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I'd say, talk to an HB9 as if you're qualifying her.
When I talk to 10s, I treat them just as bad as I treat HB 7s or HB6s because I know they're good looking but do they have anything to offer mentally?
Look at ANY girl you're picking up as no outcome.
Don't EXPECT yourself to get her, always treat the situation as if you're just there to have fun, kino, and MAYBE get with her. (your mission should be FOR SURE to get with her, but you shouldn't project that in any way.)
Just be that fun guy, treat her like she's your little sister, and if she says anything don't let it affect you.
If your little sister said "Oh those shoes are ugly" you wouldn't care.
Same with ANY girl.
Man, think about it this way, if a girl is pretty, she must be dumb, and vice versa.
So that will always have you thinking you're above her, aka not so nervous.
I'm not nervous around hot girls, because I always look as if there is something wrong with them, lowering their value to me, and setting me in the mood to do stuff I normally wouldn't.
Kind of like think everyone is in their underwear thing.
I get what your saying mate. Its like Mystery said "The focus should be on the system not the chain of events" (Or something along those lines) So what your saying is that it is the process that i should focus on and not the reward?
Where as with lower value sets i find it easyer as ive already achieved this. I have little expectations or worrys and therefor dont try to force an outcome.
Thanks for all the comments guys
Regards, Saint