Sweet, second post.


I watched all the vids and such and i'm still learning, believe me i have much to learn. I really don't want to pour out the status but i guess here it goes. I hate blondes. They are really not the kind of girls i like. I like brunettes, black hair, and dirty blondes but not blondes!

Til i met her.

Shes really really smart. Tall, very hot, and turned my principles upside down. I know her because I have a class with her. Talked to her once in the very beginning of class, got her name and that was it. 15 weeks later, i decided to open again, and invite her for some billiards. Instead of making some lame excuse she said sure, and we talked like best friends on the way to the tables.

-Points taken noted: Shes obviously interested in me, otherwise she wouldn't have taken the time to come and play with me and some guys. I was looking for that sign of interest and she showed it.

Now I played the cocky irresistible asshole. And its honestly been over 9 months since my last relationship, or any girl action for me so my skills were really rusty. She was really dam good at billiards too. we then proceeded to play Foosball. She was on my team both times and i really didnt flirt as much as i should have. I think she was flirting alittle. She hit me once or twice, another IOI.

Then our game was done, and before she left i got her number. IOI!

I proceeded to text her later that night becasue i'm a retard.

I said

me- just so you know i like to text alot. =wow i gave her all the power in the world.

like three hours later.

her- haha no worries, i can handle that.

me(an hour later, got some power back!)- good cause now your on call for billiards. we need to beat up these asians, i basically did all the work today(i sucked).

her- well i better be on your team or else i'll loose ;P

me- that may be the case but the way we kicked ass was awesome! anyway my friend and i are going surfing this friday, i guess you can come along. only if you carry the surfboards.

her- i have finals this week too bro. afterwards for sure.
next day.

me- i need new clothes. mall. i'm leaving at 6. and you can't say no, cause tahts mean. wanna come with?

her- well i'm not saying no, but for sure after my final. haha.

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at night, the day before the planned meeting.

me- hey you awake?

her- ya

me- can i call?

her- ya but i have to study :/

Called talk to her about her finals, her day, and made some stupid small talk. but ultimately canceled the time we were to meet, (i thought it was a good move) and said i had prior commitments with the boys night out.
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so i sent her these today

me- your missing out. NOT!

her- lol huh?

me- nevermind. so how was your day? are you packed(for her trip for 3 days)

her- Pretty good! noe im not leaving until friday morning haha. My phones about to die

me- lol ouch. just say you dun wan chat :p

her- lol just trying to warn you that my phones guna die lol
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end story.

and i have not responded.
so to sum it up, i'm looking for advice, while i continue to read posts on these sites similar to mine. I feel some interest, but i dont know what route to take, or what part am i actually on. I did ack like a nice irresistible asshole so that was a huge attraction boost, i'm sure of it. I did give her alot of power but i think shes got a mutal like.

also jsut so everyone knows, if this works with her, its because of the internet haha! not cause of me

Mate Im not gonna type you out the details, but Im in a very similar situation so I know how you feel. Like when your with her its all gravy then the texting comes and it seems like shes not interested.

Trust me, shes playing hard to get. This shit can make you feel very down. Try not to let it bother you. If she doesnt reply to your last text, DONT text her again. Wait till she texts you, it might be a few days, it might be a week, but it will come. And if it doesn't, shes not worth your time.

It sounds like you guys hit it off and you gamed her to the point where she gave you her number. Maybe, shes got something else going on in her life and realised that she didnt want to take things furthur with you, but in that moment you made a girl want you and if anything you can take great confidence from that and carry on with other girls. So thats ok if things dont go any furthur with her, end of the day all gaming is is trial and error until u find the right girl for you.

If she does give you a text then you know its onnnnnnn bitch!

Patience my friend.

Good luck bro

N Platinum x

I notice you started all the texts, you don't wanna seen as a needy guy so stop that. All these starts convey you realy want her, wich destroys attraction.

You should freeze her out, untill she texts you. Then your on a equal line again

thanks for the replies!


so far status update:

She called and asked why i never called back(OW!) and i said i was busy but im free tomorrow. So tonight we might get together for something to do. not sure what though

Like NPlatinum said, it's on man! Keep us posted

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haha status update:


ok so we were supose to do something that night but she gave me an excuse by text saying

her- "hey don't kill me, but my best friend called me crying, and i just want to check up on her and see if shes alright. rain check?"

me- hey no worries. im going out with some buddies tonight anyway. call me when u get back from your trip.(the next 6 days)

So; i will get her call back sometime this coming tuesday hopefully. then if i do, its on like donkey kong!::



HOWERVER:

Quick question. When you approach a group with the girl you like in the group. what do you say after a neg? are you suppose to smile while saying? sound like your kidding?

so she called me back and she started talking about her trip, i asked well if you wana hang out tomorrow me and my buds are hiting up the mall, i guess you could come.

