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Many thoughts here . . . but I just want you kids to remember that ASIA is an entire continent. It's a continent that's bordered by oceans and mountains and wars galore for generations. Sure, the World is becoming smaller but to generalize Asia into one little culture is just . . . well, uneducated. What the hell would you tell a guy who told you, "Ohhhh . . . so you are American? I know a Russian guy! You are just alike, same culture! Both white man! Good for you!"

I can tell you from experience that a certain province in Korea has a completely different dating culture from another province that is only an hour drive away . . .

Guys, travel and meet some people. . . and read a few books once in a while . . .
Haha good point dude! My sentiments exactly.

Although one comment I am inclined to agree on is Sinns 'they don't like to show public displays of affection'. This is true of the asian girls I have dated, they are pretty timid in public but once you get them some semblance of privacy they become very willing.

No offence intended to any asians but I think because asian's all look very similar to white westerners we (white westerners) often fall into the trap of categorising Asian's as having a lack of diversity to their personalities. It doesn't help that many Asian cultures have a very strong spirit of unification and conformitism.

I know it's racist and it's wrong to say that but it's still a very alien culture to westerners so it's just human for us to group people into a category as a result of a lack of understanding.

Personally I live in Melbourne. Australia which has a very large Eastern and South/Eastern Asian poplulation, so I have had alot of interraction with Asian girls and guys (My house-mate is also asian). The reality is that they are really very similar to Western girls and can be 'gamed' in exactly the same manner you would game any girl. They really aren't the enigma many men make them out to be.

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Many thoughts here . . . but I just want you kids to remember that ASIA is an entire continent. It's a continent that's bordered by oceans and mountains and wars galore for generations. Sure, the World is becoming smaller but to generalize Asia into one little culture is just . . . well, uneducated. What the hell would you tell a guy who told you, "Ohhhh . . . so you are American? I know a Russian guy! You are just alike, same culture! Both white man! Good for you!"

I can tell you from experience that a certain province in Korea has a completely different dating culture from another province that is only an hour drive away . . .

Guys, travel and meet some people. . . and read a few books once in a while . . .
Haha good point dude! My sentiments exactly.

Although one comment I am inclined to agree on is Sinns 'they don't like to show public displays of affection'. This is true of the asian girls I have dated, they are pretty timid in public but once you get them some semblance of privacy they become very willing.

No offence intended to any asians but I think because asian's all look very similar to white westerners we (white westerners) often fall into the trap of categorising Asian's as having a lack of diversity to their personalities. It doesn't help that many Asian cultures have a very strong spirit of unification and conformitism.

I know it's racist and it's wrong to say that but it's still a very alien culture to westerners so it's just human for us to group people into a category as a result of a lack of understanding.

Personally I live in Melbourne. Australia which has a very large Eastern and South/Eastern Asian poplulation, so I have had alot of interraction with Asian girls and guys (My house-mate is also asian). The reality is that they are really very similar to Western girls and can be 'gamed' in exactly the same manner you would game any girl. They really aren't the enigma many men make them out to be.
yeah, man~~!! i am a semi-nerdy asian from HK, but i can gamed with a Beijing gal (westernize personality) easily.....................


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Asian girls... Are you discussing Indian, Chinese or Japanese girls? Because still these cultures differ big time IMHO.

Indian girls are relatively hard to get in London, depends entirely on their family, religion and environment. They tend to be more liberated and outgoing here, however, they are rarely alone. Usually with a bunch of crazy and aggressive ali-babas.


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I am Chinese, and the really FOB asian girls are my primary target. That being said, I think they are a lot different in terms of the way you need to handle your approach. When I first read The Game and got into this stuff, I tried the stuff on White girls and persian girls and found a better success rate, but when I finally decided to work on my own culture, I found it alot different. One major thing I noticed right off the bat is to eliminate, or at least dilute substantially, the amount of negs you use. Alot of them lack the westernized humor to appreciate them.

