Simple. Explained in one amazing sentence from a show that most of us know and love (and if you don't, then you're missing out). Futurama.

Sure this may sound like a silly joking thread, but I'm absolutely serious! If you are doing things well, then no one will think anything of it. No one will think that you're a pickup artist, no one will think that you're anything but an awesome guy and that there's serious chemistry between you and the girl. If they can tell that you're using gimmicks, lines, routines and other tricks in order to seduce her, then they'll know it isn't real and it won't last long. It is still easier to get a one night stand with a girl when it seems like it is completely natural and "it just happened", than if she is amazed by your cool tricks and knows that they're tricks.

I'm not saying that you can't use whatever you have up your sleeve, just do it in such a way that it seems serendipitous to her and not something you use a on regular basis. Even things like magic tricks, or juggling (which is something I do sometimes) can seem like something you do because you love to do it and you like to share it with other people, rather than some ploy to get into her pants.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

true

I prefer Kayne West

"I gotta be right, because i can't get much wronger"

I don't get your post Rye... Did you even put any substance in there?

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Umm...read it again.

Basically if they can tell that you're doing something in order to make them attracted or to seduce them, then you're not doing it well. It may seem like a basic idea, but considering the lengths that most guys on here go to in order to try and "run game" on girls, they obviously aren't thinking that way. When you're running really good game, then you won't actually be doing anything, you'll just be yourself and it will work. Or in other words, "People won't be sure you've done anything at all."

I get told by a lot of students that I didn't DO anything when I got a girl's number or kissed her or took her home. I don't use lines or tricks and they don't see any magical moment when I won her over. Things "just happen" and the girl feels like it's magical and serendipitous and hell so do I. I walk away going, "damn I'm glad I ran into that girl, things just clicked!" Because even I feel like I've done nothing to make it happen, even though in actual fact I have, I've done a lot of little things like good body language, voice tonality, made it fun and exciting for both of us, connected with her, etc etc.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

It was a joke, silly...

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Lol...this is why I hate text so much!

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

Its like a Magic Trick.
The person you are performing for will lose their guard and wont bother to find the "trick" since you are entertaining them and as much they try to find out(shit tests) they can't so they just relax and enjoy your presence.

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"And yay God said to Abraham, taketh thy herb and with fire consume it, for it is the dankest of dank. Seriously Abe, you gotta try this shit. I'm baked off my ass right now" - Luke 4:20

Yes. Magic, intrigue, and seduction can only happen when there is uncertainty and mystery. When the intricacies of any mechanism, any phenomenon are fully known, the sense of awe and wonder is lost.

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