she said i have work tomorrow.

i said ok just give me a call when ur free. but hey listen i got to go ok?

she said ok by by , sounded like she would call me soon too haha.


anyway almost 3 days since no call

Just asking cause I don't know myself:

But it seems you've suggested to hang out with her a couple of times but she never was able or cancelled at the last moment. I know such invitations towards her tend to pop out during a convo But wouldn't it be better to let her do the inviting this time? And if yes how should you respond to this?

haha absolutely right. i'm no longer asking her anything. in fact since our last phone call(4days ago) i havn't sent her a text message/call whatever. i'm just waiting till she does something on her end of the deal. if she dosn't do anything, well then shes out of the picture. the odd part is, we may have several classes coming up together lol awkward!


if she does call me up and say hey, lets go to the beach or something. I would probably go all out of my way just to get with her again. sad huh? lol. I would just accept her offer, and say only if you buy me a drink or something. if its the beach i would say only if you rub sun-tan lotion on my back haha. movie; popcorn please! what do you think:?

she texted me right now saying:

Hey! I dont know what your schedule is like tomorrow but I'm totally free to hang out if you have time


what do i dO!

lol long story short. we talked on teh phone for a long time. also we are going to the beach tomorrow. lol

i think my game has finnaly started to pick up pace ;D

i used alot of these text message openers and such here, very useful; list-of-text-messages-game-vt21175.html

Sounds like it's going well. Keep us posted.

WOHO!


Took her out to the mall, then beach, then back to my place(so we could shower and stuff) then we went to the mall again and we walked around. somehow we started to hold hands. and tightly. we sat down and our heads were pretty close. i got comfortable being close to her. our hands were still togetehr when we sat down and she picked up my hand and put it behind her head. i tried to escalate the tension and i think i was. i saw, she kept on looking at my lips like amillion times.

i asked whats your favorite food?
she said Pizza, i leaned in closer
what?
she said Pizza with a light laugh,
i leaned in closer brought my cheek to her ear almost and i said pasta?
and she laughed and said yes, pasta haha. then she pushed my head away playfuly.
i asked" Would you like to kiss me?"
she laughed and said i don't know. maybe.
we then started to talk about facebook and i don't remember how but i said you should change your realtionship status. she said oh? am i in a relationship? i said yaH!
i told her she was special(i'm a retard) and she said oh yeah, whys that?
I quickly said, well my reason was good, but then i found a better reason but now i keep on thinking of better reasons.
so we just kinda talked and she said she kinda wanted to head back home. so we walked back to her car and she gave me a hug and i kinda hugged her back lightly, and held her hips for a second when we broke apart but then she backed off and went into her car while i waited by mine for her to go.


SUMMARY OF PUA:

i did bounce her around alot of places
shouldn't have asked if she was free the next day on that night
did text her after the next day
I did buy her a chipotle burrito and coffee.
Alot of times she hinted playfuly i was a mess, or she couldn't belive what she got into.
I think i may have disappointed her for kissing. I gues the guy leans in like 90% girl 10%? i probably shoudl have brushed up on that haha.
We did make a bet that if we were still friends on facebook, we would have to make the other dinner(ilost)

for some reason sometimes when our sexual tension is escalating during our conversations, i stop listing to what she is saying, is this normal?

You could kiss her
You didn't kiss her?!
Cause you could!
Ouch man!
Ouch, it would be less weird if you had kissed her but still, ouch!

Is this how you responded or did you forgot what you said?
WHY?! didnt you kiss her?!
Did it was romantic or did it came off creepy?
Good that you bounced her alot.

You shouldn't have

Depends what you've texted

I personally dont buy anything for her unless she's my GF or i Fclosed her. But It's ok, because you showed your a gentleman and you had attraction.

You had so much IOI's
Did you kiss her or didn't you kiss her?
Most of the time you lean in, she just waits for you to go in and kiss her. Don't expect her to turn her head and kiss you like crazy.
I don't get this, If you didn't delete one or another on facebook you lose?
Anyway it's a opportunity for you to get back at her and kiss her.
Very normal, then it's time to kiss.


Now I believe you did very well, but I don't understand if you kissed her or not.
I hope you did, because you could have. You had the opportunity alot of times.
Definatly at you pizza/pasta talk (wich you got from stealth attraction btw)
YOU SHOULD HAVE KISSED HER!

There is still hope tough, you left her with tremendous confusion. She thinks you have putted her in the friendzone and that never happends to girls.

So set up another date and be very sure you make things clear and Kclose this girl!

Man, you had her hook line and sinker! The stealth attraction stuff worked like a charm, I use it myself, and it really pays off for a k-close. You're not down and out yet though. The next time you two hang out, get the k-close in!!

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