking on her getting in touch now, I will not contact her again unless she does, I've done my fair share, plenty of women out there to my disposal, her loss, not mine .

Cheers Scamp!

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No Worries man.

Will post some more shit of my own soon, it's been too long!

Has been long, been busy? How's the pickup side of life for you?

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""If I do hear from her, I'm going to call her out straight, and ask her, "what's the deal with you? Seems your one of those girls that like to play games"""

Hey, Chelios, just make sure you don't tell this to her in a negative conotation. Try to sound playful, and the consequences are more likely to be positive.

Cheers

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I dont know I think I would prefer just saying it the way Chelios would. Sometimes its better to man up and show you cant be arsed with bullshit no more from her.

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UnionJack, if it was the first time she flaked I'd be more playfull, but it isn't, I'm in a situation where I don't care now, sarging tonight a lil bit, so if she does call, I'm going to be straight, let her know who's boss, if she don't like it, shit happens, least she can know I'm no mug and where she went wrong.

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Yea, you've got a point there.

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Guess everyone's different, that's what makes us different style of PUA's, or wannabe's!

Had a good night yesterday, closed a few girls, opened about 5 sets, each set lasted atleast 15 minutes, maybe could have advanced more, but I'm just concentrating more on stacking since I came back into gaming.

Even though I closed I'm not interested in going out with them, just good practice.

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Yeah man, I've dropped off the radar a bit. Have just got back from an awesome holiday in the sun and have just managed to meet a couple of wingmen.

We've been out sarging twice now and it's really spurring me on, we are all at pretty similar levels but have different strengths so it makes a great learning environment.

Got a few number closes but am working on a few potential fb's at the mo.

Hoping to actively sarge twice a week now so will deffo be posting my experiences and looking for advice.

Keep sarging!

Scamp

Keep it up Scamp, PM me man from time to time share some stories, be good to know how your getting on!

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