Why is it that I fall in love with every good looking girl in my life?

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Because you have a scarcity mentality.

^True that.

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Because you have a .... oh wait -
This:

How do you change that?

By noticing how many girls are attracted to you. Knowing one girl can get replaced by another. Knowing every girl has something that can drive you wild.

this is a mix, you mainly go out and meet new people, you develop attractive traits (value) and then you top it off with assuming attraction.

What Chief said.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

Are you actually in love with them or the idea of love? Some people are in search of love so much that they see every new prospect as their next love. I'm not saying this is your case, just throwing it out there. Evaluate these women you are in love with. Think of the reasons why you love them. Are their values and ideas really congruent with each other? Do you two have any major differences? You need to figure out if your feelings are rue for the women or if you are just in love with love.

Additionally, there is a theory that we are attracted to our ideal selves....that means we are attracted to people that possess the characteristics that we desire for ourselves. If you notice that these women possess similar characteristics, you may be striving to fix some internal issue.

Anyway...those are just some thoughts.

There is nothing wrong in being in love with Women in general - Their soft smooth skin, silky hair, cutie eyes, beautiful nails - Which man wouldn't fall in love with them. The problem starts when you start obsessing about Just one girl or Over anything in general, thats the scarcity mentality.

It's not the girl, it's the process.

~David De'Angelo

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As a PUA, you must leave the girl better off than when you found her

Love is good, obsession is bad.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

Where do you draw the line between love and obsession?

magnum's trollin' again?

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Any of various disorders characterized chiefly by abnormal behavior or an inability to function socially, including diseases of the mind and personality and certain diseases of the brain.

Ok maybe I over exagerated. I don't litterally fall in love with every hot girl. But I did seem to have a check list and once these girls meet that list then I tend to care about them more than they care about me. I doubt seriously that I have a mental illness since I am able to function normally in society.

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