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PostPosted: Tue Dec 29, 2009 12:55 am 
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I work as a bartender in a busy nightclub. I feel as I should be "fishing with dynamite" in this position. I haven’t proved this wrong I just haven’t proved this right. I have had a couple of numbers thrown my way, even offered group sex from a couple of groups of drunk chicks. But for the real quality girls I would like to be able to ask more than "what can I get you to drink?"

I feel I am in a good position to talk to anybody because my value is already high and I am working/talking with a bunch of hot chicks.

What would you guys do from my position?

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PostPosted: Tue Dec 29, 2009 4:58 pm 
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This is an interesting situation. I can't really tell if you being the bartender puts you in a position of higher value or lower value. On one hand they could view you as their server and therefore lower or they could view you as being powerful because you are the one that people have to go to get their alcohol. The way you talk it sounds like your value is higher.
Its interesting because in a way you are kind of a hired gun.

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Really,I never thought of a bartender with game so I dont even know where to start.

I would think a bartender with game should pick up girls a lot.

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You being a bartender may give you many opportunities to " game " but are you sure you want to mix your job and fun together?
It might turn uggly if something goes horribly wrong.

My suggestion:
Instead of really running a game, this gives you an opportunity to work as an observer.

Try to run a game in your mind and watch how AFCs blow their sets and than come up with an solution why this happened etc.
IMO this can really help you in a long run because you are in the game. Maybe not as a player but as a guy who can observe and take notes how to deal in certain situations and how to avoid those other things.
You have the acces to a real life information so keep your eyes open and ears clean.

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PostPosted: Wed Dec 30, 2009 2:06 am 
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Yah Johnny I know what your talking about. I do pay attention, you have no idea how many chicks just use guys to buy them drinks. I do often go up to them and bust balls about it. I use that as a convo starter and always works. Alot of the bartenders have stories of doing chicks in the office downstairs or in the private party rooms, plus my boss doesnt care so I have nothing holding me back.

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