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heres an invaluble tip, guys:
Don't dwell on you're mistakes.
When I was still mentally incapable around women, I would occationally slip up in conversation. Ya know, make a bad joke about you're target that she doesnt find funny, call her by her friends/sisters name, all that jazz. And all at once my thoughts would focus to that mistake. And it would bring me down. I would feel stupid, mean and incompitant. and it was all self-inflicted. But one habit I have developed through a lot of repition and conscience effort is to not let myself be detremented by these mistakes. The other day I ran into this HB8 or 9 that I went on a date with like last May, but because of scheduals nothing ever happend. well we ended up hanging out for a couple hours and I scored 2 more dates with her. Now at some point in the conversation, i called her by her twins name. And I started to feel dumb and inconsiderate and all that, but I repressed it. I kept my composure and focused my thoughts as best I could on the continuing conversation.
Now-I cant say for sure if girls pay attention to or care about this kind of thing. I would like to tell you they dont and to just forget about it, but I cant say that with full confidence because I dont know. What I do know is that letting these mess ups distract you and bring you down does not assist you in seduction. So ya mess ups happen. but the more you think about it the worse it is. So train yourself, practice, to not allow yourself to get caught up in your mistakes. it makes such a difference in your confidence and, ergo your game.
This thread is interesting... nice tip