I just started going out with this HB9 and we like to go to clubs with our friends alot. She gets hit on all the time unless im holding her hand or standing right next to her. No one really has the balls to do it if im with her but when I get drinks or am talking to my firends guys always come up to her and start talking, and eventually ask her for her num. How should I handle this? I am very confident with myself and am not worried about her cheating on me.

Last week we were out and I went to get us a couch and she was on her way over, when some guy stopped her and started talking to her. She looked like she was trying to get away the entire time, but I just kinda laughed. Should I have gone over and guided her away in a polite way or just have not done anything?

I remember we were in the club one night when one girl kept smiling at me and slowely made her way over to me, and eventually she got next to me. Then my gf came out of no where and stepped right inbetween us and kissed me. Totally blowing the other girl out of the water. It was VERY sexy.. I was impressed she had the balls to do that.

Should I do somehting like that? Not kiss her or anything like that but should I be a little possessive? I dont intervien when guys talk to her cause I dont want to seem possessive or jelous.. But would it be better (hotter to her) if I go over and make sure he knows shes mine? After it worked when she did it to me...

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i personally don't think its a good idea to act possessive 99% of the time. neediness/acting possessive is not attractive.

i think you're doing great by being confident and knowing she won't cheat on you. this is the kind of behavior you would expect out of someone you know girls are attracted to.

also, it would also be of benefit for you to introduce yourself to the guy hitting on her, being the bigger person, and even introduce your gf (as your gf) if you really wanted to. last thing u want to do is become a dick and looking like a chode.

be non responsive dude just sit back relax do your own thing talk to your friends open sets speak to other women you have a hot girl guys are bound to hit on her

be the guy who dosent care why because you know your better than all these other guys who approach her in a bar let your girl enjoy the fools tell her to let these idiots spend there money buying her drinks saves you a fortune

basically be confident in yourself screw the other guys your a high value guy if this chick cheats she really wasnt that good of a catch and you have plenty other options in your live

she will be more attracted to you if you act like this because it shows your a confident non needy guy

That is how I usually act. Just wondering if it is the correct way to go about doing things.

I just find it odd that I found it attractive when she is possessive of me. She doesnt care if I talk to girls but when its obvious that girls are hitting on me she steps in and takes over, which I found very attractive. Does this apply at all when someone is hitting on her?

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Do it once in awhile but not all the time to show that you care about her.

Do it when a guy literally crosses the line. In other words; Becomes too touchy, refuses to eject, becomes frustrated etc etc.

Don't do it when guys are simply talking to her or trying to her number. Why? Because you're gonna encounter that all the fucking time. She's a freaking 9.

So far, you've done a good job.

Just look out for those extreme cases where it's probably best if you're there to protect her.

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I'll tell you my story of what I found really sexy when in this exact situation. Then you can make up your own mind if you like it or not.

I was seeing this guy (still at very early stages) and we went out to a bar. He went up to get us drinks and I sat at a table and waited for him. These 2 MASSIVE guys came up and started talking to me - one being more forward than the other - I guess the other guy was just his wingman. Anyway, the big guy sat down and put his arm around me and was like "baby you're gorgeous..." etc. real AFC shit. Anyways, my guy came out of nowhere, took one look at these guys, handed me my drink and was like "here's your drink babe" then stood up to his full height (6"2') and looked down at the one who had his arm around me and just said "Whats up, I'm James". The guy quickly pulled his arm from around me and started stuttering and then just pretty much ran away! It was great! And I found it SO sexy! It was like he wanted to show me off and I loved that.

You know man it really depends on your relationship; i.e. how long you've been dating; how much she's into you; how well you know each other and how comfortable you are with each other.

All of the above is great advice but of course use when appropriate.

For me if I have JUST started dating the girl and she is kind of in to me but not totally sure, I'd try to be chill about it. I might take her hand gently, smile, lock eye contact and pull her into my world.

