Hey Guys,

So I've been studying many different techniques from many pua books and I'm currently stuck in a situation where I can use help. I have a terrible memory so I don't remember a lot of what I read.

Here is the situation:

I met this girl a couple months back that I really wanted; at first she had a boyfriend so I let her slide until they split up. As soon as they split I immediately used every technique I learned and I succeeded not long after I kiss closed and a little more. We were steady for 2-3 weeks and two days she forces me to tell where everything was going. She already established we were together but not yet a couple a week ago. I say considering were together the direction would be a couple she answers she's not looking for a boy friend or a hookup buddy and that we should stop. I say ok and I ignore her for a day and a half. Today she texts me (not me her) saying she wants to continue being close friends just without the hooking up. I told her I'd talk to her after work.

Someone please help me figure out my next step, honestly I want this girl back I like her a lot.

Thanks,

JackC

So far I plan on using Ross Jeffries response:

I don't promise any such thing. Friends don't put each other into boxes like that. The only thing I'll promise is never to do anything unless you and I both feel totally comfortable, willing, and ready"

freeze her out. dont speak to her. seriously. its going to be painful to be around her all the time if you like her (which you do).

when you ARE around her, talk about this 'other' girl youve recently met. test her response. if she speaks to you like a true friend and is really happy that youve found someone, she aint attracted to you. if she sarts asking questions about this new girl and doesnt really enjoy giving advice on the subject, she is probably still attracted to you

if youre out at a party and shes there, speak to other girls, yes make her jealous without making it seem too obvious.

one-itis? Freeze- out, and explore other options. At the very least it'll may make her jealous and give you a chance. But don't let her get the advantage of you doing the chasing. Let her think your the prize to be won.

As far as using that 'just friend line' it won't work. Once a friend, always a friend. And girls don't fuck there friends. Before you know it 'close friends' means she'll be telling you about her 'feelings' and boy drama. My guess is you might of been this 'listener' type when she initially broke up with her boyfriend. Which is more then likely why your in that LJBF status now.

^ This is good but demonstrating this frame through your actions is better. By "saying" the above, you too are putting her in a box of sorts. I'm betting she's a bit scared of diving into another "relationship" directly after breaking up from another. Demonstrate that you're no passing flake and remain strong in spite of her withholding the vagina and she'll be back in no time. Especially if you combine it with:
But, speak to other girls because you WANT to speak to other girls. The end result might seem to be the same to us but girls are incredibly perceptive. If you demonstrate to her that she needs to "catch" you in a hurry because you're in high demand, she will . . .