Ok, so i have been seeing this girl for a few weeks now, and this week, its been as though im her bitch, she loves it... and then shes started turning all mrs meanie in texts etc...

It's really annoying, and im trying to get her in the stage of making her my gf but anything nice i say to her, she makes a mean joke out of it or says awww, and doesnt say things back.

Now she defo likes me, and like, yesterday i said, i was gna ring you in a bit, but your being a bitch so i wont now, she replied back saying, no no il be nice x x x x x x

So anyway, today i ignored her all day, when she came on fb i said i was busy all day, then i texted her about 3 saying, sex? 4.30? , she replied back saying, Let me think Your not that lucky x , as though shes in fucking charge.. so i text back saying, o well im lucky else where.

Then about 5ish i went on fb and she said, r u ok with me? so i said ye, and was blunt about everything she asked me, then i said, ok im now going, i have something to tell you but it can wait, text me later, bye.

And she said, whats up? and put kisses etc... then shes texted me twice saying, whats up?

What do you reckon i should say back to her? I need to get her in a nicer state of mind as she has a thing against all blokes as her ex cheated on her a million times..

i was thinking....

Your Mrs meanie act doesn't suit that beautiful face x
or
I think your beautiful, but the mean act is a turn off....

ideas would be grateful

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Law of Attraction

Why not just be yourself, how you were as you started seeing her, she obviously likes that.

People try to change way to much and try to use to much PUA stuff when their with a girl.

Keep it straight forward, you've been busy, you don't need to play games yet lol. Don't text back straight away, a bit of push and pull, that way she's wondering what your upto,she already is by texting you twice and asking what's up. IOI's right there man!

If I were you, get her out again, asap.

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By constantly complimenting her when she has total control over you is just giving her the validation she seeks and you mean nothing to her.
Remove the validation - and she'll come crawling after you, wanting it back.

In simpler words: Don't be a pussy and quit kissing her ass - you're not her little pet.

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ye^^ little panda has got the idea of what im trying to change here.
I am trying to make her stop being mean to me, so she changes so shes all nice to me, i think it could work at this stage by saying those things? and then i can take control of the situation as shes had the control this week.

I want my balls back!

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Law of Attraction

Ok my friend we have some work to do here, I can tell you are inexperienced and that this girl is interested in you. Be careful though dont let the power slip into her hands. If you continue the way you are she will lose interest in you. Your first problem is that you are over thinking this whole situation too much. You like this girl right? So the comments and conversations have to be natural. They have to be spontaneous and fun! Also the idea behind waiting a few hours to msg her back is a good one, but this only works if you give her a little treat when you do decide to reply. Theres a whole thread on how to open conversations and witty txt msgs in the routine section.

have fun

PS> Remember you're the freaking man, you are the one in the dominant position. I dont care how good looking or stubborn this girl is you have to stay focused or you will pay for it later.

suggestions? ^^^ lol

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ME: Your Mrs mean act doesn't suit your beautiful face x
her: Im not bein mean x x x x x

ok, any suggestions on where to go from here in making her my bitch?

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Law of Attraction

"Well your not being very lady like " a kind of neg! haha

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love it! and just sent it haha, see what she says to that, thats a good one man!

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ok just got back

As in what? Your mean x x

still not sure where to take this ahaha, atleast shes sucking my dick now

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Law of Attraction

"Me mean, hehe "

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hmmm, i think that will bring it back into the jokey stage, i think i need to keep enforcing the seriousness of the matter, shes my bitch, and she has to be nice to me. This sounds really bad, but shes had me chasing bones all week.

Atleast shes realizing that im not happy with the way shes been acting. perhaps i should say something like..

well iv been nice to you all week, and youve been a bitch...
or
i can see why ur being mean, cos all ur ex's are stupid chavs, u can act normal to me,
or
would it hurt to say something nice?
or
just shut up and suck my dick

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Law of Attraction

You've got to be nice sometimes, push and pull though, depends on what route you want to take.

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change anything you'd end with an ? with an !

sex? becomes sex!

if you're asking you will get shotdown