iStyle, I like your comments, most of what is very true IMO. I am a British-born Filippino and I've only been with Fili, Malay, Viet and Chinese, what I refer to as "yellow skin".
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- Asian girls are a lot more dependent on their men financially and romantically (dudes court a lot more compared to the west which include things like paying for stuff and approaching etc. although this is changing fast as a result of the increasing Western influence) and as a result they are naturally more reserved & less emotionally secured -> what this may mean is that although they do find Alpha Males attractive (well, duh, evolutionary theory didn't just happen in the West now did it?) which is a similar trait to Western girls, it would probably not be advisable to neg them so much or use intensively negative . They already have such a low level of self-perceived value to start with, DLV on them will just make them crumble and view you as an weirdo asshole. However, like I said, this is quickly changing as the Asian female population is increasingly gettin more and more respect and social status from their male counterpart.
Watch out for Vietnamese girls, tough to crack but once you pierce through their stainless steel exterior, then you will be rewarded with a lot of love and loyalty, not to mention bad ass SEX! They're tough, I mean, my ex wouldn't hesitate to home her fist to a man's face if he stepped out of line, I went out with one for 7 years, her ex was in a triad gang and now serving time, no lie. They don't take any sh!t, but then again the same goes for Chinese. Hold on, I'm no way saying I'm an expert, but my circle of friends have always been Filippino, Chinese & Viet. I wouldn't steer too much on the negs, they'd probably throw something back at you with a little extra... from my experience, but then again every girl is different.
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- Asian girls are also attracted to the typical cliche male stereotypes such as the Bad Boy, The Artist, The Nurturer but one MAJOR stereo type that is favored the most out of all is the Sensitive Pretty Boy. Now I don't know why the fuck they love a pretty face so much (notice i use the word "pretty", not "handsome") - perhaps it has something to do with the genetic skull-structure of Asian men not being as masculine & strong as those belonging to other races as well as the inherent lack of hair which is also another masculine trait - but they do, and wayyyy more than a masculine face which is a dominant feature of an alpha male. So if you are blessed with a "pretty" face you'd fare better than someone with a "masculine" face based on looks alone. A rough example would be Gambler vs Sinn.
Well, no way am I saying that I'm a pretty boy, but I get told I don't look my age, and yes, back in the day I was lucky enough for the girls to approach me, but that didn't do anything for my gaming techniques nowadays! If you were a "bad boy" or "pretty boy" you had a huge chance than the average. Had I known some of the techniques mentioned in this foum & applied it during my peak...jeez, I would have been in heaven. It's weird, I've had women come up to me alot of the times, so I rarely had the experience to game, which is why now, you could say after 7 year relationship, is basically non-existent, hence why I'm here lol. If you present yourself well and carry yourself with confidence, you stand a good chance, clean cut, sharp-looking and well dressed. Again, I'm speaking from my experience only. Important that you don't get too close or try to whisper, and a touch is a definitely a NO NO!! I'd say personal space is usually a lot bigger, which ,makes it difficult to talk when in a bar or club.
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- Being romantic is also hugely favored by Asian girls. Things such as being able to play an instrument (soft-sounding instruments such as piano, acoustic guitar etc. NOT electric guitar or drum), being able to sing, being able to write beautifully and emotionally, being all fucking cutesy and shit etc. Romantic is also a desirable trait for Western girls, however, it is not what it used to be and I'm sure we can all agree with that? Being a romantic has become such a rarity that it's portrayed as something of a novelty in movies such as The Notebook in the Western society. I suppose you can blame technological advancements & the increasing demand on people to focus more of their time on work & socializing than courtship. How many times have you heard the over-recycled phrase of "I just don't have time to date!"?
Hey if you can dance, you got a better chance than the average. I remember "busting" a move and got the crowd cheering, if you got the balls and you know you don't suck then impress with dance and they definitely notice and want the guy that made the crowd cheer. Atleast have some rythme and make sure you have another move incase you get challenged =P
Also, as a most of the girls who go clubbing are in large groups, it's very common that they will be with some guys, better to observe before using the 3 second rule, or you may just end up going home unexpectedly. =P The guys are very protective and usually if you are not part of "the group" the outsiders will find it very difficult to approach and they will make it known. If you can catch them at the bar, then that may be your best chance.
Again, I don't mean to sound like I know it all, I'm just sharing some experience which will hopefullly help in some way.
Happy gaming...