okay heres wat happened at the dance club yest....
though I was being real smooth on the dance floor I couldnt capitalize on it

reason being...
1) the place is so damn loud....the chicks can understand wat im saying
2) I take tooooo long to approach girls

only good news is
1) got smiles from 2-3 girls who liked what they saw...lol
2) I finally had the guts to at least approach 2 girls, though I failed miserably..

Are you joking? "dance floor is a trap" <--- Thats rubbish, i think mystery wrote that cause hes a poor dancer lol, i mean mad props to him he knows how to talk his way into a girls pants but can he dance his way?

lol if you know how to dance with girls and approach it becomes the easiest way to open, because you dont need to say anything! I mean I went to a club the other night and made out with 17 girls on the dancefloor, because I just wanted to prove 1. i could do it, 2. to see how effective and 3. to get rid of approach anxiety.

a little poke in the side will do the trick, obviously gently, and then hold out your arms and they take them you then pull them up to your shoulders which they then wrap around, you then put your hands on their lower back, eye contact, look at lips, back to eyes, then move in for the kiss close.

it really is as simple as that.

Man I wish I could do that...

First off, I encourage you guys to be the first ones on the dancefloor why? Because it tells all the women in the venue that your having fun and your confident, some nights Im self-conscious but you have to just close your eyes and be in your own world. No, Matter how long it takes you will be feeling cotton soft asses on your hips and buttox in no time... What you have to do on the dancefloor is look for the subtle cues of interest..

EC, kino, are they being reciprocated, is she smiling and giving you EC, does she wanted to dance with you period .....its alot but you will be surprised how good you can be

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Its Really Simple Kev, I Mean Fuck Me I Didnt Even Know How To Do It Lol Just Pluck Up The Courage, Its All About Experimenting, If You Can Manage To Get Them With Their Arms Round Your Shoulders Your In, Just Stand Closer Tilt Your Head.... And You Know The Rest Its So Simple.

Gimme A Shout If You Need Anymore Pointers, Im Happy To Help.

Just Wish I Could Transfer All My Pick Up Skills To Actually Being Able To Start A Relationship (N)

BTW Juice, Thats a bad lil pic, I wanna get some pics of me making out with girls, how did you do that? jsu got a mate to take the pic? did you ask the girl?

Thanks man! I'l try it the next time im at a club...need to get over AA first....

To be honest, I never knew he took the pic up until about 2weeks ago, that pic is from a girl I met in like May or June I think. But it was an awsome night, I still have the FR up on another forum if you want to read it!

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Dance floor is great place to pick up women, but you then nee dto get them off the dance floor to escalate further. see my dance workshop videos please keep an open mind as it wont show you the whole thing see

http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=mbxS44mYbU0

others videos at www.youtube/tazza32

I agree, that is true, but in my country, and im telling the truth, my social circle (whre I move) girls arent that easy. If I want easy girls I should move to another social circle, and girls are easier, but not my type, they live in the suburbs. I know If I go to USA or Europe I wont have any trouble making out with all the disco. In my social circle, the HB 10s and 9s are mostly girls that go to church, and we call them "nuns", so that SUCKS. They wont let you do anything, I mean you can dance with them of course but forget about making out there. Maybe If you have 3 dates with her.......

Lmfao, thats the thing, when your around hot women its great, but if they're not flirty, touchy or willing to do anything its boring as hell, they may aswell be lads!

Funny thing is though, some of these girls weren't easy, a few had B/F's! Which I later found out haha.

Hey guys, first post

Some quick background first. I'm still pretty AFC at the moment, and a virgin. Over the last few years I've been becoming more confident, but I still have issues with approaching girls, and especially talking. I'm not much of a talker at the best of times, and I hate sitting around when I go out (I work in animation. I have to sit in front of a computer all day!).

Which is why I like going to clubs. I'm a pretty terrible dancer I'd say, but I do enjoy dancing. I got the side to side swaying to the beat down, and can generally stay on the beat. The only time I've ever K-closed some one I didn't know to well, was at a crazy new year's party at a club which I was having a blast at and was really psyched for. So I'm thinking to develop my dance floor game, as going crazy on the dance floor is fun, especially with beautiful women! That's why i'd like some advice from you guys.

1.) Going out: Do you guys go to clubs alone, or with friends? None of my friends like going to clubs much, and when they do it's usually quite awkward and my energy levels plummet and I stop having a good time. Sometimes I feel a bit self-concious when I'm with my mates, as I'm afraid to get rejected or do something stupid in front of them.

I'm afraid to go out alone though, as I feel it might look a bit weird to just be jamming alone. On the other hand, usually when I'm alone is when the more interesting things happen. Is it advisable to go alone, or is it better to be with some friends because of stuff like social proof, or do you just look weird being alone on the dance floor?

2.) Being the first on the floor: This ties in with the top one. Juice24, are you the first on the floor only if you are with a group of friends, or do you do it alone?

3.) Actual approach: Does the poking thing or hip checking work even if you haven't gotten any clear IOI's? What if they clearly move to be closer to your group, but don't make EC, and dance facing away from you? Is their any way to tell if they are IOIing you, or if the IOI is for one of your mates (Or do they IOI groups of guys?)?

To answer your question, yes Im always first on the dancefloor! If Im feeling the music I have to be out there...I was very scared to do it to start off with but, I just close my eyes whenever I think about it. I think what you need to do is go out and desensitize yourself first. Talk to some people when the oppurtunity presents itself.

To answer your 3rd question yes this does work, its a night club, its not dancing its loud in tthere, i mean, my voice is high, it doesnt carry well thru the speakers so I have to use different methods, make sure you have strong EC and body language you will be amazed on how girls open up to you.

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Cheers for the answers Juice! Next time I'm just gonna dive in if I'm feeling the music. I think you are right that I need to desensitize myself, I'm still afraid of what other people might think.

Cool, but for some clarification. Do you hip-check first, then when you get their attention keep the strong EC? Or do you get the EC first, then hip-check?

My issue so far is i've been afraid to hip-check, butt-bump or whatever if I didn't get any EC with the target first.

Hip checking can be a form of saying Hi! on the dancefloor... or if a girl looks at you hip check her... and she bumps you back your in! Not in the set primarily, because they can walk away at anytime during the exchange.. You can choose to work some game on the dancefloor, with the material, I for one dont do it... depending on the situation. Some girls just want to dance, give them what they want. I run a lot of future projection and push pull on the dancefloor....

EC is more or less something that happens when Im first on the dancefloor, since your the first one out there.. your already bringing some attention to yourself... so people are looking to see if you can dance, even the guys. So, something I like doing and I usually catch women, Ill point to them and motion for them to come here... it works!

One girl, i have today who is one of my good friends.. says, it was my EC that drawn her too me! She was a girl that I got her number at the end of the night and then we started talking and became friends.. w/ a healthy about of sexual tension of course.

I got off point, whichever happens first is how ill do it, try it w/o the girl looking at you.

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