Secondly, keep your language simple. If you start talking with harder words, they give up on u (i think this shouldn't be a problem with the more westernized ones). Finally, I've asked alot of the asian girls I've gamed whether they would ever date a white guy or not. Most of them have said no, not because you guys aren't attractive, but because they don't think that a white guy would fit well into their social circle.

However, i find that good natural kino still works. On top of that, like some of the posters have said, amaze them with your knowledge, especially the things that they can most likely relate to. NEVER ever try to imitate their language, accent or go weird and ask about asian stereotypes, they'll just think you're weird. For example, sometimes when I hit on japanese chicks, ill talk to them about the difference between sushi (just so they can feel at home) here in Canada, and the types you find in Japan. We have a whole bunch of bullshit here that they don't have back there like.. Filet-O-fish roll, BC roll, and the infamous California roll. Asian girls, once you've interacted with enough of them, you'll find that they're pretty cool to chill with too. :D

P.S: I forget where I heard this but apparantly, Whites can't distinguish between two asians as well, and Asians can't distinguish between two blacks as well. No idea why, but hey, its interesting :D


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I am Chinese, and the really FOB asian girls are my primary target. That being said, I think they are a lot different in terms of the way you need to handle your approach. When I first read The Game and got into this stuff, I tried the stuff on White girls and persian girls and found a better success rate, but when I finally decided to work on my own culture, I found it alot different. One major thing I noticed right off the bat is to eliminate, or at least dilute substantially, the amount of negs you use. Alot of them lack the westernized humor to appreciate them.

Secondly, keep your language simple. If you start talking with harder words, they give up on u (i think this shouldn't be a problem with the more westernized ones). Finally, I've asked alot of the asian girls I've gamed whether they would ever date a white guy or not. Most of them have said no, not because you guys aren't attractive, but because they don't think that a white guy would fit well into their social circle.

However, i find that good natural kino still works. On top of that, like some of the posters have said, amaze them with your knowledge, especially the things that they can most likely relate to. NEVER ever try to imitate their language, accent or go weird and ask about asian stereotypes, they'll just think you're weird. For example, sometimes when I hit on japanese chicks, ill talk to them about the difference between sushi (just so they can feel at home) here in Canada, and the types you find in Japan. We have a whole bunch of bullshit here that they don't have back there like.. Filet-O-fish roll, BC roll, and the infamous California roll. Asian girls, once you've interacted with enough of them, you'll find that they're pretty cool to chill with too. :D

P.S: I forget where I heard this but apparantly, Whites can't distinguish between two asians as well, and Asians can't distinguish between two blacks as well. No idea why, but hey, its interesting :D

Thats a good analyse for Asian gals, I am Chinese as well, and I really got a fair look to attract Asian gals (Chi., Jap, Kor. and Thai................). But pasttime i didnt know what is the game at all, so i miss a lot of opportunities.............. :lol:


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iStyle, I like your comments, most of what is very true IMO. I am a British-born Filippino and I've only been with Fili, Malay, Viet and Chinese, what I refer to as "yellow skin".
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- Asian girls are a lot more dependent on their men financially and romantically (dudes court a lot more compared to the west which include things like paying for stuff and approaching etc. although this is changing fast as a result of the increasing Western influence) and as a result they are naturally more reserved & less emotionally secured -> what this may mean is that although they do find Alpha Males attractive (well, duh, evolutionary theory didn't just happen in the West now did it?) which is a similar trait to Western girls, it would probably not be advisable to neg them so much or use intensively negative . They already have such a low level of self-perceived value to start with, DLV on them will just make them crumble and view you as an weirdo asshole. However, like I said, this is quickly changing as the Asian female population is increasingly gettin more and more respect and social status from their male counterpart.
Watch out for Vietnamese girls, tough to crack but once you pierce through their stainless steel exterior, then you will be rewarded with a lot of love and loyalty, not to mention bad ass SEX! They're tough, I mean, my ex wouldn't hesitate to home her fist to a man's face if he stepped out of line, I went out with one for 7 years, her ex was in a triad gang and now serving time, no lie. They don't take any sh!t, but then again the same goes for Chinese. Hold on, I'm no way saying I'm an expert, but my circle of friends have always been Filippino, Chinese & Viet. I wouldn't steer too much on the negs, they'd probably throw something back at you with a little extra... from my experience, but then again every girl is different.
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- Asian girls are also attracted to the typical cliche male stereotypes such as the Bad Boy, The Artist, The Nurturer but one MAJOR stereo type that is favored the most out of all is the Sensitive Pretty Boy. Now I don't know why the fuck they love a pretty face so much (notice i use the word "pretty", not "handsome") - perhaps it has something to do with the genetic skull-structure of Asian men not being as masculine & strong as those belonging to other races as well as the inherent lack of hair which is also another masculine trait - but they do, and wayyyy more than a masculine face which is a dominant feature of an alpha male. So if you are blessed with a "pretty" face you'd fare better than someone with a "masculine" face based on looks alone. A rough example would be Gambler vs Sinn.
Well, no way am I saying that I'm a pretty boy, but I get told I don't look my age, and yes, back in the day I was lucky enough for the girls to approach me, but that didn't do anything for my gaming techniques nowadays! If you were a "bad boy" or "pretty boy" you had a huge chance than the average. Had I known some of the techniques mentioned in this foum & applied it during my peak...jeez, I would have been in heaven. It's weird, I've had women come up to me alot of the times, so I rarely had the experience to game, which is why now, you could say after 7 year relationship, is basically non-existent, hence why I'm here lol. If you present yourself well and carry yourself with confidence, you stand a good chance, clean cut, sharp-looking and well dressed. Again, I'm speaking from my experience only. Important that you don't get too close or try to whisper, and a touch is a definitely a NO NO!! I'd say personal space is usually a lot bigger, which ,makes it difficult to talk when in a bar or club.
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- Being romantic is also hugely favored by Asian girls. Things such as being able to play an instrument (soft-sounding instruments such as piano, acoustic guitar etc. NOT electric guitar or drum), being able to sing, being able to write beautifully and emotionally, being all fucking cutesy and shit etc. Romantic is also a desirable trait for Western girls, however, it is not what it used to be and I'm sure we can all agree with that? Being a romantic has become such a rarity that it's portrayed as something of a novelty in movies such as The Notebook in the Western society. I suppose you can blame technological advancements & the increasing demand on people to focus more of their time on work & socializing than courtship. How many times have you heard the over-recycled phrase of "I just don't have time to date!"?
Hey if you can dance, you got a better chance than the average. I remember "busting" a move and got the crowd cheering, if you got the balls and you know you don't suck then impress with dance and they definitely notice and want the guy that made the crowd cheer. Atleast have some rythme and make sure you have another move incase you get challenged =P

Also, as a most of the girls who go clubbing are in large groups, it's very common that they will be with some guys, better to observe before using the 3 second rule, or you may just end up going home unexpectedly. =P The guys are very protective and usually if you are not part of "the group" the outsiders will find it very difficult to approach and they will make it known. If you can catch them at the bar, then that may be your best chance.

Again, I don't mean to sound like I know it all, I'm just sharing some experience which will hopefullly help in some way.

Happy gaming...


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Asian girls... Are you discussing Indian, Chinese or Japanese girls? Because still these cultures differ big time IMHO.

Indian girls are relatively hard to get in London, depends entirely on their family, religion and environment. They tend to be more liberated and outgoing here, however, they are rarely alone. Usually with a bunch of crazy and aggressive ali-babas.
Asians (Indians, Persians), I found that the guys who looked "bad boy" usually get the girls. Try the "Pent House" in London on a saturday night if you like asian girls, it's full of Asian women.. word of warning, it gets really packed! But there's also another level which most of the white crowd go to, less packed but more space =)

.. just my 0.5 cents worth


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