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My style is similar to what Jaybot said. My attraction building is based heavily on eye contact and kino escalation, I'm confident I can build attraction fairly quickly. My rapport/comfort building however needs some work (main problem is I keep skipping it before closing which is leading to flakes) but generally for comfort when I remember to do it I just tend to find out about them and tell them a little about myself.
If/when I use routines it isn't often, any routines I do use are the game type ones like 5 lies etc or AFC Adam's dancefloor limbo which to be fair I do just about everytime I go out now coz it's so fun haha. I do these games with regular friends aswell though, not just for sarging.
I'd also like to recommend Gamblers "Natural Art Of Seduction", very good book.
Yea, i rely alot on my body language (eye contact, positioning, posture, kino, etc). I try to give out the vibe that i'm an Alpha male without the use of words. I recently got into the game maybe just a month or so now. My biggest weakness is talking. I am above average against norms out there, but still my talking skills needs a big improvement. One of my biggest strengths, like you and jaybot, is my body language. At times i feel it's a flaw because at times I give off the impression that i'm better than everyone else. But this is because my mentality is that. When I walk in a place I make sure in my mind that I am the man of this place and everyone else are chumps. So i feel I need to ease off on it a bit. Comfort for me is easy but one thing i need to improve with my comfort is patterning, fluff talking, and routines. I hold a conversation but the conversation is usually based on me asking questions and commenting on their responses, the girl i'm sarging throughout the convo will barely get to know me. One method that really intrigues me is Ross's hypnosis, this is one thing i've been working alot on. I try it on everyone i can get a chance (friends, family, girls, etc) and i've seen alot of good results.
For instance, last week my friend had trouble with a girl and as i was talking to him, and without knowing, I was anchoring his words and asking him how he truly felt about her and blah blah. And later during the week he makes a remark to one of my other friends that whenever he thinks about her, he always remembers back to what I told him, which was our conversation about how he felt and the feelings he got whenever he sees her. So if i can do this to one of my friends, imagine a hb. Getting that connection, and anchoring yourself to certain feelings that target is absorbing.
I haven't researched anything on Gamblers method but with the information I got from you guys, I think the combination of Gambler and Ross will be amazing.
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