Why not learn both ever better!

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

In my opinion, I feel that, SPAM, you have what I call a Spaghetti Noodle Spine, in which you are fragile, insecure, anti-alpha, and find excuses to reflect your failures.

don;t take this the wrong way, but i'm not going to beat you around the bush, but I will be straight forward.

Like Enzo advised, learn PUA, along with many other things such as personal development, build self-leadership skills, learn about being Alpha, build your confidence, TAKE ACTION, stuff up as much as you can, it will only make you stronger and build confidence along with many other traits.

The way you walk, the way you stand, the way you sit, the way you talk, are powerful ways in which you portray yourself to people and women.

I am only 1.69cm tall, and don't let that get to me. People respect me because of the way I respect myself. You need to develop an attitude and character that says "I am powerful, I am awesome, I am amazing", and you will notice people will be seeing you slightly different.

Have patience, be persistent, ask yourself every night before you go to sleep:-

"What did I do today that has taken me one step closer to improving myself?"

And if you didn't do anything, then there no one to blame but ourselves. Take responsibility for every action and consequence in your life. If you aren't getting girls, then fix it, if people "over power" you because of the height difference, then over power them with your alpha-ness and "Steel Back Bone".

If you are serious about moving forward with your life, then start now, and never look back. If you keep improving 0.01% per day, 1-2 years from now you will not believe how powerful you have become and how awesome you are.

I only speak form experience as I walk the talk, whether you take my advice is up to you.

"I can open doors, but I cannot push you inside them"

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Quarius.

Thank you for being honest. Funny thing is, i'm very good at other parts of my life but with women i just feel fragile, insecure etc. I've made a new thread on the general questions section, i'd like you to comment on it because i appreciate your help.

1.72 meters = 5.64304462 feet, 5'6" is short even 5'8" is short.

Lenght could never be a/the issue. You got big feet, so thats why they know you got other big tools... so what if they can't handle your package, next!


I have yet to experience where my lenght is in my disadvantage (1.92m).

.WS

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True communication is communion―the realization of oneness, which is love! ~ Eckhart Tolle

They are not attracted to you because you have ZERO confidence in your self at all. There are girls that won't date you because of your height. You don't want them anyway as its never going to work out with them. But there are girls that will over look your height as long as you have CONFIDENCE.

my bad, i'm 172cm . Its just short of 5ft8, annoyingly. Gotta get over it though and start making progress.

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"StreetLight!! Stop seeing every problem in life like it's a chick you didn't hit on!"

Dude this is all bullshit. I'm 5'5-5'6, and before I got into the game, I had a 6'0+ GORGEOUS BLONDE practically fall in love with me....she was ANNOYING and extremely stalkerish, and constantly talked about me being "the one" yadda yaada...IT CREEPED ME OUT, so I never pursued her (I could've lost my virginity to her this summer, but I didn't...I have self-respect for myself).

The point is: What is a negative quality for some might be a positive quality for others. Girls might not like your height, but there are others who will adore it. Just go out there and meet as many women as possible!

I just want to reverberate that while it is a disadvantage, it isn't a deal breaker.

I am 5'4'' and I fucked 20 girls before I was 22- not bad in my opinion. I won't lie, they weren't all winners but no one has to know right? Haha. I would have had more but I had a girlfriend over the past couple years.

I am sure you have figured this out but just make any girl that uses your shortness as an issue feel retarded. Laugh and be like "wtf are you talking about?"

Take it slow. Pat yourself on the back for every single thing you do successfully, no matter how minuscule. But most important, take it slow and accept the fact that it's a journey.

I started this year- and guess what? I've never even been kissed! This time last year, I couldn't even bring myself to SIT next to a >HB5. It was pathetic. But you know what? I'm making progress. I #closed over 10 girls in the past 2 months, went out with 3 and made some serious AFC blunders that resulted in them bolting for dear life. Now, am I going to cry and weep about how life sucks because my best friends are gifted with natural abilities to attract girls whereas I'm unjustly sentenced to a life of solitude? NO, BECAUSE THAT SHIT AIN"T GONNA GET ME ANYWHERE. SCREW YOUR SELF-LIMITING BELIEFS and APPRECIATE WHAT YOU HAVE ALREADY ACCOMPLISHED. I took a few shots- and I missed, so NOW I'm BACK ON THE DRAWING BOARD.

I don't play sports- but I enjoy entertaining myself with analogies.

Now, imagine that you've always wanted to learn how to play the piano. Chicks love pianists. It's sexy as hell. But the problem is that you're 20 years old, and you've never played the piano before- hell, you've never even touched the damn keys. YOU CAN"T EVEN TELL THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A C MAJOR AND A MINOR!(I can't either). But you want to play reaaaaaal bad- and you have the image of yourself selling out crowds in the sydney opera house with your tremendous talent that you just can't get out of your mind.

And then... you look at the piano sitting in front of you and think to yourself

WHAT THE FUCK? I can't even tell the keys apart, how am I EVER going to play well, let alone sell out a concert hall? So you get discouraged, and you start making excuses as to why you can't play. Perhaps your parents were too poor to give you piano lessons, maybe it's because your fingers are too short. Maybe it's because you don't have perfect pitch, which partially explains why you can't tell the difference between notes particularly well.

Maybe...being a pianist just isn't for you.

Do you see what you've done at this point? You failed yourself before you even started. This is how most people go about living their lives- they cruise along, maybe even bump into rocks every now and then, but when they hit a wall, they stop, and they turn.

Don't turn, my friend. You will hit bumps, you will be faced with humiliation, and you will hit walls. But just start- and keep going or else you will never know what's waiting for you on the other side.

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"Our biggest fear is not that we are inadequate, our biggest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure"
-Muhammad Ali

You will never be satisfied with yourself - theres always going to be something bigger and better for you to idolize. Master yourself. you only live once, you will regret not going out just becasue you are not a tall person.....
in other words; People are still dying because of hunger...stop being a pussy, be thankful you are even alive SPAM, and stop being a pussy.

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