girls don't like me coz I'm fat, short/high/blonde/bald/sick/from another planet, so I'll post here and people will say "YES YOU CAN!!!", or they will say "HA! HA! YOU ARE A PATHETIC LOOSER"
well..
YOU ARE A PATHETIC LOOSER
crying doing nothing..
and then comes...
I know so much and learn but I can't approach because the season has changed and the stars are not in the right consolation
and she doesn't want to kiss me
she's crazy she doesn't want me
god damn it YOU know it's bullshit you invented!!! I'm tiered of this!!! THOSE Statements just give ... (here's a quote I won't write it differently anyway)
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I just really don't like when people want pets n their "struggling/sad/pathetic/emo" ego... I'm NOT saying you are, we all have this side, but don't nurture it, it can't help you in anything it only slows you down
and maybe it's a realization and not pet's on ego... well I'll tell you one more thing that might help... youre not special, it's NOT special, it's a fear you created, it disappears if you confront it, and there are NO pretty words that will fog it or put flowers or butterfly, youre afraid of sex with new partners, that's cool, every guy is a bit afraid, at least a bit, at least sometimes, it's not "psychological sexual dysfunction"
You know... not me YOU know it's BS, you want people to pet you and say "owe... so that's the reason.. " those statements give you 2 things : a reason not to improve, and ego boosters (the wrong ones, the ones which tap your ego in a "I have so much problems" way)
SNAP OUT OF IT.. be free, that's what this thing is all about
if you want to be helped be ready to be helped, try to observe, not others observe YOURSELF, see what's stopping you, and a question of "I can't overcome my approach anxiety" or "I wasn't in the mood so I didn't approached" is far better then "I didn't sacrificed a goat to day so I didn't approached"
"I can't understand this girl" is better then "this girl is crazy my game is the shit and she is a flake"
you want to learn to understand listen, don't cry around like a baby
CHAT