I just checked a couple of articles, including one by you to get a better understanding of breaking rapport and I realised I'd just done this with a pretty sexually aggressive girl. however, this other girl isn't and I'm stumped for what to say to her, I feel like I've got nothing to go on (theres no way I could say anything about I'm not having sex with her, she's an ex so I'd freak her out)... are there a couple of standard lines I can tweak!

I don't want you to do the pick up for me, I just need a push here.

At the mo I'd go with... "man, I can't believe how much things have changed for me in the last couple of years, I know we're both doing well career wise but I'm definitely not your type anymore. And I'm pretty sure you wouldn't take my shit and I wouldn't take yours, and we'd argue all the time, I'd win of course! So we're prob not right for each other now. How have things gone for you in the last couple of years?"

Background if you need it...
We always got on well, she split with me because it hurt her that I wanted to travel without her. Now shes almost blocking me. I'd at least like her to be friends and comfortable with meeting up, but I've gotta break down her barriers.

Thanks man

Hey Adam, I am a college student and I noticed that I'm not as social as I thought I was. I'm not really shy or nervous around people in general, but I don't really say much and I don't talk that much unless I really really have to. I also noticed that most of my conversations tend to be very dull to both guys and girls.

So are there any drills, or tips that you can recommend me to develop my social skills and to help me become funnier, more humorous and be a better flirt with girls?

Greetings Adam. Good to know you're still gracing us with your knowledge.

I just screwed up with this girl. I won't lie, I'm hurt. I'm pondering how/if I should LJBF her considering the only way I can contact her now is through sms and Facebook, although she might not respond.

But looking back at our interaction I noticed that she responded well to disqualifiers and negs, which made her qualify and DHV herself. Throughout that whole time, she was into me and I kino'd her to the point where I was pretty much fondling her butt, but I didn't go further because I really wasn't interested in her and only began consciously gaming her in the last few weeks out of the five months I've known her in college (I'm graduating next week). It was really thanks to following your formula I suppose. Only just last weekend, I had been smsing her non-stop for 3 days as she was keen to talk to me. Now she's hardly replying and maybe even stopped.

I seem to be stuck. I didn't kiss her even though I thought things were going well before because I thought I had to show interest after qualification. Where things got bad was when I "rewarded" her with SOIs after she qualified herself. Apparently this pushed her away and now she's not attracted to me anymore. I've pinpointed my SOIs to be the start of my problems so I'm seriously considering not using SOIs anymore as it verbalised my attraction and caused me to get invested and act AFC when she did not react.

What struck me is that before verbalising how "impressed" I was, I was able to kino escalate her to the point where she didn't mind me touching her on her back, legs, butt and face because I'm assuming she did not think I was interested. I'm convinced I could've kissed her. But after smsing something like "Wow I like mature people. They're easy to talk to" when I qualified her based on maturity, she reacted negatively by not replying. And this was repeated.

So should I have discarded SOIs and rewarded her with escalating kino instead? Would it have led to a kiss and more? Should I LJBF her now?

She's not a knockout but she definitely rates as a 7.5-8 for me and whenever she posts updates on her facebook status, about 5-10 AFCs will leave comments immediately. She's also has a non-caring attitude which I guess counts as a hot girl mentality which means she acts differently from other girls so I'm not sure if what happened here is applicable to all my interactions. I'm led to believe that my negging + other qualities was what attracted her, but after I verbalised interest, she categorised me under "Friend".

Thanks Adam. I hope you find the time for this.

Hi Adam firstly congrats on becoming world number 1 pua. and what is
the best way of dealing with drunks on the dance floor during dance game despite using alpha male body language and elements of the dance game I still have trouble with drunks who deices to throw themselves around the dance floor knocking into me and others being compete idiots and cock blocking me because there out of it. what is the best way to stop this happening or at lest how to recover for it without looking like a beta male

Oh one more thing Adam. This one's short I promise.

How do you LJBF a girl immediately? I'm seriously thinking about doing that to all girls I know, then building attraction later. Also, is it fine to LJBF a girl after she put me in the friendzone? I've tried this on 2 girls who LJBF'd me and were acting cold, by telling them "Make no mistake, I wasn't interested in you to begin with" (disqualifying them/myself), and both responded really well. In fact I reckon I might be able to build attraction and escalate while I'm friends with them. This "being friends" thing is really starting to sound useful. It's also sounding like an illusion.