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 Post subject: Re: 10's
PostPosted: Sun Dec 07, 2008 4:23 pm 
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I agree there's definitely a different vibe between a 6 and a 10, but it's all about reading someone.

To one person, the girl might be a 6... and to another, she might be a 10.
If anything, social calibration comes into play.

If you can read the other person well, you'll be able to do well.
Don't judge that someone is a 10 and automatically go with "10 game", because she might see herself as a 6 and then the "6 game" would work better.
agreed. its a mistake that i've made often and i'm sure i'm not the only one.

rather start off with X game (which is your "default" setting) and then calibrate up or down depending on the reactions your getting.


what kind of differences are there between game u run on a 6 vs a 10?
depends. an insecure 10 can be gamed the same as a 6, which means laying off of the negs. you'd also be able to get away with DHVing less and move into comfort quicker.
however, a 10 who knows she's a 10 will need to be knocked off her pedestal, which is why you'd use 3 good negs to shake her confidence and DHV a lot in the process to make her feel that she doesnt meet your requirements. you'd achieve this by disqualifying like "too bad you're not my type" or something like that.

the reason why i said to start your game on X (your default level) is because an overly confident 6 will need to be treated the same as a secure 10, so treating her as a normal 6 wont get you anywhere... whilst treating an insecure 10 as a confident 10 will cause you to over-neg and make you seem like an ass.


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 Post subject: i'M a nEWBIE!!!
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I'm new here and to pickup and plan to start full fledge with the coming of 2009. I just wanna say hi as you guys will be hearing from me alot..... Good info in this thread!!!


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loys of great ish here that ill definately keep in mind. I like all the pov and perspectives


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this is really useful


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PostPosted: Fri Jan 30, 2009 1:44 pm 
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My problem is that girls act like that have it so bad. I WISH thousands of girls would approach me every day, hit on me, and I could reject and choose as I please. They act so selfish sometimes, like they have to have what they want, and nothing else. They get hit on every day. They don't have to worry about never getting any attention.

Where as a guy, has to deal with being lonely every waking moment. He has absolutely no choice but to approach and risk rejection and take her shit, otherwise he is going to be lonely for the rest of his life.

But girls, they get hit on, get taken out to the movies, diners, clubs, almost anywhere, and they still bitch. >_>

They really shouldn't complain... They get to live life to its fullest. If men express their emotions, we are regarded as sissies, and low value. But if a girl does it, its okay, and they just get more attention.

Guys NEVER get attention. Simple as that. Attention would be nice. To know that someone really likes you.

Would it hurt girls to actually approach guys for a change?


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you got writing skills :P


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GREAT INFO....women love men that are, lets just say..."different"


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Some great stuff here, enjoying the site, new to PUA and loving the journey.

My advice from what I've observed/read/experienced is to have fun with this stuff, pulling girls is a fantastic thing that we have the opportunity to do in life, it's worth putting time and energy into something that can bring you so much happiness and mutual joy.

also, you can choose your mood, you can choose to be calm, relaxed and in control in any situation and that knowlege in itself is a wonderful confidence booster.

last thing..... i see a guy in a bar approach a girl, try and pick her up and completely crash and burn, he takes it on the chin, smiles and opens again....that man is my hero and a man I'd be proud to be.


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I might be just repeating something Style told us... but i have noticed my friends as hard as it might be to swallow reallly dont like the new changing me. Its almost as if IM making them uncomfortable. anyone else have something like this going on??


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I guess I'm new to all this stuff, but what's a DHV?


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PostPosted: Wed Mar 18, 2009 9:35 am 
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thanks for this tips :D


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PostPosted: Fri Mar 20, 2009 2:19 am 
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Nikkivegas "I might be just repeating something Style told us... but i have noticed my friends as hard as it might be to swallow reallly dont like the new changing me. Its almost as if IM making them uncomfortable. anyone else have something like this going on??"


yes very much so, I have recently gone to university and have become somewhat of a complete ladies man

it's great and stuff

but when I go back home at breaks from uni, I feel like my guys don't really fit in with my new skills and they feel uncomfortable.

I mean should this really bother me, because I am hitting successfully with 9's and 10's so it's really going pretty great at the moment.

I have reinterpreted my own peacock theory and think the posts in this thread are so true, especially about not being a faker and you have to make these PUA characteristics be in your normal personality.

It is not something you can turn on and off, it's constant. Even when you are walking down the street and you see that hot 10 with her man, hold her stare as she will smile back and admire your balls to hold it even though she is with her man.

Be confident in who you are, and interpret these skills in a way that you can keep these qualities in everyday life

That's the best advice I've been given!


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PostPosted: Thu May 07, 2009 4:12 pm 
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heres an invaluble tip, guys:

Don't dwell on you're mistakes.

When I was still mentally incapable around women, I would occationally slip up in conversation. Ya know, make a bad joke about you're target that she doesnt find funny, call her by her friends/sisters name, all that jazz. And all at once my thoughts would focus to that mistake. And it would bring me down. I would feel stupid, mean and incompitant. and it was all self-inflicted. But one habit I have developed through a lot of repition and conscience effort is to not let myself be detremented by these mistakes. The other day I ran into this HB8 or 9 that I went on a date with like last May, but because of scheduals nothing ever happend. well we ended up hanging out for a couple hours and I scored 2 more dates with her. Now at some point in the conversation, i called her by her twins name. And I started to feel dumb and inconsiderate and all that, but I repressed it. I kept my composure and focused my thoughts as best I could on the continuing conversation.

Now-I cant say for sure if girls pay attention to or care about this kind of thing. I would like to tell you they dont and to just forget about it, but I cant say that with full confidence because I dont know. What I do know is that letting these mess ups distract you and bring you down does not assist you in seduction. So ya mess ups happen. but the more you think about it the worse it is. So train yourself, practice, to not allow yourself to get caught up in your mistakes. it makes such a difference in your confidence and, ergo your game.

This thread is interesting... nice tip


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PostPosted: Fri May 08, 2009 8:50 pm 
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I would say check out collegepills.com. The stuff on there is the closest thing to a pua pill as far as I'm concerned. I take the party pill before everytime I go out. Gets me into pickup mode like crazy. It would be perfect for a newbie.


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