If we've been dating a long time or are already amazing friends, I'd totally go in there caveman style, pick her up and spin her around, then walk off. Hell I do this sometimes with good friends of mine I've known for years when guys try to hit on them cause it's just fun to shoot down the other dude. Your g/f if she is annoyed by the other guy will likely appreciate this from you anyway.

Good luck,

Q.

The girlfriend is more of a dancer than I. She usually looks real hot for it too. I let her dance with whomever she pleases. If anything bad might happen I'll step in but it never has.

Anyway, I asked her how it made her feel when another guy hits on her and she said "I wish you would rescue me sometimes."

So I did, and I still do once in a while. It feels awesome to step up behind her and kiss her on the neck while some other guy tries to dance with her. Especially when she turns around and rewards me right in front of that other guy.

Ask her how she feels.

I like your style & ideals Floods7.

Contrary to the other posters,I dont believe if you'd have gone over and gracefully lead her away would be possesive.

I think that's alpha.

Yea,I advocate sitting bacc and relax.

But to an extent.

If this guy's going on for 20 min. talking to your gf, I think it's appropriate & alpha to go over with a smile,introduce yourself to the guy(with a smile).Drop an AMOG line by saying to the guy,"Hey,nice shirt man.Whats your name? Ok,seem like a cool guy."

Then excuse yourself by taking the girl."Hey Jim,we have to go.I like the shirt again man.Later".

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You don't feel comfortable with the fact that you just sat there, or you wouldn't be asking.

yes you let things slide and play cool - right up until she looks uncomfortable. if you don't step in the second she looks uncomfortable, ... weak. You will lose attraction.
See now I don't get why you even had to ask the first question.

Yes you just do nice friendly direct stuff that makes it clear. Sit down and plonk her on your lap. No need to walk up and pash her while someone is talking to her, embrace the conversation but make her yours. Same as she did when that girl came.

Conker

"You don't feel comfortable with the fact that you just sat there, or you wouldn't be asking. "

- dude what? I didnt say I was comfotable? What are you talking about...

"See now I don't get why you even had to ask the first question. "
- Yah I do have to ask cause I like it when she is very protective and possessive with me, I'm not sure if that would be a turn on for her.. ----SO thats why I asked.

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I would personally find it very hot. If the guy's been there a while, or it's obvious he thinks he's gods gift, or an alpha, I'd personally love for my boyfriend to come over and show I'm his territory. A slightly more passionate/longer duration kiss than usual would be perfect. If the guy is still standing around deliver an AMOG line.

Very very hot. Be our knights in shining armour sometimes, guys.

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I wouldn't recommend going in there a totally blowing the guy out. Its not always a good idea, because their is always the possiblility that the dude thinks she is by her self.

What if you were in that situation, would you want some dude to come in there and just punk you off like that, prolly not.

The reason girls do it, is because girls hate other girls, and they want everyone to know that this guy belongs to ME.

Remeber fellow MEN, we are above that. We don't worry in these situations.

The best possible way to handle this situation, in my opinion, is to go up to yourgirlfriend, and ask her to introduce her new found friend. And make conversation with the dude like you would with anyone else. If he takes the hint, you let him leave with his diginity. If he continues pushing the situation oblivious to you, then it's ok to push back by showing your girl a llittle affection.

Good gaming,

Samex

Way to

Wise words!
And indeed, this is true..
This saturday, there was an event at my school, and there was a guy who likes my girlfriend. And I see them talking, he's never had the balls to talk to her. And I had talked to him earlier, and he was actually a nice guy.
Anyways, I was actually thinking of going in and giving her a kiss, but after I saw the guy, I felt bad, not in a pitiful way, but I didn't wanted to damage him like that, so I just came in and showed her a tshirt I had made, and just put it on top of her, and the guy left, but I didn't blew him off.
I could have come and kissed her infront of him, or hugged, but I didn't do it, cause of respect to him.
Now if I see that a guy is clearly hitting on her, getting too touchy , I would actually come in more alpha.