Negs are just an indirect way to say "I don't want to have sex with you" and reverse the roles so that she feels she is the one that has to prove herself to you. This effect is achieved by blending a compliment with a criticism (not an insult).

Example: Hey you're nails are very nice! Are they real? No? Well there nice anyway.

Negs are essencial in every guy's game, and I do speak for myself. If you feel that they're not working maybe you're not doing it right.

I always teach the guy's: "Don't memoryze phrases, memoryze the theory on which the phrase consists".

Put a smile on your face and you'll get the same effect. You're teasing her - not complaining.

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We're discussing Negging NOT teasing.

Different things.

Guys here confuse a lot negs, teasing and cocky&funny. They're different things for different goals!!

Let me explain:

A neg, abbreviation for negative compliment is a comment like if you were to compliment but got it backwards and actually did lower her self-esteem for some seconds. You should say it with a serious face. It's usually like this: "I love the color of your hair (compliment - IOI)! Is it real? (take a step back - IOD)", watch her value drop, "Oh they look nice anyway! (calibrate)"... AND CONTINUE...

Teasing: Playful comments to let her know that you don't take yourself too seriously and is fully comfortable. Example: with a smile say "What's up with the big bag. Do you carry a gun inside there?"

Cocky&Funny: Start cocky and add humor or vice-versa. This should build attraction. Example: Girl: "I have a boyfriend." You: "It's okay. I'm not jealous."

PS: If she's not a 9 or 10 do not fuckin' neg her! You don't want to lower the self-esteem of a 7 or you'll lose her.
Teasing and C&F work will all women though. Some will get pissed with C&F which is ok because they don't have sense of humor anyway.

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"Their compliance is,
'Does she grab your hand?' F*ck you! I want to grab her mind. If I can
grab her mind, she'll be grabbing whatever I want, any way I want her to." - Ross Jeffries

Add insults to your list.

People can not distinguish between:

Negs
Insults
Cocky Funny
False takeaways
IODs
Even Freezeouts
Teasing

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

So what if a girl is not a 9 or 10 neg her anyway or more should I say neg her as needed. What people don't seem to get is that every single girl is different and you need to adjust your game to the girl NOT to her looks. If you game girls by their looks you are going to fail a lot.

That is because some of those things are not so clearly defined when they get used. Its pretty dam easy to neg, tease and be C&F all at once with no clear defined line to what is what really. And because of this its pretty hard to see what is what due to all of the blurriness.

I completely agree! People just do stuff without knowing why, when and who they do it to. Just because it is in the method. But hey, they are newbies so who can blame them, when they get experienced they will understand. When you become good you learn to calibrate and see what parts are missing in your game with this girl. So always calibrate, if she is being difficult, neg her. If not, dont.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn