Hey Chief, aren't there some drunk Indians back on the reservation you need to be looking after? Since you just coerced me into comitting suicide and all LOL Ok dawg, I'm gonna check out your link right now but for real, there was a time in my life when there wasn't a girl on earth I couldn't pull I don't think...And that was with NO PU skills; just me, but then I got paralyzed and I get nothing. Maybe it's just coincidental?

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"Do not go where the path may lead, go instead where there is no path and leave a trail"-Emerson

She’s my angel, she’s my lover
She’s my very best friend
I hate her cause I love her
So I hurt her again

Everlast - Angel

Anyway, i've had one itis before and they are hard to get rid off. Especially when they're really hot aswell. What i do, is that i think about everything that annoys me about her whenever she comes to mind. After that i just try to forget her and then i might not remember her until i see her on facebook or on parties. This is how i got rid of my worst case.

Can you still use your penis?
Do you still have feeling in it?

What techniques have you tried in the field?
Have you tried cocky funny humor?

It's not coincidental at all, homeslice. With your paralysis came a certain voluntary set of attached beliefs, meaning that you chose to associate certain beliefs with your condition. These beliefs that you voluntarily chose to adopt now hinder you from being attractive.

Sure, there are some strategical differences between sarging with legs and without, but the sexy alpha mindset must remain the same. The only thing you should have changed is your outer game, but you let yourself cripple your inner game along with your body. Let's fix that.

3 things you say to yourself in your head.

1) no woman is inherently special, they all just have vaginas.
2) if you have feelings for her, it means she is controlling you and betaing you.
3) Be greedy. Greatness is greedy. You should want every HB out there, not just one.

I really like this : )

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"Do not go where the path may lead, go instead where there is no path and leave a trail"-Emerson

Then I hope you also really like deeply-seeded inner game sticking points that are going to slowly eat away at your soul.

I have an alternative set of things to say in your head for you:

1. Every woman is special in some magnificent way, and seducing them is all a matter of finding that glory within them.
2. If you can't open yourself up to the full emotional spectrum of a seduction, including both the highs and the lows, you might as well just be sitting on your ass doing nothing with your life.
3. Give and share your greatness. You are overflowing with awesomeness and high value. It is impossible to be greedy and take value from others because you already have too much for yourself.

You're welcome.

I am going against the grain on this one I say you need to take off a few months and collect yourself ... go out in enjoy life and things ... do what you want to do for a little while and work on yourself ... I think attitude and confident is what makes you so you need to take some time to pick yourself back up and become that person you where before you got paralyzed even in a wheelchair ... and when your ready go back out there and sometimes you will be rejected, but with more attempts and not giving up you will find success ...

You said in one of your earlier posts you could get almost any chick you wanted before you were paralized. Maybe go back and try to remember what you did back then. Which you might have already done and might be limited in your methods now because fo the wheel chair. But im sure there are methods out there that you can use that being in a wheelchair can help you. Its not nearly the same and im not trying to compare to your situation but i recently sprained my ankle. The pain was nothing but i did it in front of a girl i was interested in and was embarrased because i felt that it made me feel weak that i could be hurt. After going to the doctor i had to go to walmart to the pharmacy to get some meds. I barley made it thru the entrance when an HB8 walked by and did an actually double take. (i was using crutches) At first i was offended and thought she was looking at me and judging me. But instead she offered me a little scooter to get around better. I politly turned her down but i could tell she was actually hiting on me.

I couldnt walk for a week but once i could i still limped pretty bad. For weeks I didnt need openers because girls would talk to me and ask about what happened. I usually wouldnt spend much time talking details since it wasnt the best story but it usually led to flirting and some joke telling.

Basically i would start researching how you might be able to use it to your advantage. Ive seen some guys in wheel chairs get all sorts of girls because he was ok with being in a chair and was spontanious and fun. He would do tricks with his chair and be the center of attention and pretty soon girls forgot he was crippled.

I understand that this dosnt really awnser your question but to be honest this site isnt about oneities and how to get them or get over them. This site is about PUA.


I cant imagine how hard it must be for you to be in a wheel chair and im sure it does limit you on getting the exact girl that you choose but even people who are not paralized have the same problem with oneities that you do. Honestly if the girl your into cant see the better person you are and dosnt realize your more then a guy in a chair then i really dont see why your so into her. Not to mention alot of the advice on this site will work agenst you if you have oneities since most of the stuff on this site is not intended for that kind of use. Sorry if this isnt very helpful but its my thought on the situation.

Skankin

You have crippled youself with your mind, you let your ego take over. You think your just some bum in a wheel chair so everyone will see you as that Bum or whatever you've refered to yourself as.

You should be way more worried about figure out what it is that is eating you up inside so bad you cannot let it go and face that shit like a man, accept it and then let it go rather than pick-up at this moment. Stopdwelling on what was in the past you cannot go you are what and where you are now deal with it or it will kill you slowly and painfully more and more everyday.

You've verbally gotten defensive almost attacked people on her that are offering help, why? Cuz your letting your ego control you not your emotions wtf you scared of pussy? Why you afraid to be yourself, I see so many people like that everyday. living in a shell of FAKE becuase there so afraid someone might find out they have feelings and are human too. Drop the badboy act it will get you know where but further down the gutter.

Okay i dont think we need to give the guy a hard time.

Basically i think what everyones getting at is your holding your self back not your chair. But thats not what your question was about.

But i said this in one of my other posts on this topic that this is the wrong site if your asking how to get the one girl your obsessed with. And yes it is an obsession not love. I say that because the way your acting is not the way someone who loves someone acts that is how an obsessed jealous person acts who dosnt get his way. This website is to help you build on your character and to give you the proper tools to go out and meet girls and bring something to your life you lacked.

I dont think they look at you as just a wheel chair and if they do its something you are doing. You need to DHV that way they know your more then that.

Also it sounds like when you were at the club with this girl hitting on other girls that your were attempting a direct approch. Sadly i dont think that is the best method for you now given your situation. The direct approch only lets them judge you physically because when you just out of the blue approch someone thats all they have to go by is what you look like.

You are going to have to use more method now that you lost some of your natural game. PUA is perfectly designed for your situation since it has tools to get you into a conversation with girls in a none threatening mannar and gives them a chance to get to know you.

Also when you hit on smoeone because of someone else or even for your self your almost setting your self up to fail. You need to just go and have a good time and be a joy to be around and pretty soon girls will be fighting over you.

Understandably your attitude is pretty poor. If i went out with an attitude like that i wouldnt have a chance. You seem like a good guy so dont let these women get you down.

And call ur F-ing friend back. Friends dont ignore each others phone calls just cuz shes got some trashy boyfriend. Unless you really dont want anyone in your life at all. Personally i would rather have the love of my life beside me as my best friend even if shes got some dude then sitting alone by my self e-mailed people on the internet about how much it hurts that she dosnt love me.

And i mean that respectfully.

You have too much to look forward to in life to be doing that. Besides if thats your picture next to your posts then you still got plenty going for yourself. You better get out every chance you got and try to meet any girl out there that sparks your interest because the last thing you want is to start getting old and loose your looks. If you think its hard to get a girl now what do you think its going to be like if your old, balding, unattractive, and in a chair? Not going to be any easier.

So be optimistic. The cup is half full. (i know i hate hearing that saying too but its still a good saying) Hopefully i didnt offend you. Im just trying to give creative advice and get you motivated to help those girls see you for more then a chair.

I would try to offer girls rides on my lap and id tell them its ok that i couldnt feel anything(even if i could) and make it into something fun. I would even work it so pretty soon girls would be fighting over who gets me or who gets a ride. Id tell girls they look too drunk to drive home and offer them a ride home on my lap. F it what do you have to loose. who knows there might even be girls with fetishes for guys in your condition.(if there are girls who like being shit on im sure there are ones who like guys in chairs) Good luck.

Skankin