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I stopped reading when I read after a couple weeks she didn't seem interested anymore.
This pickup stuff shows you how to get the girl by honestly being someone who most really aren't. It teaches you how to be interesting and be cool, but that can only last so long because lets be real, it is almost all an act. Once you run out of material which is what got her interested in the first place, then what do you have to fall back on? Yourself, your real personality. Work on yourself and become a better and more interesting person. You aren't going to get that done through routines and DHV stories which are blatant lies unless you alter change them to something that happened in your life. Even then, it is still an act regardless. Even though this stuff produces results, it doesn't produce a steady long term relationship. The breakup things are going to happen, that is what gives you stories and real shit to talk about.
I'm really REALLY surprised to hear you say something like that Ice. I thought you were one of the guys on the forum that knew that the best and most effective way to be a PUA, isn't to used canned routines, lines and fabricated realities, but instead to make yourself a more socially apt person. I haven't changed who I am in the least to become a PUA, I've just allowed myself to become the person I always wished I could be, but held myself back from being. Being a PUA is about giving in to your instincts.
Sure, maybe I was cool to begin with and had interests that any girl would find cool and interesting, such as metal working, electronics, videogames, hiking, cinematics and most recently (we're talking December, meaning after I became a PUA) World of Warcraft. I'm a big fuckin' nerd, but man I'm fun and I can carry a conversation. I've seen a lot and so I have the ability to talk about a lot of things and know not to dwell on things that others might consider nerdy.
My uncle was a natural and just incredible at attracting women, but he was ranked anywhere between the 1st and 3rd best Warhammer 40k player in Canada and typically the 3rd best painter as well. If you don't know, 40k is one of those turn based games that you roll one of those many sided dice for and have huge rulebooks, with little painted figurines. He had a gigantic movie collection, knew more about computers than I ever will and we built a room in his basement to be a theater room with a projector and everything. Big geek. Amazing with women.
The point boys, is to be round. Remember english class in highschool? Round characters and Flat characters? Dynamic and Static? The best PUA is a Dynamic Round character; meaning he is capable of changing and evolving (Dynamic) and that he is full of personality and many sided (Round). If you are making yourself a Flat Dynamic PUA, then you only have 2 sides. One side has the ability to attract women and the other is probably pretty far away from that, otherwise it wouldn't be on the opposite side of the Flat surface.
You need to be Round, with many aspects in order to keep people interested past a couple weeks and in order to be the most you can be. If you are staying Flat, then you aren't making the most of life, you are just putting on a false front overtop who you really are, you aren't growing and changing at all, you're still just the same AFC at heart and you haven't embraced what being a PUA is all about, you're just pretending.
If you feel the feel upset about what I'm saying, if you feel the urge to respond angrily, then I'm just going to assume that this applies to you and you should take my advice and make a life for yourself instead of lying to yourself. You'll be a lot happier.
CHAT
