I am really happy how this thread is going. Tons of great ideas!

I'm adding 5 things to do to be more chivalrous, but not to look like an AFC.

1. When walking down the street with a woman, always be the one to walk closer to the curb. This way if a car jumps the curb, you are the one that is hit, not her.

2. When at dinner, stand up when a woman leaves to use the bathroom. Stand back up when she comes to sit back down.

3. Open doors and pull out chairs. Simple, effective, but soooo many men forget that one.

4. Carry her bags when they are overly heavy. I wont carry a womans bags at the mall. I am not her servant, and she has two hands. If she has a suitcase or a cooler (hopefully full of beer) that is heavy, I have no problem showing off my GDP (Gross Display of Power).

5. Don't over do the chivalry. You dont want to look like an afc.

CK

CK I am so glad you added this to the list!

One thing about community PUA guys is that all this stuff goes out the window because they now consider it AFC. Not always the case. If you can still show that you are a confident alpha guy then doing some of these things can truly win the girl over.

I am gonna comment on a few things though...
#2...Unnecessary. I think the only time you should stand up is if you A) showed up at different times and she showed up after you B)When you are being introduced to someone.
#3...yes to holding open doors, pulling out the chair seems like you are trying to hard (unless maybe its an official date and you do it ONCE)
#4...Excellent. If its obvious she is struggling then be a man and HELP HER! If she is just being lazy then say no.

acronym: LAS VEGAS

L is for Looks.
Genetics are not as important as grooming. Make sure you are wearing stylish cloths that fit you. Also make sure you're hair is trimmed and neat (back of neck is shaved too, girls hate that scraggly shit back there). Wear a conversational piece, something that is interesting that women will talk about (bracelet/necklace/arm band/hat/bright, colorful cloths...).

A is for Adaptability.
Make sure you are laid back, witty, quick on your feet. Be able to be comfortable in many situations. Be able to turn her on and be the bad boy, be able to handle the parents... Make yourself comfortable in any situation.

S is for Strength.
Having the ability to make the girl feel safe. Part of women's hardwiring is to have a man that will protect her. This does not necessarily mean having muscles (although this does help), being able to be confident and not phased by her shit tests projects this. Also having good posture and real-world skills help. Be decisive, assertive, have a strong frame, and be loyal/have moral values. Take charge of situations, be the man.

V is for Value.
What makes you better than the sea of average that the girl has available. Use ESP or other fascinating gambits or routines to convey this. Women want a teacher, someone who can convey dominance over her world. Also includes social proof, having women in your life. Being pre-selected by other women. Being comfortable enough to be C+F and treating an attractive woman like she is no big deal, because you have many attractive women in your life and to you, beauty is common.

E is for Emotional Connection.
The chemistry and spark that allows women to relate to you. Making her laugh, gaining interest in her, being sensitive, having commonalities. Having her feel exited, comfortable, and stimulated around you.

G is for Goals.
Women want men who have ambition, who have a path towards success. If you can sell you goals and make her believe in you, she will want to come along for the ride. Have a 5 year plan.

A is for Authenticity.
Inner game. Be able to make yourself on the inside the same person you are projecting on the outside. This means being content and happy with yourself, and be true with who you are. Women have strong intuition about men, and being authentic shows her that you truly are who you are conveying through routines and sub-communication.

S is for Self worth.
Confidence and being comfortable. Feeling worthy to be in the presence of others, especially beautiful women. Taking up space, make yourself as tall and wide as possible. Keep body open, shoulders back, wide stance. You are the prize.

dudes this shit doesnt make us more attractive!!!
girls dont go for looks
it does make us a bit more pleasant, thats all

1. When walking down the street with a woman, always be the one to walk closer to the curb. This way if a car jumps the curb, you are the one that is hit, not her.

- Do not, under any circumstance, wear your pants so low that your boxers are hanging out. Your pants belong around your waist, not the middle of your thighs. That style does not project high value.

1) Smile more
2) Take care of your feet. Shave them, clip your toe nails get rid of the dead skin etc.
3) Pluck your eye brows
4) Coordinate your belt watch shoes and socks. Example: black shoes, black watch, black and white belt with red socks.
5) Use a mask on your face once a week. They can be picked up at the pharmacy, and is great for your face and skin. It really helps re-juvenate your skin. I do this once a week on a thursday night before I go out. Women fucking notice because i have this great glow through out the night.

Ok, since you opened and read this thread, you MUST add a list of 5 things to be more attractive. This will be a compilation thread, and will help generate ideas that we can all benifit from.

CK