-- So I go into this yoga place to promote the company I worked for ( a gym) and I get to talking to this frotn desk girl and I get some IOI's such as her saying that she has had similar problems with being athletic/flexible and I give advice and she likes.

-- Conversation ends roughly 7 minutes later and I recieve a handshake from ther on my way out along with a smile.

-- I come back a couple weeks later and ask if they are hiring and the HB-8 says not really because they only have certified instructors that run the place excpet for her because she knew the right people.

-- I ask if the hiring manager is around since i do that when I think people are bullshitting me or when I dont get my way when applying for any job and she say no but could give my resume to the Owner ~~ which leads into this HB-8 giving me here email out of nowhere so that I can send my resume to her.

-- I then write a simple plain message to this HB-8 saying to email me back upon recieving the resume so I could make sure that the transfer worked. A very kind/girly reply is sent back loaded with smilies and ends with have a nice day good luck.

-- I come into the yoga place and say that I never recieved any reply from the owner then tells me to send it again because she gets lots of spam. (THIS IS WHERE THE PROBLEM STARTS! We conversate she is very cheerfull to me as always says best of wishes and always ends the conversation with a handshake.

-- To show that everything is NO BIG DEAL/-words by mystery !) I wait one week to send the online resume through email again. I come back to the studio another week.

EMAIL SCRIPT - some emails are missing and some that I sent never get answered::

[ME] Hi melissa this is Brent from miekos fitness. Here is my resume. I am not sure if I am sending this to the correct email address so please notify me upon recieving this message. Thank you!

[HER] got it - thanks Brent~

[ME] Hi Mlissa this is Brent. My google mail is just a old account so I will just contact you through this one (aolmail) instead. I was am very excited to hear a response from Linda, the owner or whoever has looked over my resume and was wondering if they could use my help anytime soon? If you get a reply from any of the hiring managers or owers about resume you can send me a quick text on my cell if that is more convenient at the time. 360 *** **** Happy belated holidays, and make sure to set a great new years resolution! Stay healthy and active for the new years! – BRENT

[ME] I was just sending this as a test message to see if my new email account works. Hopefully it does, just reply back and say if it worked? Thanks -Yours in good health...BRENT

[ME] What's up this is Brent! My other email accounts kept loosing all my friends emails so yet again I made another one.. I think by adding people to your contacts it stops the loss of emails sent to you because I started doing that this morning and I recieved more of my buddies messages..hooray! So far I am recoverying from my last yoga class..haha and plan to come back for more trouble on tuesday. Jolly-O BRENT

[ME] What's up this is Brent! My buddies and I are going to this interesting psychic fair just minutes away from the mill creek town center and your invited to tag along if you got time. I am going to be busy this next week so you can text me and say if your coming or not - 360-*** *** Keep working hard on getting your yoga certification and DREAM BIG!

[HER] Hi Brent! Hope you had a good weekend! I also have a full time job at a mortgage company and with the time I'm at the studio, I barely have time to see my family and play with my dog! But thanks for thinking of me and the invite! Hope you have a great week and maybe we will see you at the studio soon!

[ME] HAHA that's awesome! What’s up Melissa long time no talk. JK ) I coincidentally applied for the mortgage advisory group in the Mill Creek town center today. I was looking at the front desk position qualifications and THEY MEAN BUSINESS.....;~) I have one year experience at front desk and they want at least 3 years, what a bummer because the benefits are incredible. So are you in the sales department or something of that sort, because it can be very stressful. I figured you would be tired from sitting at the front desk all night long, I totally know the feeling of that. I might stop by and say hello sometime soon. My body is so sore it feels like I sleep underneath a baby hippo at nighttime, so I am thinking of asking to clean the studio to earn a yoga lesson or two. Take care and NEVER QUIT WORKING WITH ALL YOUR HEART!!

==THE MESSAGE ABOVE WAS ONE OF A FEW THAT GOT NO REPLY BACK.==

[ME] just sening a message again to see if you recieve it,if you do tell me and hopefully we can plan a time to hang out

[HER] Hi Brent~ It's been pretty crazy right now. I work full time at Cobalt mortgage, work at the studio, and then all weekend I'm at teacher training. I don't have really any free time right now and I'm spending what little I do with family. Thanks for asking - that's really sweet, but won't work right now. Hope you are enjoying yoga! Melissa

[ME] Holy crap that is busy! you have a strong sense of work ethic, are you saving up for a home or something haha. Yoga was a really fun and successful experince for me because I slowly got rid of some pain in my shoulders and met a possible future mma sponsor, I think his name is brian and he wears those compression shirts that say fightpastor, that guy saved me from some bogous contract deals! Unfortunately I have to find a way to do some light yoga at home because I broke my hand sparring last night and I am not flexible enough to do it without my arms lol! remeber to not let anything or anyone stop you from your dreams and passions and keep that positive mindset that you awlays got! Peace, love and tye-dye - Brent


What went wrong?

I can't even begin to explain how needy those e-mails make you sound.

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ntm the fact you kept sending when she wasnt replying

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Stop man...just stop. Move on. Different job, different girl. Just stop.

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Lol, I'm am so fucking on board with you that you could consider me your peg leg. Spot on, the most needy shit I've ever seen in my life!!!!!

She said that she gets lots of spam and misses alot of emails that here friends send her.

i was not able to put all of her replies in because i lost alot of the emails so i did my best to put this together.

one of the last emails she sent me said that i should stop by her work to say hi so that means she DOES NOT see me as needy. there was just misssing emails in this thread so i apologize for the unorganized thread i made.

the fact that she said drop by might just be politeness or friendliness...

WAKE UP AND SMELL THE FLOWERS!!!!

you are EXTREMELY needy, this is SO bad, I don't really think you'll get the job or the girl with this attitude, it's creepy

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