Okay Guys, I see this girl name Steph at lunch for the last 4 months, and I finally have the courage to open her up and her freinds. So I go over and game them, and the girl says she has a boyfreind so I leave. Then I go home and sned her a facebook request and she accepts it. So I use this opener.....

Me-

1. After a rigorously brief overview of your profile, I wanted to let you know I have already dated and broke up with you in my mind.

Thanks for all the wonderful imaginary memories... you will always have a special place in my heart.

your ex-boyfreind,

Ethan(Sunil) Patel

PS. You can keep all my hoodies I gave u, but I want my teddy bear back according to my freind AJ.


She doesn't respond back and takes me out as a freind. The next day I walk up to her and say.....

ME- Hey! How ru today?

STEPH- GOOD!!!!!

ME- Did u get weird messages from me on Facebook.

STEPH- Yes, one.

ME- Oh, that was my freind AJ.

STEPH- Who?

ME- remember the kid with the blonde hair and a beared at lunch.

STEPH- Yes

Me-Look the only reason I came to u because I thought u are really cute, and I didnt wanna say it because all ur freinds were there and didn't want to put u on the spot.

Steph- Thanks

Me- Whats the best way I can stay in touch with?

STEPH- FACEBOOK

ME- COOL


Then I leave and when I get home I saw her Personal Message on FACEBOOK.

STEPH- Sorry, im not interested.. i have a boyfriend. bye.


Then I wait and Christmas and my Birthday come, and I talk to HANK MOODY about what happened, and he tells me to forget about her, and I ignore what he said and send her another personal message.......

ME- Hahahahaha! Damn, u had to break my heart on Christmas Day and also my Birthday!!!!! Just because I said, I think ur cute and wanna get to know u better does not necessarily I asked u out. I think we should still be good freinds.!!!!!:)

STEPH- I dont like to talk to other guys when i have a boyfriend. bye


10 minutes later

STEPH- And i never said u asked me out... ur just not my type. so i dont think you should talk to me anymore from this point on. thanks.

Now, HANK MOODY is back non chat and I'm talking to him about this and he says Personal Message her this......

ME- Can u stop messaging me, your kinda being a stalker

Now HANK MOODY sayd let her respond and don't do anything, and she responds.......

STEPH- WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT!? your the stalker here, you first came to MY lunch table, YOU messaged ME on fbook, YOU stopped ME in the hallway...do you see, your the one who keeps contacting me. if i reallly wanted to talk to you, i would of maybe gave you my number, but hey, guess what i DIDNT. YOU'RE THE ONLY STALKER HERE, so get it right. your wayy outta my league and I OBVIOUSLY DONT WANT TO TALK TO YOU, so do me a favor and leave me the fuck alone.


ONE HOUR LATER.....


STEPH- * I mean im way outta your league.

This time I dont see HANK MOODY online because he was watching DOCTOR WHO on his compuiter and I just come out of the shower and see her responsea and then I respond to her........

ME- U seem really upset.....and im not joking either.......whats up?.......u can tell me, I will help if I can!

STEPH- Ew leave me the fuck alone.

ME- this is to fucken slow, and I have to leave to go to the hospital in like 20 minutes, do me a favor.....accept my freind request for now, so that way I can chat with u quick.....and see whats up?

STEPH- NO, DONT U FUCKIN GET IT.. IM NOT TALKING TO YOU SO LEAVE ME THE FUCK ALONE. SERIOUSLY, YOU'RE FUCKIN CREEPY.

NOW she has blocked me so I cant even see her profile or send her another Personal Message!!!!!

I totally fucked up all the PUA stuff I learned and went back to being a chode because I was obsessed with her, and this really pissed off HANK MOODY, when I told him about it.!!!!!

Should I een sayy anything or apalogize when I see her again?

ME-

Bless you for your courage to put that up here.


You should'nt have responded when hank told you not to respond.

Ok very good effort and presistance, that's a good trait. however, you may have miscalibrated because even after she showed severe disinterest in you, you continued on in a creepy needy way, imo.

When you said you've seen her for the past 4 months, that's too long. Should've approached her right when you saw her..simply because girls KNOW that you've seen them, and the longer you wait - the less she's going to desire you back. In my experiences.
That's why I always approach ASAP so that she has no chance to be like "oh he's not interested, we've made eye contact tons of times but he never says hi"

And calibrate in the way that if she gives a negative response, just go ahead and say hi to her when you see her anyways. I wouldn't have sent facebook messages after she de-friends me. Then it just appears really needy and low value. Plus, in person, she can't reject you as easily as on facebook... it's socially awkward to reject nice people

First negative comment = possible shit test
Second negative comment = possible shit test
Anything more then that you need to stop.

It was pretty AFC. We've all had moments where we pushed too much. So just use this as a stepping stone to learn from and move forward. Next time a girl says something like ''Sorry not interested'' just say something like ''sorry, I assumed by the way you were checking out my ass that you wanted to talk to me'' or something like that. Maybe tell her you just wanted to ask her some random question: ''My girlfriend wants me to get a tattoo with her name on it, should I?'' After a few negative comments though you need to back off.

This was a pretty brutal mistake, but we all screw up.

dJ vIrAl

its a pitty theres no clear line of when you should know when to give up--often fell into the trap of going that one round too many

It's harder to determine the truthfulness of statements online when there's no smiles, body language, etc. to check for subcommunication.

I think it's cool that you tried. Right now I'd say you should go out in the world since online game is a little harder than real life.

Good luck and I hope to hear more from you.

Duuuuuuuuuude dude dude, I told you to stop with the dumb shit (no direspect meant, all love). But seriously, this game shit, can often be so damn odd.

Perhaps though, if we do look at this in game terms. You may have came over too needy. You were trying to be her friend, or asking her to be your friend, after she was pretty harsh to you. Then you offered to see whats up.

I mean, theres nothing bad with this. But its just the whole tone of it, something seems 'off'.

Anyway, don't let it mash you. Keep gaming, keep evolving.

Much love

~Liquid Blend

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Wow thats pretty rough man. Don't let this get you down though there are millions of hot chicks out there. I would have stopped after the facebook PM saying she is not interested and maybe kept up some light talk to try to keep her as a friend. Again don't stop sarging because one chick, fuck her she's the one missing out!

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As most people have already mentioned, you came off as WAY TOO NEEDY. That is normally a huge turn off to girls.

But fuck that girl, there are billions of girls out there to get

I didn't read the comments but...

DON'T YOU EVER TALK TO HER AGAIN

Man you were needy and you have to learn when to just let it go... You crash and burned like 10 times with the same girl lol.

But I think you can learn a lot from this... and just take it easy and try with the next girl.


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