hey guys,

Need some advice on how to open 'the one'!
She attends the same university as me, and i sometimes see her on the computers at the library. I only notice her because she has a handful of mutual friends with me on facebook.

I'm more used to the bar/club game, so what is the best way to approach and open when i only see her occasionally at the library?

Also what do you guys think about trying a facebook routine?

any advice would be great!

Why not something like. "Hey, I think you friended me on facebook, I see you on there all the time." Then just be prepared to talk about mutual acquantances. Done. Ask her if she's single if you can't think of anything else during a lull in conversation. Shows you're interested in that.

I say go about it different I love library game I do it all the time... its make it more of a challenge that its usually quit... well I would do something more preschool like start everything by paper, usually I start off by sitting close to them and pull out a paper and playing tic tac toe... usually they laugh and play back, once at the end of the game I usually introduce myself and in this case u guys have mutal friends so say do you know insert a friend... from there she will say yes and then I would say ooooh ur (her name) (the friend) told me a secret about u... then act like your going to walk away... from there she will usually be like what what... then I would say well promise u won't tell, from there she will promise, go for kino and whisper in her ear a compliment, from there she will laugh and woooooo (u know like your wiping sweat) u took that better than I thought and say a friend told me about this place (insert) place we should go there it an awesome place (set time and date) grab number, and leave... using this routine I usually am successful 9/10 ... and my grammar is horrible I typed this in like 2 mins...

Haha tic tac toe

Great stuff. Onetime I opened when I was sitting opposite a girl with a laptop, and she had hers and I said "You sunk my battle ship"

It gives off a playfull vibe

This is called "oneitis," where an AFC obsesses about a girl he's never met. Here's how you win her:

Learn some pickup, go out and fuck like 15 girls and then ask yourself if she's still so great. If you can do this, approaching/closing your "one" will be easy peasy. Chances are pretty good she's not as great as you've made her out to be in your mind.

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Shit never thought about library game when I was still at uni

Here we go with "the one" again..

Listen, there are several ways of opening her. Since it's in the library, you can easily spot her personal interests and hobbies! Look at what's she's reading/studying for.

Depending on how much you know her as a person as well (if you don't know her as a person, you'd be an idiot to call her "the one"), you can easily open with common interests. This will keep her hooked and the conversation will hopefully flow - if you're not a socially awkward person in real life.

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