Don't know what kind of feminists you know :O

The ones I know and have hung out with have been fairly cool and down to earth people.

But in all honesty this is a choice for you to make, you personally have to be sensitive enough to be able to understand the difference between LMR, and flat out rejection.

hey guys, I think its amazing that you are taking your time out to help us.
Personal Question:
I'm a pre-med student, 6'1, 19 YEARS OLD, Asian/FRENCH and athletic. I've dated some beautiful girls. BUt after I broke up with my ex a while back, I lost a lot of confidence due to my acne and I have low self esteem with the scars, etc. I understand confidence is a big factor in the game, CAN YOU GIVE ME PERSONAL ADVICE ON CONFIDENCE AND HOW TO REGAIN OR GROW FROM IT?

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Grace Under Pressure

Well I suffered and do still suffer occasionaly from acne, and unfortunatly I know that society doesn't realise how much effect acne can have on the self esteem of even men. It really does suck I know.

So first of all, Hygiene, change pillow cases, change bed sheets, towels, clothes all the time, keep your face germ free and moisturise. On top of that revamp your diet. If you want to look for meds.

After that their is nothing more that you can do so relax and deal with it. For confidence, try meditation, sports, and hobbies.

Also paid and volountry work can help. Build yourself up, make sure you are doing stuff contributing, this is great for your character and for your self esteem.

For confidence, confidence in what?

For PU or anything, you just have to fight for it, simply JUST DO IT. Is the best way to gain confidence, it's a guaranteed method and it's the cheapest and the most bullshit free.

On top of that, look into some NLP to supplement yourself .

Hope it helps

Ironic you mentioned volunteer, I've been gathering funds for FEED THE CHILDREN. I work out, I play sports and I'm guess I need to learn how to meditate. I'm on accutane so I believe I need to learn patience.

I know it takes a while to master the arts. I will just do it as I work to perfect my interior which transcribes towards my exterior image.

FIN, THANK you for your help and it inspired me to try harder. Keep up the good work.

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Grace Under Pressure

Is it a bad idea to tell the HB you've been hooking up with how good it feels when you make out with them?

Whenever I fooled around with her I would just forget all my worries and just be consumed by the pleasure just like a drug.

You should tell her that...

1. It's honesty.

2. You let her know that she is wanted; and that is attractive.

Hurray you!

I have a question. I know this girl, we're not very close but we are both kinda interested in each other, have a lot in common etc. She texted me recently saying about how her friends are being bitchy behind her back. I don't really know why she text me telling me because I don't even know her friends and she's never talked to me about this stuff before.
My question is does this suggest I'm in the friend zone?
Also what is the best, alpha response to do when a girl starts talking about that kind of thing?
Thanks

hi guys im new to the game, and ever since a friend told me about neil strauss, ive been hooked and been trying to read through as much material as i can get my hands on, there is so much to take in!!

i have a few questions to ask about a really awkward date, but is this the right place to post!

It means that she disagree's with them, and as a result of feeling so passionatly against them, she had to tell you.

That's the most likely scenario in this case.

Good luck

Hee Guys!

My problem is that I just go blank if I want to talk to girls, nothing comes out of my mouth and you know the regular stuff (age, where she lives etc.) that's done within 5 minutes and I'm just another guy who's asking her that.

Can you give me some killer conversation topics or conversation examples which I can apply, just to have a conversation for about 15 - 30 mins, so I can use the time constraint method afterwards. Everyone is saying "just talk about something", I'm not looking for those answers, because they aren't helping me, hope you can really help me out!

Hope to hear from you!

This is simple because there are only three things people want to talk about with someone they don't know - in order:
1) Factual stuff as a reason to talk. This is things like directions etc
2) Themselves. Everyone wants to talk about themselves, just don't ask too deep questions such as what they hope to achieve in life. Keep it light and simple, try to pick up unique clothing or something like that and what made them get it etc etc
3) Yourself. If you want to move on from being a stranger to them, they have to know about you. Knowing your name doesn't mean they know you. If you want specific things to talk about, tell me where your approaching and it will be a lot easier to suggest. But as with number 2, keep it light and simple.

Madals

hey i learned a lot from your site but i need some help now.Im still in high school and im having problems interacting with people. I dont know why but i always give a good impression then blow it i want to learn how to keep it going. My goal is to become a player before i finish high school cuz i was a loser gr 9 and 10 and didnt aspire to anything. Any suggestions on where i should start? ive already read neil strauss book and it helped me a bit but its so much different in high school cuz some things adults would say to attract a girl arent accepted with teens. Like if i tried that stuff in that book everyone would think im gay. Any suggestions?

The Attraction code by Vin Dicarlo.
Also, look into frame control. If people think your gay its fine as long as you remain dominant in the situation and don't get teased for it (assuming you still get the girl )

Lmao thnks Madals but by gay i meant weird not girlish the stuff from the game wasnt gay it was jus too mature for me or the kids in my high school. I sorta got the social proof thing down already but its really hard because ive had a bad reputation i used to be shy. Also assuming i practice this stuff a lot how long do you think itl be for me to get good?

Hi, newbie question here.

So I met this girl on a party last year. And last year I did quite a lot of partying so I ocassionaly met her. But at the time I had a girlfriend and wasn't really interested in her. I broke up with my gf like couple of months ago and looking for new one And then I found her in my facebook friend list. And now I find her reaally attractive.

I must say I'm kinda romantic person so I came up with this "plan". I can draw a nice picture of her and then message her something like "I think I have something that belongs to you" and then basically meet up and present the picture.

The question is like what exactly should I write to get enough attention, because the facebook is the only contact that I have. Like I met her a year ago, not sure if even she remember me and suddenly I message her with pretty random thing. What if she asks what exactly that is I have? Should I go like "this will be a surprise for you"? Any other ideas?

P.S. This year I really dont party that much, cause my mates moved out of the dorm and it's kinda boring partying on my own, since I dont drink or anything. So meeting her on a party is hardly an option.

P.P.S. I'm not posting this in "Online sarging" cause I dont wanna spend much time chatting in facebook and like ... I'm using different approach here, u know.